So, my boyfriend and I have been together for going on 3 years. We ended up taking a break 2 weeks ago after his brother filled his head with some bullshit, which ultimately caused a drift between us. For those curious, his brother is moving to Arkansas. When I got together with my boyfriend he had a huge desire to travel. His brother was trying to convince him to move to Arkansas with him and a part of my boyfriend wanted to where he does want to travel.
Anyways, he came home 4 days later and our communication has never been better. We discussed absolutely everything without judgement or resentment and have worked through a plan so that he could travel as he wants to do, in a stable way. It was a huge turning point for us. However, 2 friends in particular (one being his sister) are so against it that they have resulted in completely and openly bash him.
I became overly frustrated but dealt with it (while defending him) for about a week, thinking they would eventually tone it down. They didn't, however. They ignorant comments persisted. So, I told them that if they continued to shit all over my boyfriend that they would be cut off. They both flipped out and said stuff like "You're really choosing a guy over me?" or "Is he really worth losing your friends over?", my response was yes and I blocked them both.
Realistically speaking, my boyfriend is hands down my best friend. Losing my other 2 friends sucked but I feel it was justified. However, other people are now saying I took it too far.
Anyways, he came home 4 days later and our communication has never been better. We discussed absolutely everything without judgement or resentment and have worked through a plan so that he could travel as he wants to do, in a stable way. It was a huge turning point for us. However, 2 friends in particular (one being his sister) are so against it that they have resulted in completely and openly bash him.
I became overly frustrated but dealt with it (while defending him) for about a week, thinking they would eventually tone it down. They didn't, however. They ignorant comments persisted. So, I told them that if they continued to shit all over my boyfriend that they would be cut off. They both flipped out and said stuff like "You're really choosing a guy over me?" or "Is he really worth losing your friends over?", my response was yes and I blocked them both.
Realistically speaking, my boyfriend is hands down my best friend. Losing my other 2 friends sucked but I feel it was justified. However, other people are now saying I took it too far.
