Okay so my best friend and I have been best friends since middle school, we are both now in college. Anyway we had this whole I guess you could say pact of telling each other when we had crushes/ bfs/ first kisses/ and most importantly when we lost our v card. For context I am a year older and usually had most of the firsts on my belt. The only thing left was v card. Things have not been going pretty well for me but when she called and told me about her boyfriend I was truly happy for her. However she texted me tonight and told me they had sex. I know this is weird and really petty. And this really isn’t a question I just needed to tell someone. Ever since she told me I’ve just felt awful about it and I can’t stop thinking about it. I wouldn’t say I’m jealous but I guess I’m upset that things are working out for her and not me. I guess I’m more mad at myself over my own life and choices honestly but I can’t stop feeling upset over it. I feel bad for feeling like I do and I certainly didn’t mention it to her. But I just feel weird. She wants to hang out this Christmas break and honestly I really didn’t want to hang out with her. I know this is petty but I just can’t stop the way I feel
Any advice please?
Any advice please?
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For some people things got a bit late , that doesn't means that you loosing anything and hey it's all about havin sex and loosing v.
If you want then you can loose wid any guy but i would say wait for a guy who's worth it for you.
Chill girl enjoy your life,. You are awesome and You Rock 🙂
You’re jealous. Try to remember that it’s not a competition. She’s not a better person because she lost her v card first.