We have been friends for two years. All of a sudden, out of the blue, he has given me the silent treatment. I have asked him if he's ok, but he just said in a very cold tone of voice that he's busy.
He just ignores me now, so I don't bother messaging him anymore.
I miss our friendship. But obviously he didn't view my friendship the same way I viewed his, because he couldn't just cut me off like that if he did 😕
I feel so confused and sad 😕
I'm experiencing the same thing with an online guy friend -- in my case we are just friends, it's not a romance. In my case the silent treatment isn't one-sided, but we both just stopped talking. I am not sure what to say to him. I am very sad about my situation :(
In your case, since it's one sided and he just doesn't want to talk, I suggest messaging him periodically (maybe once a week or once a month -- use your best judgement on frequency), just to see how he's doing.. you don't know exactly what's going on in his life.. perhaps he's going through a difficult period in his life that he's not comfortable sharing.. at least not right now anyway. Eventually he may want to open up.
You can either confront him about it or let it go and never text him again. The limbo will only play with your head.
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u Either move on or ask him why
Just forget him and move on. 👍👍👍
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