Did we raise our daughter wrong?

[Anonymous]

mom and dad are doctors. my wife and I have a clinic, and our annual salary exceeds $ 2-3 million. we raised our daughter like in the movie Clueless. we have tried to offer a comfortable and very very luxurious life. The way they dressed, the way they ate, it was just like that girl. I was very happy about this at first. But then for some reason the wolf fell into me, as if we were doing it wrong, we spoiled it too much. my daughter is someone who does not look at anyone from above, tries to help everyone with a very kind heart. I mean, those who watch gossip girl also know that blair and Serena are a mix of girls. the school he goes to is the most expensive high school in New York. But I feel like we're doing a lot wrong. how can I stop this? Our daughter lives more luxuriously than we do. Mom said the other day that you spoiled this child, and you will bear the result. what consequences can there be when you grow up

[Avicenna]

How old is she? It may be too late for her to learn from you- she may have to learn the hard way from others.

[Asker]

18 years old

[Avicenna]

Yeah, she's going to have to learn from life experiences. What you can do is reduce how much money you give her.