How to deal with an abusive mother?

[Anonymous]

My mother’s behavior is so abusive towards me. I don’t understand what should I do. I feel like dying. Today there was an incident I had an appointment with my doctor and she literally doubted me. Which was really disturbing for me. I have become so vulnerable due to all these things.

[Pot8o]

I think you should figure out your own moral standards, what behavior you think is right or wrong, okay or not okay, and then judge your mother's behavior accordingly. What you're experiencing sounds deeply unpleasant. Luckily there are good people in the world, and you should seek their help and support, I think.

[Asker]

I judged my mother’s behavior and it’s really not good. I see my my friends mothers. When I see how caring they are towards my friends I feel surprised. I think ok this is how mother daughter relationship should be. Seek help you mean a therapist?

[Pot8o]

I just meant sympathetic, good people, who can love and support you.

[Asker]

Okay got you

[Pleaznhim4me]

You just suffer until the traumatic day they die. Then you wear a necklace around your neck with their ashes and cry at night begging for them to help you from the dead to make your pain go away. Begging them to finally show them that they love you. Then you pray that you don’t die from the emotional pain that you have suffered your whole life from them as you survive another night of loneliness.

[CA4444]

Brillant

[Anonymous]

Cut her off completely , OR cut her off not so obviously to avoid direct confrontation,

you can use the grey rocking Method maybe, just find a good way to protect yourself somehow, the less exposure the better, and keep it this way don’t let time soften or blur your memory…

[Sandeeppingping]

Your age range is 25-29, plan out your life and move out my friend, you can't stand up to her in her own house for it is her house, so that's what you should do

[Asker]

The country where I live in, we are supposed to kive with our parents.

[20yearsolder]

Stand up for yourself, you're a grown ass woman. Get a job, move out. You're not required to speak to her

[NotTacocaT6969]

Save money and flee from your country.


That is not a healthy environment for you and if you stay you will only continue to grow more and more unhappy.

[Asker]

True 😞

[Anonymous]

stop telling her about your life. don't let her in. just keep it to the bare minimum.

[Asker]

Sounds good. Need to keep this in mind

[JohnK123]

Um why r u still with ur mom ur in ur late twenties

[Asker]

We live with parents in my country that’s why

[JohnK123]

What country?

[Asker]

India

[JohnK123]

But u still have to work right

[Asker]

Yes I do. I have to live with my parents till I get married and move out.

[CA4444]

@JohnK123 wise beyond your years

[JohnK123]

@CA4444 is that a compliment?