Early. Probably be dead by the time they turn 30 and if the person doesn't die then they probably won't see their grand kids turn 18.
Besides the fact older women will have less healthy eggs and older men produce low quality sperm which increases the child's chance of being born with defects.
You should be old enough to have some stability in your life, financially and emotionally secure, since raising children will take most of your time.
You should be young enough so that raising children is not a physical burden on you. You don't want to be a septuagenarian when your child graduates college.
Later will probably be easier, because you ain't two kids trying to take care of a smaller kid that is screaming in your ears and shittin' itself and screaming some more
WE had all our kids before age 30. I finished paying for college a year ago and I am only 51. I know lots of people who deferred having kids and cannot retire because they are still paying for college.
I have three and love them with all my heart, but I hope they don’t have children. They don’t bring much joy, it’s a lot of constant hard work, they have you as a person, and as a couple, your restricted, less money, of course most people want children and love them, it’s natural and human instinct, but the reality of it doesn’t live up to the expectations. If anything, have them around 35.
I can't choose A or B this totally depends on the person and the couple and what they are wanting and their needs. This depends. There are people who can have kids and be fine early on and others who want or need to wait.
I had kids younger, now all my friends have little kids and I have teenagers and there's no one to go out with. Lol. It depends on the person and their maturity levels for sure. Very lonely to be a younger mom.
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Early. Probably be dead by the time they turn 30 and if the person doesn't die then they probably won't see their grand kids turn 18.
Besides the fact older women will have less healthy eggs and older men produce low quality sperm which increases the child's chance of being born with defects.
I select C - somewhere between Earlier and Later.
You should be old enough to have some stability in your life, financially and emotionally secure, since raising children will take most of your time.
You should be young enough so that raising children is not a physical burden on you. You don't want to be a septuagenarian when your child graduates college.
By all means, earlier. Our bodies are more flexible for easier birth, our eggs are better and we have more energy and stamina to take care of babies.
Very true. Your smarter than , well most women today. đź‘Ť
everyone is different.. and so are their circumstances
whatever worked others, might not work for you, and it doesn't have to
everyone has to make their very own sensible choices
Later will probably be easier, because you ain't two kids trying to take care of a smaller kid that is screaming in your ears and shittin' itself and screaming some more
WE had all our kids before age 30. I finished paying for college a year ago and I am only 51. I know lots of people who deferred having kids and cannot retire because they are still paying for college.
I have three and love them with all my heart, but I hope they don’t have children. They don’t bring much joy, it’s a lot of constant hard work, they have you as a person, and as a couple, your restricted, less money, of course most people want children and love them, it’s natural and human instinct, but the reality of it doesn’t live up to the expectations. If anything, have them around 35.
Personally we are having our children early (mid and late twenties) as neither of us wish to be old parents.
There is also the wish, hope and plans to retire by our early fifties.
My answer is: in the middle.
I don't think you need to be having kids at 18. But I also don't think you should be waiting until you're 30, either. I think 24-25 is a good age.
Genetically, earlier.
Financially, later.
Emotionally, it doesn't matter because children are nightmares turned flesh.
Sorry meant to press later... because when you are older you know what you want, have a career and you have money to make your kid happy
Earlier is better. From natural pov and from societal pov too. But I tend to focus on the nature's pov.
Umm earlier..
For women good to make baby before 30yo
For men too by the way cuz his sperm is on a good quality
When the following are covered…
1. Financial stability
2. love
3. Share value
before 30 for women.
My mom had me at 21, not very good for her.
I guess around late 20s would be great. 27-28 for me.
I can't choose A or B this totally depends on the person and the couple and what they are wanting and their needs. This depends. There are people who can have kids and be fine early on and others who want or need to wait.
Earlier for sure. Just a shame I haven't met a girl that I could click with yet.
It’s definitely important to be with the right person first.
I had kids younger, now all my friends have little kids and I have teenagers and there's no one to go out with. Lol. It depends on the person and their maturity levels for sure. Very lonely to be a younger mom.
Early birth makes women age faster and decrease their life expectancy.
Interesting, I didn’t know the part about lower life expectancy.
Pregnancy in general decreases life expectancy. Some studies shown that. Personally seen that too. Hehe
Wow, that sucks!
Better to never have them considering the state of the world.