Should I cut this friend off?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend who a year ago slept with my man, and later tried it on with another man I was involved with. We are still friends now (she’s my roommate) but she still does the occasional sneaky thing to me, she even read my private diary the other day. I can’t tell whether she changed or not, but sometimes I really feel like blocking her with no explanation for what happened a year ago. Would it be unreasonable for me to unfriend her?

[TheMajesticKing777]

No but realistically if she is your roommate then do it when you have a plan for that, perhaps seek for a new roommate first

[Asker]

Very true! I’m actually moving out next month anyway cos our contract ends so I can unfriend her after

[TheMajesticKing777]

Indeed

[jeremy_09]

Write things in your diary you want her to see, like sleeping with her dad or something.

[Guccigabbana18]

No, it’s not unreasonable. I would’ve unfriended her after the first offence but that’s just me

[Asker]

Yeah I realise I should’ve done that

[Guccigabbana18]

Dw, we all learn through these experiences. Most people wouldn’t (and shouldn’t) put up with friends like that

[Asker]

Thank you ❤️ I just don’t wanna stoop to her level

[whereismyjohnny]

You should cut her off when she slept with your man.

[Asker]

I know, I realise that now. Now I’m just gonna look like I’m bringing up the past and holding grudges

[whereismyjohnny]

Don’t worry about it. It’s not holding grudges, it’s removing toxic and fake friends from your life. She is the one who should be ashamed.

Maybe just try to find a new place/roomate so you don’t have to tolerate all this anymore?

[Asker]

Thank you girl! I need to put myself first. do you think I should try and explain to her or just ghost/block? I think if I tell her about her behaviour she’ll probs just deflect anyway cos she can’t take criticism. And I’m moving out soon anyway cos our contract ends in a month xx

[whereismyjohnny]

No problem ☺️ Well, it's up to you. If you feel like you need to explain yourself, go for it. Even if you don’t explain and just distance yourself from her, she’ll probably conclude it. Oh, the contract ending is amazing! You can finally move on. You deserve a much better friend who will treat you nicely and I hope you will find the one ☺️

[Asker]

Thanks again 💕 the only reason I thought of actually blocking her is because I don’t want her sneaking around my profile if I get a new boyfriend. I know it’s perfect! Thanks xxxx

[whereismyjohnny]

You are welcome 🥰 then block her, do whatever you think is right and will keep her away from you.

[Asker]

Xxxx

[mandyfire98]

Absolutely. I would have after she slept with your first boyfriend.

[Asker]

I know I really should’ve but I was a bit of a doormat back then. No more though!!!

[mandyfire98]

Good for you. Don't let anybody take advantage of you.

[Anonymous]

Do it. But also blame the men too. She didn't fuck herself

[Asker]

I did! I dumped him but I don’t trust her with anyone I will date in the future

[Opinion Owner]

Dumb the hoeeee

[Opinion Owner]

Dump****

[Opinion Owner]

Be bold unfriend her now!!

[Asker]

Ahaha thank you xx