Girls, is it okay to expect/set a foot massage from your Son as a regular chore?

[DevikaButts95]

Although we would never have kids ourselves, this is something me and my girlfriends have talked about if we ever did have a son or daughter. Do you think this is okay to set as a chore?

Not me, this is someone random I follow on IG who records her son rubbing her feet

A foot massage is okay on a weekly basis

A foot massage is okay on a daily basis if you worked that day

A foot massage is okay on a daily basis

A foot massage is okay, just infrequently/not a regular expectation

A foot massage is never okay here.

Other/I don't know

[LovingLoverReturned]

I would say not as a chore but if the kid ever asked what you would like as a gift or appreciate you could mention it. I'm afraid of reacting in front of them lol, bit awkward though moaning isn't necessarily sexual.

As a kid I always liked massaging others. My dad had back pain and he couldn't reach so I did it sometimes and my mom I did before. I even wanted to become a therapist.

by the way I'm curious as you say you could never hsve kids on your own. Are your strictly into women romantically snd sexually then?

[DevikaButts95]

I like men but don't ever plan to date men. Like, outside of specifically getting my feet kissed/massaged/whatever I haven't done anything with a guy in a long bit.
That's not why though, we can just get a donor or something, we just don't particular feel we want kids.

[LovingLoverReturned]

😢 I wrote my reply twice and sent send.
I was saying that's very intriguing. U must have your reasons.

I feel similar about kids but not against them. Im Not ready and I know if my partner wants 2 is my maximum (so they have a playmate) but if my partner doesn't want kids I'm fine too. Amd I never felt "oh u definitely want kids". I went from not wanting to thinking "it could be nice but it's nicer without." 😴 😴

[DevikaButts95]

I just prefer women but watching a guy, especially a younger guy, just like submit to you still feels good. Lmao.
Yea it would significantly change our lives if we had kids, so we don't really want them.

[Labokachulaa]

I've never asked mine for a foot massage, I'm not sure. I feel like this depends on you and how you're raised. I've never thought about that to be honest.

[DevikaButts95]

That's pretty fair. I rubbed mom's feet for her when I was young so maybe that's why I'm more unopposed to it.
We're just a very foot positive household, it's pretty difficult to imagine that stopping anytime in the future. Lmao.

[Labokachulaa]

Oh yes, I used to rub my grandmother's feet. That makes sense, I can relate to you in that area. Lol I just didn't think much about doing it to my mother. LMAO

I love that (what you shared about your family), it sounds like you're very close and you have a great bond all of you. I sometimes wish my family were close like that. It's such a beautiful thing to see.

[DevikaButts95]

Oh lmao when I said household I meant my girlfriends!
Although I still am very close with my mom as well! We have an extremely close bond and I think the foot massaging played a part. That's just a thing that really builds a closer bond overall because you're putting so much care and effort into another.

[Labokachulaa]

I agree with you, that's very true. I feel as if it creates an unbreakable bond. Oh okay, I've never tried it with my girlfriends but I think maybe I should. It might happen to make us closer. Lol

[DevikaButts95]

Lmao yea of course it would!!! It's why it's one of my favorite activities lmao.

[Hawkes_Lady]

No, in my opinion this would not be acceptable as a chore for your child. If you want a foot massage have your partner/husband/wife/SO do it. Or go to a spa or go to a nail salon and get a pedicure, they'll massage your feet for you.

[peacesncream]

I wouldn't ask me kid if I had any I would leave that up to my man

[XXblack88]

As a chore no. Not saying you can't asked them to do it as a favor once in a while.

[RoseySarah]

As a nurse um yes that will be his chore!

[DevikaButts95]

Lmao how often?

[RoseySarah]

Every work day
Of course help mommy's feet

[DevikaButts95]

Thats really fair!! How long? We're in the same boat, we think everyday! Lmao.

[RoseySarah]

Every day about 30 minutes. A massage does not need to be longer for me if it's just my feet.

[DevikaButts95]

That's also fair! Lmao.

[RoseySarah]

How often should yours massage your feet and legs?

What do you do for work?

[DevikaButts95]

We work at my mom's company. I'm essentially IT kinda for them and I usually work from home. One of my girlfriends also works there and is basically being set up as the one to take over instead of me as its not my deal. She isn't moving around like a nurse, but she does wear heels, so her feet usually hurt.
We don't really know 'cause like, we don't really plan to have a child, and also he would have twice (or thrice) the amount of feet to work on, I said a hour but 30 minutes sounds maybe more sensible. Lmao.

[RoseySarah]

Sounds reasonable 😜
Really hate heels the dumbest things ever!
Look amazing but kill my feet

[DevikaButts95]

Lmao I've always loved them because it was a good excuse to get a foot massage in the first place! They do hurt though.

[Laura131]

Maybe not a chore but more of a request.

[DevikaButts95]

That's pretty fair!!

[Laura131]

Yeah I try to look from bouth perspectives

[Revvl6pro]

No. Leave the kids out of it.

[Anonymous]

I think that is a good idea.