How can I stop feeling guilty for being skinnier than my best friend?

[Anonymous]

My best friend is no longer in my life, because she shunned me (I left her religion).

But I still feel very guilty for actually losing weight. She’s been overweight her whole life, and very upset over it. I keep thinking about how she wishes she could lose weight easily, and I know she struggles with support from her family. I miss supporting her, I miss telling her she’s beautiful no matter what size she is.


This sounds so dumb, I know, but me feeling guilty over being skinnier is messing with my head. How can I stop being so irrational?

[Changiis07]

You have a good heart but you can't change the way you are. Some people struggle more with losing wait but it's always possible if they set their mind to it. Eating bad foods can be very addicting, you can call her beautiful so many times but that won't change unless she starts feeling beautiful and start making better choices to make herself feel that way and to start losing weight