Would you cut ties with a friend who constantly tries to manipulate you about making up with your cousin?

[Anonymous]

I don’t get along with my cousin and so we don’t meet although we are in the sane city. Anyway I have this one friend who don’t accept the fact that I don’t want to meet my cousin because she herself is interested in meeting her. Last time I saw this friend, she reminded me AGAIN that I should get along with my cousin because she is family and gave me unsolicited advice about how I should make up with her. On top of this she told me that if my cousin texts her she WILL be meeting her because they have mutual friends. She just keeps bringing this topic up everything we meet and holds it over my head. I tried to confront her on this but then she goes on denial claiming it is none of her business and that she is not dying to meet her anyway.

also she never likes my photos on Instagram but likes my cousins’ pics who she never met in person. I feel like she is on her side although she has never met her but I know this friend for 10 years. Do I unfollow her?

[boggboss]

This sounds so silly lol

[Asker]

Which part? I am just saying what happened. It is frustrating because she keeps pushing the subject

[boggboss]

So just tell her to stop and u will no longer speak on the subject

[Asker]

I don’t speak on the subject when we meet. I had told her several times before on why I don’t feel comfortable meeting with her or having any contact. My friend is just being pushy because I think she perceives her differently

[boggboss]

Clearly she perceives it differently lol but u clearly need to learn to set boundaries

[Asker]

I told her it makes me uncomfortable I don’t know what else I should do.. other than removing her which would communicate to her that what she’s doing it not ok

[boggboss]

Or telling her if u bring up the subject again I will just walk away and not respond don't see how ending a long term friendship is better unless u don't really care for her