I think once in a while is okay. But other than that, don’t bother me daammit 😂 I always witness my grandpa expecting my grandma to bring him his plate of breakfast/dinner, etc. She cusses the mf out but then gives in and does it anyways. She’s a better wife then I’d be cause Nahh, that doesn't fly with Desi. He tried that shit a lot with me, and I’d always respond “Does it look like I’m headed to the kitchen? I love you but I’m not ya wife.” Plus, if you bring him his food he goes “Wait, you forgot the fork, spoon, knife, napkin, salt, pepper, soda, ketchup, mayo, etc.” He does this no matter who’s house he’s at, no matter what he's eating. So whenever I’m the one in the kitchen, the fam would try to tell me, “Fix your grandpas plate.” Lmao i do not know how to fix a plate for a man y'all. I either put too much or not enough. So yea, if I’m in the kitchen atm, i’d fix his plate. Then i’d walkout, sitdown and eat my own plate. About 5 minutes in, I’d say, “PawPaw your plate is in the microwave, you can go get it.” Lmao this boy ain't bout to play waittress with me. Gotta set that azz straight 🤣 #FeelFreeToList
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If my legs/thighs looked as toned as Tamia’s does in the video above, then I’d be willing to play waittress just cause i’d walk around in heels all the time, showing them off haha. I used to do that a lot during HS summers 🤣 I was workin the daisy dukes back then. Be like Beyonce and have to come out in a new outfit every second 😭🙌 64.media.tumblr.com/.../...iRioD1sbzal4o3_400.gifv i.pinimg.com/.../...6e9abf5532818252167ef7d801.gif
How often would you prefer your current/future significant other wait on you hand/foot?
for my significant other... there will be a million things I'll want to do, and I will do these things because I really want to and I don't mind it and also because yes, they are details of dedication of appreciation...
for example, cooking... if I am going to cook something special for you, I will do everything else for you as well because you're special to me, as simple as that...
now... so far, out of the six women I've been with in these settings, NONE of them has just been sitting and waiting for me to be their "maids" they all have joined me to help, or they have joined me just to watch me do all that and they want to be close as they see that going on
also... with all of them, these are things they also like to do for me, and most of the times, they do a lot more of these things for me than I will do it for them, and just because that's how they want it to be, or that's how they like it to be
I personally have never met someone who acts like this and expects to be served everything all the time... not in my family, not with relatives, no friends, no partners... I do know about neighbors though but they were from other regions where these things are more traditional or so they say... and well, that was them, it had nothing to do with me... lol
everyone I've been with, friends and partners... they're like that, the more I do for them... the way more they will give back in return so... why not make the most you can out of these relationships
I would never expect that from anyone much less my partner not any of my past ones and not my future ones either. My partner (when I have one) is always my equal not a servant.
A good wife should always cheerfully greet her husband at the door when he gets home, put her hands on top of his shoulders, stand on her tip toes, raise one foot behind her and give him a kiss, then help him out of his jacket and hang it up . She should always look her best - hair, makeup and cute outfit and high heels.
When he sits in his easy chair, she should hand him his pipe and favorite drink, then kneel, untie and remove his shoes and give him a foot massage before putting his slippers on his feet.
That is often a good time to give him a bj.
Afterwards, she bustles off to the kitchen to finish preparing the meal that she has worked on for hours.
When he sits at the head of the dining table, she serves him - pours his water, refreshes his drink or pours a glass of wine, puts his plate of food before him, always being sure to ask if there is anything else he needs.
After the meal, she clears the table, does the dishes and cleans the kitchen.
She keeps the house immaculate, too, as well as washing, ironing and putting away all the laundry.
A wife's job is to satisfy her husband's every need and desire.
Yea i guess i won't make a good wife then lol. I’m fine with the greeting at the door. But you lost me at makeup. Im not into makeup and wear heels like twice a year. If he smokes a pipe or drinks alcohol then he's not for me anyways. I dont touch ANYONES feet. Lmao. I’m fine with the BJ part. Me cooking? Haha nah. Serve him his plate? Only during superbowl 🤷♀️ Me iron and wash laundry? Thats what the cleaners are for lmao.
Oops, I must have been in a pre-1960s time warp. It was before my time, so I've only seen examples in old movies and TV shows. That's when women knew their place and men were men, not simps. Get it together, Des. 🤣🤣🤣 I get the feeling that that's what a lot of bitter young men on GAG long for. ROFL
What is she June Cleaver? Leave it to Beaver left unrealistic expectations for women The show was created by men so... that's how you know it's not real lol just fantasy. But my grandma was a really good wife to my grandpa. She didn't dress up like that but she would do some crazy things. Like during the snowy months she would drive her car and find her husbands car parked along the sidewalk. She would shovel out all the snow so he wouldn't have a hard time getting out. She did that every day until he retired.
The deal in my house was I was capable of making more money working construction even though I had a violent criminal past already had two strikes (nothing against women or kids) an 8th grade education no work history and an instant family of a wife 2 babies in diapers and a 4 year old so I work 2 jobs in construction and went to school first 6 years after school is when I really busted my ass and literally worked every single day for at least 6 years straight the other years was usually 6 days a week minimum and at least 4 hours (Christmas and Bdays) and the most I worked straight through was 27 hours on a concrete pour I destroyed my body and still get up to go to work in pain every day so my wife was proud to do for me the same as I was proud to work like I did for my girls of course there were a couple of weekend get aways in there so I would say she got the better on that deal also in grandma and grandpa’s defense it was a different time back then that’s how things were it was a sign of respect for the head of the household the matriarch and a lot of women took on that role with pride regardless of how outdated it is now it was how it was in gramps day so cut him a little slack he’s a product of his generation and I like the whole leave his plate in the microwave and he’s just staring at you not understanding what’s happening and you’re just grinding away
Nope never but once a week il put down that back, body massage rub then she stArts to act brand new sometimes being way too nice then I give her that look with my big lips too the side cheek look like YEAH OHHHH K don't BE ACTING THIS AIT HOLLYWOOD LOL then she snaps out of it like Negro rub my back it hurts I'm like yeah that's right tell me what too do baby then she like ummm I am just grab the coco butter and rub my damn back this time squeeze harder put your back in too it use those big ass muscles for once dig deep!! My face again my big lips jerked over to the right again like wtf she says what I'm like nothing baby u ready I got u girl I got your back literally bahahahaha lol real life I can't even make this shit up if I wanted too bahaha 😂 lol
Eh. It makes me uncomfortable unless they are doubling up doing something for themselves. Which losses them off at times. Even when really sick I don’t like bothering people and am incredibly stubborn. I would probably bleed to death being stubborn and be okay with that. : )
i think only traditional old fashioned women would do that for their husbands. But if you're expecting modern women to be servants to their husbands, you better believe a divorce will be coming soon. In modern times, marriage is between two equals, not one king and one maid.
Never. I’m no baby. Further it just shows how pathetic you are as a man if you actually want a woman to wipe your booty. Sad.
I had this talk with women in Colombia who were trying to get in my britches. They ran by me the whole cook, clean, take care, do the laundry, cater to, blah blah. And I was like “ I can see what you’re doing but it ain’t gonna work”
Just remember your tude when you're 80s and you don't feel like walking 20 feet to get your food and your kid/grandkid basically tells you to F off and get it yourself.
You have no clue what your physical state is in and trust me, your kids WILL treat you however they see you treating your elders. It's how life works. Good luck.
He spent 40+ years being a human shield for his wife if violent criminals ever showed up, doing 100% of car repair, household construction, repair/maintenance, household security, moving couches, fridges, cleaning roof gutters, and so on. Sounds fair if his wife makes him a sandwich. But you women will learn one day when men really start believing that "men and women are equal" and start giving only what women give. Ha ha ha.
I don't expect any woman to wait for me on hand and foot. Once I broke my ankle I still didn't make my girlfriend do anything other maybe drive somewhere or walk my dog but I didn't expect it she Just didn't because she wanted to.
I mean if someones already in the kitchen, i’d say like “bring me back a napkin.” But im not gonna ask someone to play waitress and fix my plate and all of that
I don't ever expect to be waited on hand and foot. My wife knows I can fend for myself. I help her get dinner ready a lot. We do household chores together.
I'd organise it around who is working. If both - takeaways. If just me, would hope she cooks. If just her - it'd be a first bit I'd cook/do groceries etc.
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