How to deal with a father who calls me stupid every time I work with him?

[theresaaavu]

So yesterday, I was working with my father for scholarships. Some of the scholarships has questions that you have to answer, which i answer them already. When my father goes checking them, he starts to say, "I don't know what to do with this f*** damn stupid girl. Your essay is so bad. I don't even know how to teach the most stupid girl ever. And I can't be around with stupid people." And again he starts to say, "I don't want to work with this f*** damn stupid girl. Your so stupid." He has been yelling at me and tossing my papers every where. Also, hit the table too. What should i really do?

[Anonymous]

That sounds like the byproduct of a generational curse that you will need to break. Read this to gain more knowledge. You can also rebuke his comments each time.

https://thepraywarrior.com/how-to-break-generational-curses-a-comprehensive-guide/

There is a book called 'Sins of the Fathers: Breaking Generational Curses
by Bishop Kevin Foreman'

[lightbulb27]

Tell him if he wants to be involved to be a good teacher, else stay out of it and you will do it yourself or get the help you need. It's not his problem, he did his job.

He's expressing... I think... stress about finances.

Good for you that you are making effort!!!

[exitseven]

Tell him you are not stupid. Explain why you wrote what you did. Calling you stupid is not helpful and shows poor parenting skills.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

That's abuse. Call the police if you underage or move out if you are an adult!

[Chazmatazz269]

Get a teacher or counselor to help you and move out ASAP.

[Dingsbums]

Honestly I don't know

but that’s toxic af

[theresaaavu]

ik exactly.

[Dingsbums]

R u Asian? Heard they always have strict parents

[theresaaavu]

yea specifically vietamense. my father is the most strict parent but my mother sometimes.

[Mafia24]

You replied -
How can I cleaver after all I'm your daughter.

Problem solved. Thanks me later.

[theresaaavu]

what? no.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

Yes great advice smart ass! After that, he'll also abuse her psychically! Nah, she gets the fuck out of there!

[theresaaavu]

@YourFavoriteFriend thanks.

[YourFavoriteFriend]

You're welcome! Hope you stay safe!

[Mafia24]

I thought people are smart in understand sarcasm.
I'm sorry for believing in your intelligence. 😊

[YourFavoriteFriend]

She's a kid in a hard situation. Better be safe than sorry. Also your comment make absolute sense and is one of the best ways to offend anyone just not in this situation. For that reason, people would not take it sarcastic so it's ironic to make fun of our intelligence I think...

[boobliker]

I have the same and think I am around her, So are you a bit silly around them?

[theresaaavu]

how?

[boobliker]

your not thinking strate I don't know with me it just she so sexual and I guss!

[Guy13]

Sorry to hear that. He’s joking, right?

[theresaaavu]

no he is not.

[Guy13]

Asian?

[theresaaavu]

yes specifically vietamense

[Guy13]

I see. I’m use to Thailand and Cambodian and they are all very gentle. Most of those houses, the woman is the leader. These are workers whether agriculture fruits etc or oil.

What’s his job

[theresaaavu]

engineer

[Guy13]

Oh my…sounds like an angry man. My Dad does Distant instead on angry 😤 and critical.

[theresaaavu]

yea it does.

[Anonymous]

"If I am so dumb; what does that say about you?"

[theresaaavu]

I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

That is what you should tell him

[theresaaavu]

oh. what do you think they really gonna say though?

[Opinion Owner]

I think he will be dumbfounded.

[jimmy2]

Don't believe him