Should I ask this friend about me wanting to know if there is a problem?

[kitty71]

Is about a group friends issue. I have small group of female friends as we were ex classmates from high school many many years ago and until like 3 years ago where we reunited again we became closer this small group. So from that moment we uses to hang out and go out and socialize each other, going to some bars or a house of one of the friends because of that we created a Whatassp group of just us (7 ladies) to chit chat, plan get togethers, wished good birthdays and other stuff. Most of the ladies are married and ahve grow up kids just 2 are single and childless (me and another lady).

Lets say we used to be close and text once in a while over the chat group. When the pandemic started once we did a virtual meeting and then like 5 months into the pandemic we met in a bar but with all the precautions necessary and the get together was fine and nothing happened. Then like one month after in December we again met but this time at a house of one of those friends.

Anyway we used to be close like that but then after that last December gathering , we did not gather again or even arranged a virtual meeting and only from time to time we texted each other but not so often anymore. Months passed, the pandemic was bad in our country and no get togethers anyway (but it was understandable based on the country`s situation of not gatherings and stuff like that) but over text we did plan that after the crisis got better we had to see in person again and all of us agreed on that. Well time passed things got better and when I took the initiative to tell them it was time to meet again, these friends simply acted uninterested, not responses from any of them saying something like "Sure lets plan to do something again it is time to see each other", they were in silence, no response for months. I dont know what happened to them, they were not like that, they simply stopped texting, even when I texted them and tell them lets celebrate the birthdays of any of us, nothing, zero

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word from them, not even my birthday were celebrated with them. I try to reach out to them twice, me seem to be the only interested one in gathering again like old times, and in those texts I told them always lets hang out, still no replies from them, so I stopped texting, as something must had happened in them or what was going on that neither one seemed eager to see each other again, they were not like that. Then I discovered that 3 of them had seen each other in person often but outside

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the rest of the group , even that 3 weeks ago those 3 attended a birthday party of another former classmate from high school (who is not even part of our chat group but we do know each other for years) and the birthday lady did not invite the rest of the group but she invited only 3.

So Im curious to find out what happened, if there is a problem with some of the friends on the chat group since simply all of them stopped interacting and no longer seem interested in meeting. Should I ask to o

[MC1100]

I would.. You will never know unless you do. But how you ask the question is anther thing. Maybe someone said something, you don't want to ask that person. Maybe they enjoy something you wouldn't so they are avoiding you. Maybe they are not vaxed and you are? It could be a lot of things.. Good luck..

[kitty71]

They are all vaxed. I mean I dont think I was the problem as I m the only one in the group with the nititaitve to ather again and inform that to the group. I mean if they are good friend and want to see each other again they wotn hesitate to agree and al of us start planning to see each other again. They all agree at first but how can be a problem with me if we have not even seen in person let alone even talk or text?

[MC1100]

Because they bought into the narrative pushed across the globe. Say i got vaxed even if you haven't and test the spirit in them. What ever you do, do NOT get vaxed. 5-7 years vaxed will pass away. Antibody-dependent enhancement plight.

[kitty71]

It could be the vax stuff but then later things got improve and I did not see a reason why not gather when all of them were starting to go out lets say to work or to run errands or trips with theri respective families, what is the difference there with gather with friends?

[MC1100]

Its like being unclean, a covid spreader in their mind. If it is the issue. Related to covid. Then say im vaxed. Even though you are not. If the except you back in the group. Then that was the issue. This narrative is being pushed across the earth. Nothing you can do about it. But beware, they are vaxed, their future is grim..

[MC1100]

The bible teaches, test the spirits and see what they are..

[kitty71]

I dont think not gathering it has anything to do with the virus. People already moved on with precautions and so are them so what is the excuse not to gather? If on emonth ago 3 of them gathered with other friends and not us? So as u can see the vax or the virus had anything to do with the issue of not gathering with the friends of the group bu they gather with other ones

[MC1100]

Are the other ones vaxed also? Really it could be anything. I was only giving a example for you to know for sure if it was the vax. That would be a huge one and is across the globe where people have not moved on due to their governments laws.

[MC1100]

They havnt blocked you. So you have the opportunity to find out. I would rephrase your question, repost on gag, how to ask whats going on as a group. Posts it several times, in different ways, if you have to.. Someone will have the answer..