If someone calls you a horrible person, is there ever an element of truth to it?

[Anonymous]

Someone called my best friend a horrible person, because she slept with a married man and then made fun of his wife. My best friend is distraught, and obviously I think what she did was not right, but I'll stand by her. But she refuses to acknowledge the person who said she's a bad person. Do you think there's ever an element of truth when someone calls us that?

[Anonymous]

Just to make sure I read that right:


Your friend slept with a married man and is now trying to play the victim because she got called out?


Your friend is a horrible person, and she should be ashamed of herself. There is no excuse for cheating, or being an affair partner (knowingly), but then she went and made fun of the woman? What an ass she must be.

[Asker]

Yes thank you, you did read it right!

I have always had her back, but I don't agree with what she did. She has come crying to me and to the man (who is now her new boyfriend) and I don't know what to say because everyone is saying she's not a nice person while she says they're being horrible to her and she can't help who she likes or wants to be with. I have a different experience of her, but then again if she can do this to someone else, it might show a lot about her character.

[Jen_27]

Yeah she's deserved to be call horrible person but ur not ur just stand with your friend side but you shouldn't stand with her she's really horrible person and you should see that married man's wife side.

[Agape93]

Depends but yeah usually

[jahaims]

Obviously she is a horrible person

[LazerBean]

For sure.

[Anonymous]

It depends.