How can I change my life?

[Anonymous]

I'm so unhappy in my life. I dislike my job because it's toxic and not a good company to work for.

I dislike where I live, but can't afford to move unless I find a better paying job. I struggle with interviews, because I'm not confident within myself.

I'm still recovering from being in an abusive relationship with a narcissist.

My mum said to change my life, but I really don't know how to start. I feel stuck in a rut.

I have no friends, so all I do is go to work then home. I don't even look forward to weekends or time off from work, because I have no one to go on vacation with. I'm always at a loose end when I'm not at work.

thank you in adavance for answering.

[devilish-cutie]

hear me out, try to find anything positive in your life, any positive outlooks on situations, justifications. Eg. I have this horrible job to learn xyz, i learned xyz from my abusive reltionship, I needed that in life to imporove... etc. Not all people are mean and out to get you, they are also lost souls dealing with their own shit. Be more positive, more grateful for good in your life, accept pain is part of life and be as strong as you can be. You need to work on ysf, if you want to be more confident work on ysf, read psychological books if you can't go to therapy and above all be good, patient and kind to ysf.

[Asker]

Thank you ❤️

[cherryxox99]

Get a pet? Or try self healing exercises like meditation, exercising, journalling

[Asker]

Thank you ❤️

[Guy13]

What about a second part time job like 20 hours. That can go into savings or security deposit and a roommate situation

[Wise4myage]

You should hire a life coach.

[Habshater22]

Join the military and see what they can do for you for a future. Or do cyber security it can be done anywhere in the world after you finish school