What would you think of a girl who is almost 26 but has never dated, has never been to a party and is extremely introverted and socially awkward?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

I would feel like I was playing with fire , because if I showed her opposite of what she is used to , it might make her feel like she was missing out on things , if she really enjoys it , Sadly i experienced this with a girl just like you , I pretty much accepted her into my environment with my friends and how my friends and I would party , in a sense I was kind of a bad influence on her since she barely drank she barely partied etc. She loved every second of it , and Loved me for it , my girl friends would tell me she is just using me and I was blind to it , but I learned to always trust what a girl friend is telling me cuz girls know other girls , but at the time she treated me like gold and I took away her virginity , and was blind to what my friends were saying , not realizing she was just using me , the second she felt like she was part of the new scene , she ended up cheating on me and luckily I have good friends that told me the truth that she was up to no good , So I dumped her right then and there , luckily I was her first and I had a lot of great sex with her but she ended up becoming a whore , cuz she loved the attention she was finally receiving , because she never got that attention before , So a girl like you, sadly I kind of stay away from , because sadly most girls are selfish and only think what is best for them. So After she whored around for a bit , she tried getting me back and I just laughed and said no way in hell , Now she looks like a washed up whore and I am so happy that I am not with her anymore , she destroyed herself and I lost all respect for her sad but true , Being used by someone is a fucked up thing sadly

[Heterosketero]

I would think she is asking how to explore outside of that. I would tell her to take a chance with a small getogether, a dinner and boardgames or some such. And I would advise an escape plan and a time you wait to leave, communicate with your closest accquaintance or the host that you may need to just go and be honest, introversion is completely normal, embrace it. And make time for yourself afterward or the next day to recharge. That is what this introvert, eccentric wouod tell you, he might even suggest youbask him out sometike if you get bored being an introvert ;)

Might even suggest finding peers in a hobby or passion you have in Meetup dot com. I have learned cooking and even been on an adult dodgeball team on that site, really healed when I went to school in another province.

Introverts are cute, proud to be one :) you should he too, we keep the world in its axis.

[Monalisa77]

I'm 35, never dated and never get asked out to parties, although obviously I've been to some like weddings n stuff. I just haven't found the right person who I'm confident around and that it works out

[Emiliamazing]

Perhaps she could find some enjoyment in being social with other like-minded individuals? You don't have to be outgoing to enjoy the company of others :-)

[JDAC092299]

I’d think she’d be hard to find unless she was active on the internet but even then still a rare thing these days or at least it feels that way. I used to be an outgoing person but one toxic engagement later and my friend group has shrunk from 30+ to 2 it feels almost impossible to make real friends as an adult so now I stay in other than exercising and work of course I suppose I’d also empathise on not liking to go out much, I don’t care for alcohol or drugs and that’s most people’s go to for fun where I live

[MrOracle]

My first thought is that she is shy and lacks experience, but would likely do fine with someone to lead the way and support her when she is uncertain.

Most guys don't see a lack of experience in a girl to be a bad thing. And a lot of guys aren't into going out very often, and would prefer a girl who is happy to be at home most of the time.

[BCRanger10]

Believe it or not, I'd think she was an average person of today's day and age. It seems pretty common nowadays that people go into their mid and late 20s, and even their early and mid 30s and are single and even in some cases, never been on a date.

[OfMiceandMen]

I think she hasn't met the right person yet to change all those things. I think, at some point, she needs to set some goals and get out there and do them, or she's going to miss a lot of great times in her life. Once she is out there doing things, she will look back and wonder why she didn't try in the first place.

[Anonymous]

I would empathize with her because that was me and still is me to a certain extent. I'm now just starting to date but I am still introverted, shy and socially awkward. My advice for her would be to try to get out and meet new people. It may be hard but it's also hard living a life in solitude. Choose your hard.

[coachTanthony]

She has some issues to sort out on self worth. Being shy and introverted is one thing but never really doing anything is a self worth issue in my opinion.

[SouthernWhiteMan]

Umm... why didn't you flag me down about this woman?

[Pegases]

Is she physically attractive? It's probably not what women want to hear, but it's the truth. If a woman is physically attractive, most men will be willing to overlook a lot more.

[Anonymous]

She's never had a boyfriend? Well if she's awkward socially she shouldn't be concerned about that because a woman like that will never be labeled or perceived as creepy or weird or threatening or dangerous by guys or men, but the reverse isn't true sadly

[Paulalove98]

That her time hasn’t come and it’s perfectly fine to be all those things, just fuck societies standards and be you.

[Unit1]

No worries. It is not unusual for people to reach their mid 20s and never having been on a date or having a girlfriend/boyfriend. In fact it is much easier than it should be to get there. Ask me how I know.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Nowadays it’s common & I’m seeing that more & more people keep to themselves so in this case you are not alone.

[Pinay_ako]

I think she just needs some boost of confidence and someone to get her out of her shell. I’d make friends with her

[Adaeva]

She is psychotic or mentally or physically challenged, or else she is fat or ugly. Those are the only possibilities.

[SouthernWhiteMan]

You think you are any better? You may be beautiful and sexy, but you shouldn't judge others based on their timeline.

[Adaeva]

@SouthernWhiteMan I am not judging. I'm just stating an obvious fact. All average and above and even below average 3s and 4s would have been asked on a date by some guy and certainly there would have been numerous parties she could have gone to because there are many family, school, and work parties that no one in the group is excluded from attending.

[SouthernWhiteMan]

For one, I am 28 and never had a real girlfriend before. Two, I seek a woman who has never had her first love or a boyfriend. I am sure there are women out there like this.

[joehypo1]

If i was of age I would think I would have to try a meet a girl like that

[PinkKin]

That was me, because i was raised as a Muslim.

Id wonder why she is that way.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

More good than not good, dating is stupid, parties are a foundation for conflict, and silence is a strength. This description so far catches my bare attention. ‘Ashyea’

[AydenHazor]

I feel like it would be intriguing to get to know her as an individual and get to know the person that the rest of the world isn't blessed to see

[RoastedToast]

You do you. If you're fine with that then it is what it iss

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'd think she stands a much higher chance of being wife material than most other women.

[JSmuve]

Tbh, none of that matters to a guy if the girl is hot enough.