Guys and girls, can you be just friends with someone attractive? (Page 2)
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Lol i will be there but i won't say i will be there as a friend maybe as a well wisher.
What came we do lol it should always be two sides other wise no use but also you can't change your feelings for them.
Attraction can happen with face but to maintain it closeness is required
Sure. It does get annoying, though, e we hen a woman who doesn’t want to go out with me cries on my shoulder, complains about how her boyfriend treats her, says she wishes he could be more like me, then goes and has sex with the guy she was crying about.
It's a complicated situation, but isn't it better to have them in your life in some way rather than none.
It is for me, and as for dating other people, it hurts at the beginning but I would want them to be happy, even if it's not with me.
( Speaking from experience).
Here's a rhetorical question for you, can a guy just be good friends with a female Instagram model? Personally, I very much do highly doubt that. I would be amazed if that were to be possible, but realistically... for the most part of things, I can't see that happening.
Yes I can. At one point the answer was no when I younger and immature while in college but as I matured and experienced more life I can testify honestly there are women out here in abundance and very pretty with cool personalities.
You just have to go out and you will be exposed to a lot of different women to choose from instead of just focusing on one that you think its "amazing" but the reality is they have flaws just like everyone else.
Obviously, a lot of my female friends or male friends are attractive, but I don't feel the need to stray from my partner... especially since I know my friends personalities and we wouldn't work out in a relationship.
Not if was a serious crush or anything. It would have to be more casual.. Like "I'd be dtf of you were, but since you aren't, it's cool. We can still have other common interests that don't involve uh.. That.."
You're damn right. I mean, just look at some of my quertions and you'll see how feelings distort or destroy a friendship dynamic, and you'll also get a peek into my weird mind. Thank you in advance lol, leave opinions if you want to.
Sure.. my definition of a friend is someone who will be there for me if I need them (and vice versa)
How attractive they may or may not be is irrelevant.
No, that attraction won't go away and I'll start feeling jealous when she mentions her new boyfriend and I'll sure as hell go ballistic when she invites me to her wedding.
I definitely could cause my conversational energy is wider and broader than my visual or sentimental energy, so long as it’s just a crush and not love.
Why would I be just friends with someone I fancy? For me if we’re just friends then you’re completely friend-zoned.
I've been friends with a few attractive girls and guys before , and we are still 'just friends' , so ig its possible haha
If you can think of them just as friends, anything is possible. But if you are still trying to get with them while being their friend, you're just being a shitty friend.
I've tried it several times before and it didn't work out. I should only be friends with men I'm not attracted to. It's for the better.
Yes this happened to me too. After I showed interest and affection, She denied me and I felt bad, therefore after I wasn't friend with her anymore, just hi and it's done. We chatted a little in FB but not frequently. I felt so bad really, so bad I stayed away from her.
@TwiNshichamp1 I'm sorry about that. It really does suck.
Fr girl lol
with someone i find attractive and want to date... i can't. If i feel no attraction i can.
Just to be clear im just talking about feelings here. i can be friends with a woman who looks attractive but i have to feel no actual attraction to her to do so.
I got you 😉
Doin it right now and its working perfectly. I get that its not a very common thing but I lucked out and me and this girl are best friends with no romantic tension at all. It is purely platonic.
Guys are only friends with girls they would like to fuck... girls do the same
Not. I make friends with anyone as long as they’re not 🐍
No, not really friends. A friend is a very loose term where exs and love/sexual interests get wrapped up. I don't think true friendship is based on attractiveness, which is why I think it's best to befriend those you don't have sexual intentions for.
Yes I can be. There are a lot of good looking men in the world but doesn’t mean I want them all.
If they don't like me back then they aren't my dream person. So yes of course.