What do I do if im boring and stable so people take me for granted?

[9t6hjtjjjf]

Im very submissive 24 7 like to everyone. I dont ask for what i need or want. I let people be themselves. But im not exciting. So people rely on me but they aren't excited to see me. I see how happy others are to see different people and i know i never get such a reception. Im busy doing my job which is being a silent slave in life so i get it.

I feel like a dead person whos somehow alive. I dont impose my desires or will on others. I dont even chase anyone for friendship. Even though i need friends. I dont have a reason for this its just how i am. And yes i cry often because i am a dead person walking.

[OlderThanILook]

I would want to just spend time with you and give you a big hug. I'm sorry to hear this. I feel the same way sometimes, and I just want someone to show me some compassion.. but it feels like if I ask for it, it'll be extremely forced and awkward and the other person will avoid me afterwards 🙃

[9t6hjtjjjf]

Aww hunny. Thank you ❤
is it different for a man?

[OlderThanILook]

It's not too different because everyone has emotions that they go through, but men are taught that they need to just deal with their negative emotions somehow. The older generation does not like to see men being sensitive at all

[nosurprisesy]

I don't know i think a man can help you more cause im a woman i ca only know about being a woman

[242plusInfinity]

You have a self-image problem. All those other things are not the problem. They are just symptoms of your self-image.

Learn how to change the self-image and you'll change you life dramatically. There is a book you might wanna pick up. It's called Psycho-Cybernetics

[nosurprisesy]

Who am i

[In_Trance]

if you're ok with it, nothing, if you're not, make a change

[nawtee_me]

massage me if you want to talk

[9t6hjtjjjf]

Massage you? xD

[Anonymous]

Stop being so so submissive and learn to stand up for yourself.

[Iron_Man]

Find friends in church