I always help people but nobody ever helps me out when I'm in need of a help. Yet I can't stop helping people out. How to be not worried about it?

kinggeorge007
I have this ability of creating/suggesting solutions and making people good about things. Giving out positive thoughts and stuff. People seem to like my opinions and suggestions. So I like when they ask for ideas or vent to me for positive feelings from me.

But when I'm in need nobody seems to know what to say or what to suggest or they deliberately ignore them when they need to think of something and suggest me to do something.

When people want something they will call me or text me for very long times and I help them out throughout the time pausing whatever I did when they called/texted, but when I need something it's just one text or something and then they go silent leaving me on unread.

I just don't understand why and what to do about it. Any thoughts why?

PS: I mean I can resolve my issues and I know solutions to most of the stuff I face but I need a simple nudge or push to be in the right direction. Just a simple validation is what's needed. And I need it once in a while.

Even in a rare case when people suggest me to do something, they tend not to repeat the same thing again and again when asked the same thing again. (But for me, it's not a problem, I repeat myself when advising people. That's why I'm frustrated.)

Is it possible that they think I know what to do and they don't have to tell me what to do?
I always help people but nobody ever helps me out when I'm in need of a help. Yet I can't stop helping people out. How to be not worried about it?
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