I don’t know. Just push forward with life I guess… focus energy elsewhere
What’s he not supportive of?
It’s happened more than a handful of times. Most recently apparently I was too harsh on a troll that called breastfeeding pornography.
I instinctively argue the “devils advocate” position with everything and my wife sometimes loses her shit over it. It’s often over things I agree with though. Is it truly meant to be cutting and mean or is it his true opinion? It’s ok to have a different option also.
Well… see there? I really like you and don’t even know your husband but I just considered his point of view. I didn’t even do it Consciously….
Now you know why my wife gets so damn irritated with me 😬 oops 🙊
😂😂😂😂😂 I think he instinctively argues devils advocate too. And I lost my shit. 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
I hope that’s the case for y’all! 🤗
Not mean per se. But
1. Not being comfortable with him and my MIL taking my 3 year old on Tower of Terror
2. My former boss sending me a dick email
3. A troll on the internet comparing breastfeeding to pornography
It’s a very beneficial trait for me making buisness decisions. Or even being a tradesman. To explore all possibilities before taking action without bias. To poke holes in all my arguments until I am certain I have answers for all possibilities.
I want to hear his arguments now for interests sake.
I am ridiculously open minded sometimes. 🤷🏻♂️
1. 3 year old is 40 inches. Disney says he can ride the terrifying ride.
2. Your boss is your boss. He can treat you like a dick if he wants.
3. (This one is so stupid, I think it triggered the pain from the above 2). I shouldn’t make fun of the spelling and intelligence of a troll.
1. Did 3 yr old want to go? It’s sketchy but I have 1 boy who would probably enjoy that. The other 2 kids would lose their shit and the day would be difficult
2. That’s an argument I can’t argue for…. But… if I try hard, if it’s “only” a dick pic, and no chance of physical action, is it worth the money paid to view his junk? 🙄 TBH I’d save the email and go destroy that man. At least secure a significant amount of your salary so you could search comfortably for a new job after some selective ass kicking. And the advice of a lawyer.
On the contrary I’d be unconcerned with a pussy or a dick pic sent to me. I’d just save the ammo as insurance and stay successful.
3. I don’t see the point of engaging in “any” drama unless it’s for fun. Trolling trolls is ok lol. Probably should be considerate of everyone’s feeling though regardless of your personal opinions.
And it’s not very satisfactory to be victorious in an argument against the mentally handicapped
1. Oldest was undecided and decided not to go when I told him it was a scary ride. Youngest happily went on it at age 3 and loved every second. Oldest enjoyed it very much at age 7.
2. I gotta watch my wording. I mean my boss was rude to me. Being a dick. Lol
3. Duly noted 😂😂😂😂
Being a dick is far better than sending one! Lol being a dick is par for the course
And it sounds like he was right about the ride if your son liked it
And…. Here’s what I’d say to my wife right about now…. “Are you on your period?” Because you’re awful emotional and I can’t understand why….
I still feel like oldest would have been upset by the ride. Youngest would swing on the railing like Tarzan. They are different people. Oldest is more cautious.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it started yesterday after he fucked my brains out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
See? 😏
Now go fuck some more to speed through it 😉
Maybe 😒
It’s good science!
Ok, for the sake of science, I guess. Lol
Giggitty! 😏
It would destroy me completely tbh
That is what it feels like when it happens. 😞
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I been wanting to ask the same question. I know I will be hated on by the many women bashing trolls. I'm falling apart & emotionally hurting. I'm torn between staying going or kicking him out. For 7years we had our ups and down. He has a gambling problem. Over $90,000 lost and in counting. Every time he brought us to debt I've dug us out. I would cut back on everything. I will sale things that were mostly mine. I would go without. I need shoes? Nope Sanitary products (sewn my own) clothes, a coat, my fav foods? Nope I need meds? Nope. I need health insurance? Nope. In fact my health insurance was always the 1st thing to go. My kids had theirs & so did my husband for me. It was a luxury We couldn't afford It cost over $400 a month. I cut everything down. I gave up my car so we would only have to register 1 car and have 1 car insurance policy. Sacrificed until we were out of debt. Then things would be ok. When things were good of course I was happy. But then He would do it again & again I'd fix it we'd be happy & again we'd crash. This last round last year worst the worst. He used the kids money & we were in debt on the house taxes & were going to lose it. I became depress & because I couldn't snap out of it & paint a smile on my face like I use he became abusive emotionally. One night I was yelled at by him because he didn't need me being upset making him feel worst for what he did. He didn't need me moping reminding him he f! cked up. I had to get over it. he yelled for 1hr 1/2 hours. I sat silently tears pouring. He got up said now let's go to bed. it snapped me. I said no he left to bed. I contemplated suicide. I actually was about to do it. Had the preparations set when my phone goes "bling" random message a G@G friend "how are you?" I dropped what I had. I called the person I had the number but never used it. They knew instantly something was wrong. They calmed me told me to leave cuz I wasn't safe. They were right. I seeked a therapist. Then a separation battle & filing for divorce. But 2 kids no where to go. We'd fight. He'd kicked me out. I slept in the car. Covid meant no shelters. He'd say I could come back home. sex was the trade. I put up with it forced a smile on for my kids. Things got nasty. Finally he hit me. I left with the kids. Bounced around until I had no where to go but back. He refused to get out. I threaten to call the cops but he counter threatened saying he tell them I hit him. Which would lead to both arrested so I put up with it. Kept pushing a lawyer to get the divorce. My man made it clear he wouldn't give me & the kids the house. He mocked me saying it would put my kids in a bad town. Then finally a breakthrough of sorts. He suffered a stroke he was ill. It is progressive. He had one more out burst but because of his diagnosis I had the upper hand. I was given shelter & he was evaluated. That was about 8 mo's ago. He's on meds now. He's calm down. Mostly sweet But occasionally he'll have a mild outburst. a few times has called me a whore or a bitch but we then adjust the meds. Now he is trying to make amends. He acts kind like he use to before this year. But I'm struggling to forget this years pain he caused. I'm not in love any more. But he's crazy about me. I tell myself to get over it. The kids need a home. I should be happy. I have food a roof over my head. I fixed the debt. The cars are paid for. He brings in a good pension. I should be thankful. I say remember my vows. He's sick he needs care. But I feel so burnt. We flooded 3mos in a roll. Lost so much. I think we could have fixed the issue if he hadn't gambled $90,000. Each flood I cleaned it up. He can't he's too ill. Then this week a letter from the gov. They want to know wheres the kids money. It was Thousands he gambled it he broke the law but I'm his wife this can hurt me too. I have to explain where the money went to. I'm stressed.
For the most part things have settled down. Like I said He's calmer and sweeter. The fighting stopped with him going on meds plenty of months ago. But it's the memories that haunt me. I'm angry at him. I want to be in love because who doesn't want that with their spouse. I want to be as happy as he and the kids are. As far as they know I'm HAPPY 😊 because I hide my pain. Money is flowing in nicely. I actually have credit on my bills. I have them all at least 2mos paid in advance. No issues we food and I for the 1st since married actually have health insurance 😊 so I should be happy. Yes we had the floods and yes I have this issue with having to show what he did with the money. But I think I have things I can say we used the money on... Like paying over $11,000 is house taxes this past 10ish months. And that I should be so proud of I DID THAT! I took a job and put every penny away to save up for the taxes. I once more saved us and got us out if trouble. But I'm so tired of always getting us out trouble or cleaning up after things he did. Part of me is screaming I want out. Let me free I'm screams divorce. To the hell with house split the cost move the kids out and rent... But my kids love THEIR home. I don't want to uproot them. I tell myself I'm being selfish. Wanting to be in love isn't necessary. I tell myself toughened up suck it up. Keep being his caregiver don't split the house keeps the kids secure in a fully paid for house in a safe good town in a great school district.
You are a wonderful responsible person. You must always understand though that you need to take care of yourself, so you can take care of those wonderful children. It is absolutely necessary.
I am so sorry. You and the kids deserve better. ❤️
I've not really run into that. She is pretty supportive and we are of the same mind on most important things so we kind of agree on the big stuff. Therefore we are supportive of one another. If we had a major disagreement on a big issue to where on of us was not supportive of the other I guess it would be new territory for us.
I would depend on what the issue was and if it was necessary or just a whim/want from one of us. WHO was initiating a change in our life situation? Was one of us trying to initiate a major change in our lives that the other did not want? If so the one trying to push this change that would affect our marriage may be the one to have to back off.
I don't know. It has never been an issue.
Give me some examples? What has he not been supportive of or what have you not bee supportive of towards her?
If it were a big enough issue and it crossed my boundary in a major way me being "not supportive" could be "If you do this and cross this line... the marriage is over".
How big are the issues are we talking about?
1. Not being comfortable with him and my MIL taking my 3 year old on Tower of Terror
2. My former boss sending me a dick email
3. A troll on the internet comparing breastfeeding to pornography
Ahhh in-law issues. Those can always be an issue.
Dude. Did that traumatize your child? That is a major... stomach in your throat... drop from 200 feet down to 10 feet in 2 seconds kind of thing. It doesn't seem appropriate. In fact, am I misunderstanding? That is the ride in Disney Orlando, correct? I wouldn't think an infant would even be allowed on that. You need a special shoulder harness to even get on it. They let a toddler ride that? Anyway, I guess you are traveling together and grandma is watching the kid/kids and just does what she wants and hubby is fine with it and won't tell his mom no? That is tough.
The dick email. I'm not sure... what is there to support or not support on that one? The only problem I can imagine is that are ok with it, tell this guy to sent them to you and you send hm flirty thank you replies and ask for more pictures and YOUR HUSBAND is not supportive of you DOING THAT.
Outside of that scenario... how is there support/non support. Are you wanting to report it and he is saying it is no big deal and don't worry about it? What kind of relationship did you have with this guy that he'd even pull this after knowing you? Who is not supporting who on that one?
3. Just hit ignore this poster. Why is that a support issue within your marriage?
1. That is the one. He didn’t go on the ride and I got a lot of hate from my hubs and MIL
2. He sided with my boss
3. He sided with the toll (I shouldn’t have brought it up 🙄)
1. Are you saying Disney would have allowed a 3 year old to ride that? Are we talking about the same ride? The hotel where the care drops from 13 stories to the ground floor?
That seems unfathomable to let a toddler ride that. I'd expect age and height limits.
So were you there and you told them NO?
I'm surprised a husband wouldn't stand by his wife on that.
Bottom line why does he and your in law care that a 3 year old couldn't ride that? In life you pick your battles. That doesn't seem like an issue a mother-in-law would take umbrage with or care about. A child's mom ALWAYS gets the veto power on what the kids is allowed to do, eat, where they are allowed to go and anyone not the parent should ALWAYS respect that.
Sorry to hear. You should really talk to him about having a united front and supporting each other when it comes to in-laws. You two are the parents... not the in-laws and they should always be expected to respect the parents wishes. They were actually mad at you?
Anyway... Disney let's 3 year olds ride the Tower of Terror? REALLY?
2. He supports your boss? He wants the boss to send you genital pictures? Why? Are you blocking this guy? Do you still interact with the old boss? What is the dynamic? Your husband sounds odd. I wouldn't want some guy sending my wife sex pictures so I'd expect her to block him. I wouldn't be glad about it.
3. Breast feeding. Are you modest? A little blanket keeping your boob a little hidden or are you just flat out topless out in public? Why do you feel attacked about breast feeding? Did someone ask you to leave a business? What brought this up?
This seems like a non issue either way. Maybe it is acceptable for a spouse to expect that topic to stay private and his wife's boob shouldn't be an internet discussion. But either way it doesn't seem like it is a big one way or the other. One internet adversary. That doesn't really seem to NEED SUPPORT or to not need support.
I'm with you on the mother-in=law thing.
Do you still speak or email/text with this boss guy? Was it his OWN private or was it some internet picture he sent as a meme or something with some phrase typed on the picture? Was this a "friend" and he was being funny or was this sexual... like this guy was getting off sending you his own penis or he is trying to get you sexually? I don't know the context.
1. Yes. Same ride. My 3 year old was 41 inches. Yes he would be allowed to ride.
2. Did I say anything about genital pics? I’m confused. Ohhhhhh. Sorry. By “dick email” I mean he wad being a dick to me. Being rude. 😂
3. My youngest didn’t tollerate blankets. He wanted to control when and for how long I breastfed the kids.
Oh, you said "dick" email. I thought you meant that he sent you a "dick" picture via email.
I don't know what you mean then. He was rude and acted like a "dick" in an email?
I guessed I misread what you meant. lol
Yes. Like he said something rude and pulled me from a project simply for asking a question.
I know girls who say they make sure to always have at least one close female friend to go to for emotional support if the guy does not offer enough of ur or is absent in certain types of important dialogues in their life. A lot of my cousin’s friends are close to her because they are unmarried and want a listening ear when they are in between relationships.
That is good advice. Thanks. It’s more like mental support. Support of decisions and not talking bad about me to family and friends.
If she's not supporting me that means she already doesn't love me anymore. That's how I take it and I would have to make some hefty decisions. I would try to see if we can fix it. Not married yet but hope to be one day. I cannot imagine going to and from work and not having the person I care about most in life not being able to lift me and rejuvenate my spirit.
Let’s say you were, hypothetically, together for almost 21 years and had 2 young children?
Religious how? We fucked after 3 months, married 5 years later in a catholic school by a Lutheran pastor.
Ummmmmmmm I dunno 😂😭
okay okay let me try to help you under both scenarios.
So from a religious standpoint you committed to life long vows to be together through sickness and health, for better or worse, I personally take that seriously, not every does. I'm not going to comment too much on that but if you're Christian that is a very serious offense that we've normalized as being okay in this country. Now that said he DOES have duties and if he's not fulfilling them then maybe it's time for family or the church to step in. I know this isn't a satisfactory answer, especially if not truly faithful so lets go with the next option and then a final thought at the end.
An Atheist Perspective: You've been together for 21 years and he's no longer showing you the support you need and require of him. Talk to him, be very clear about how badly this is effecting you. Stand your ground that you need this support or you will be extremely upset with him. You can give him 2 ultimatums 1) Divorce 2) He lets you find what you need elsewhere but stay together for the kids.
Final Thoughts: Divorces suck, most of all for kids. They have to be the priority in both your lives now. If he's helping to keep the roof over your head then it's something to consider. The other thing is the lifestyle change is not easy. You could consider divorce once the kids are out of the house but be warned. You are nearly 40 years old with 2 children. It's highly unlikely that at this time in your life you'll be able to latch onto another man that won't use you and you have to consider the safety of your children too. Sadly the highest rates of pedophilia happen in single parent households when the parent is not around. Now that said there are men that would still take you if they also have children but that is narrowing the field a lot overall. I dont want to see you end up divorcing and then being alone unless you'd rather it be that way. Talk to friends and family and ask for guidance on the issue. See if he's willing to go to marriage counseling. People say it never works but that's not always true. Anyways wish you the best and hope this helps a bit.
Yeah. We technically committed to all that.
Yes and yes. But he undermines me and doesn’t support me (a history of this) and can be controlling, manipulative….
They’re your number one fan they think you hung the moon and then boom it all falls out from under you the one person that is always supposed to be there through thick and thin of course it’s going to rock you the ONE PERSON NOT ALLOWED TO DO THIS TO YOU it’s devastating how can you trust them or anyone ever again when you know they did it once why wouldn’t they do it again some things can’t ever be fixed
Pretty much
Does not bug me. Love her to death, but she's her own person. I loved her before she supported or had my back.
I just love living life with her.
It makes me think about her thoughts and feelings on the matter. If it puzzles me i talk to her privately after the fact. In public i do not show any signs of noticing it at all. I don't want to undermine her sense of autonomy.
He sides with his mom, sides with my boss, sides with the fucking troll on the internet
Remind me why I am even with him the last 21 fucking years of my life?
Because when it matters he's just a hand hold away, and you know against all odds he will do what he can to ensure yours and your children's lives and livelihood. Maybe.
Will he? 🤔
Ummm, fingers crossed? I think you can find room to forgive and understand.
I've had to with my wife. And that coming from after leaving a baby mamma and my ex wife. I see a clear path with my wife, one i didn't see with the others. As long as i can see any path that leads to a future bleak or bright with her i can manage both.
Me and her just went through something similar.
It involves me seeming never to take her side. It was true in a way, but that wasn't the whole story.
We were scraping by, staying with our friend and her son. We are indebted to her and her generosity, so i of course was generous in return. She was keeping my wife and four children off the streets free of charge.
But my wife saw it as me being to generous, i talked to her and listened to her fears and images of the situation and really made the discussion about us and what we both felt on the subject. She had been taking our friend for granted and came to the realization that I was just being me. I'm the kind of guy that can't help but check on cars with hazards or investigating a cry for help.
When some one helps us the way our friend has we are in this together.
She just had jaded herself from the kindnesses of the world.
Maybe just talk to him, she had to tell me that it hurt her feeling never seeing me take her side.
WTF, it's a spouse, not your partner in business and crime. They should be your worst critic and you theirs.
Have boundaries of course, but they got your back and you got their as you are both looking for those chinks in each other before others do. If you are doing something stupid then of course they should not support you. They will sink right after you.
Hence it's more a question of how you can improve yourself, and get some respect, so that your partner supports you better.
Depends what you’re asking for support on. Sometimes i think its a learning lesson for the partner to not support you. Either they want you to grow strong by putting in your effort Or it just goes to show that the partner is a let down. But overall, he better have my back the majority of the time, especially when it counts
This is first time, you are complaining the attitude of your husband in the forum, before you have been declaring :wonderful and most successful married life:but now you are not happy with his present attitude, which is O. K for his and your boss, so I feel there is some problem with your attitude, I suggest you to look and revise your attitude
Marriages have ups and downs. And I have definitely talked about them.
Nothing wrong with asking for advice and it is an ongoing problem. No one here knows me in real life.
@loves2learn, sorry for my advice, some families have such rules that their family matters are solved in home, do not go out to strangers
@zygum I think it might be a culture clash but when I am getting steamrolled by my spouse I must seek support somewhere.
@loves2learn, OK, it is your choice,
Emotionally or logistically?
Emotionally, you can choose to take back your mojo and foster it within yourself. You can still love them, you're just not dependent on them for you self esteem.
Logistically, is more dependent on your circumstances.
Both
With time you become wiser to the point you accept and understand that even the god himself is not loved by all human so we are just human. I had to accept that fact there's no way to make everybody likes and Love me no matter what I do to them.
I did the best I could to her but nothing did work so I had to leave months later I met her accidentally I did talk her later she said through message I saw you you didn't talk me she wants back because she discovered the grass wasn't greener in the otter side
I’m not married, so if a guy I’m dating doesn’t support me, it’s just time to move on! One of the benefits of still being 18 and not being married. 😇
Heyyyyyyyy welcome back!
Hey babe. Thanks! I’m really busy with my 1st yr in college, so I just don’t have as much time to be on every night, but ill try to get on as much as possible. Thanks again, and kisses 😘
I never got married but I am the one who likes to sit down and talk things over rather than to break up or divorce I think it takes two to make things work If there are problems with me and the girl I want to know what is wrong, I want sit down and talk to her about what is going wrong so we can make things right
I have not really experienced this in any meaningful or major way. I imagine that it would be soul crushing.
A marriage is supposed to be a partnership. Each has strengths and weaknesses and through synergy they achieve more than they could if they were alone. Without supporting each other this never happens.
If it were me I'd dump and move on personally but that is strictly just me talking myself and not to anyone's else's situations.
I guess no wonder I'm not a guy who wants marriage. Thank god I have a personality where I like to just have my own company and interests and maybe a dog for a friend at home down the future.
If you think you are not asking support on anything wrong/harmful - and SO is not supporting you - you leave. There's no point staying on someone who holds you back.
Not that easy after nearly 21 years and two children…
Many, many, many, many times. 😭
Parenting decisions, breastfeeding, things that happen at work. He sides with others against me and sometimes would badmouth me behind my back. Thankfully it’s been a few years since the latter.
Well I would try to understand why they won't support me and if I myself have done something wrong like not have supported them in some other situation and probably reevaluate everything and see if we are still compatible
I’ve not done anything wrong he is stubborn.
Supports me in what?
If i'm married, all i need from her is lots of love, kisses, hugs, exciting sex 😄, delicious meals, clean and tidy house, a smile on her face, have fun with each other and she can be the financial manager to everything related about food and house needs...
Also i need her care, warmth and clean clothes...
She won't be only a housewife, but a princess in the house 😊
Thank God I read the update 😂 Does make me angry how long it takes to get over depends on what it was about and what his reasons were
They vary. He’s done this for years. To sum it all up, he is stubborn and does not like to be wrong. It is also one tightly wound individual.
Not supportive how? I always try to understand why and their thinking before come to a conclusion
You find when you are having a difficult time he tends to side with the other person. Whether it be his mother, your boss or a troll on the internet. All you wanted was his support and apparently that was too much.
Your thoughts?
I think I would ask why he refused to be supportive in that situation in particular.
Especially if he’s aware of your connection to the situation isn’t exactly on best terms
Because he is fucking stubborn and rigid. That is why.
Oh that escalated quickly. Sorry for the delay. He’s still your husband and hopefully you both can figure it out
I’m with this girl. She doesn’t have a job and that doesn’t bug me. I pay for everything she wants an needs. But if I want to do something or get something I get asked 1000 questions. And it drives me fucking nuts. But if she wants something it is in the cart. I get so fucking pissed.
So here you say you’re with someone. I’d be surprised if you’re over in 20 days. So i should pm you why?
Being the naive idiot that i was, i thought it was my fault and i kept telling myself that i should try harder to get her support.
Turned out she didn't care at all
Relatable. Unfortunately.
Try to understand what is making them feel that way and to see things from their point of view to get a better idea of what's going on. From there try to discuss the issue and find a solution/compromise.
I don't have to deal with this. My wife supports me in everything I do because she knows I do it for the family
That is beautiful
Strange this question coming from you since you post always about being in a good relationship and all
Not always. I post about the dark times too. More so in comments and opinions.
I've only dated very supportive people so if they aren't supporting me on something I take the time to think if maybe I'm wrong to think/pursue that thing.
I pray i never have to experience that. Im not sure i could recover..
I’m not OK 😭
I am so sorry.. I keep going over your question in my head, and the only rational thing i can think of is it might cause divorce.. I would have a powerful need to know why she chose to not support me. if it were rational, if she had a good reason i think i could accept it..
Divorce baby, divorce. If he can’t support me then I simply cannot support him. No support = unhealthy and unbalanced relationship.
Really depends in what situation.
She doesn't support my decision to get vanilla icecream instead of chocolate? Lol, forgot about it a minute after
Doesn't support me changing my career, that bothers me.
So yeah, in what.
Same here. I wish we can leave them. They should be able to listen and empathize at least.
Exactly. All we need is them to listen and empathize. Not side with the other side.
@loves2learn thanks for like!
I'm not needy by nature so I don't care about anyone supporting me unless its sexual. 😅
He sides with his mom, sides with my boss, sides with the fucking troll on the internet
Remind me why I am even with him the last 21 fucking years of my life?
Oh, you mean like that? That's more of a enemy. I thought you meant something different.
That type of little, stacking, lack-of-support is undermining your very marriage. I don’t know if I could get through that myself. I hope you both decide to talk to someone.
I would leave him if he doesn't support me. I think it's important that a couple challenge and get over it.
Would you leave him after 20 years when you have 2 small children together?
yes I would leave him. if he doesn't support you, then it's time to move on
A spouse means the other half of apple for you, and you are the other half of apple, u become one :)
I mean of course he always should support you
Especially such a great woman like you
Why doesn't he support you? Have you ever talked about it together
from my 2 divorces this was a BIG indicator.
huge red flag
never gotten married but that would make me feel sad :(
I think it's vital to know your spouse will always be there for you. I wouldn't deal well with a lack of support.
My ex is a narcissist and negative. All the fault was mine. I am not perfect but it was not 100% me. Divorced and happy.
I'm usually one who is used to solving my own problems so I don't really expect anything from my future wife but it would definitely be appreciated.
I don't support them back in hope they notice that there is something wrong and we talk about it.
Oh that's bad... One of the few people you expect to get support is your spouse and when you don't have it it's like.. why I'm with that person?
Why are you still married to them?
Because I love him, it’s been a 21 year roller coaster, 2 beautiful children
Hit them over the head with a shovel
Lmao 🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
They 2nd guessing your every move. They also don’t believe in you.
Never happened in 40+ years
I am jealous. I can think of 5 off the top of my head.
It definitely destroys me for sure
No idea. I won't have to worry about that.
It’d depend on what she wasn’t supporting me on.
Easy. I don’t have one. 🤪
Depends on the circumstance.
Am I right?
she either believes what I believe or she believes a lie and is supporting stupidity
SHE GETS OUT
Support on what?
A variety of things over the years. But parenting things, things related to my job. That sort of thing.
I think that's the bare minimum you can expect from a spouse.
Divorce. Why be married otherwise?
Because we have 2 beautiful children and the love is still there somewhere.
I sit on a bench. That will support me
If i was married it would lead to a divorce
Don't expect to them. After all it's not their problem.
I handle it
🧐🧐🧐🧐
@loves2learn heehee
To always speak openly and build a strong bond
I get disturb too but I try to calm
No spouse, cuhh😔
Silent treatment
Never productive in my opinion. As good as it feels.
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