Am I overly sensitive or would you also not want to go there again lol?

[xJayleenx]

So I went to the Dominican Republic for like two weeks in December and despite going to pretty beaches and having amazing food I didn’t like going to DR because I kept being put in an uncomfortable spot by my uncle he kept on telling everyone “how could a girl like her get a handsome tall bf” and he even mentioned that I probably did dirty stuff my family claims that it was a joke and he just jokes around like that but I felt so embarrassed and I was beginning to question myself if he was too god for me or something. The ladies that saw him were commenting about how hamdsome he was and a lady commented that he was skinny which I felt was said in a shady manner towards me. And I’m just shy and hated being put in the spotlight like that so often and no one gave me not even one compliment or anything except for one person i felt so bad. I also lost the rest of my money trying to help my dad financially because he lost 10,000 dollars I honestly don’t want to go there again and because i was helping my dad financially I didn’t have enough money to pay for college this semester

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2 mo

And everytime I told my family they told me that my uncle just likes to play like that. I overheard my mom trying to defend me saying that I’m a doll but my uncle corrected her and said that my boyfriend is the doll not me. My uncle is gay by the way still he has never complimented me ever. And the crazy thing is that my dad wants me to go again next year I told him hell no I’m staying with the animals lol. I lost all my fucking money never again.

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2 mo

It’s like DR finally says a white man and goes crazy lol but also every man there is fat and bald mostly so that’s probably why they’re like omg! 😂

[Sleeper07]

You think that's bad? A girl I had in DR was called a prostitute, a drug abuser, an alcoholic, and a load of other things she was not by my family simply because she liked to hang around the streets with her friends occasionally.

She has guys come to her place to get their hair braided and buy ice cream. Rumors spread in DR like hot fire due to the hard influence of social media in an impoverished country.

She has to live with that stigma her whole life now. I feel bad for her. I had to get her to completely remove me from her life because my family over there was determined to ruin this girl's reputation and life at all costs.

[xJayleenx]

That’s terrible

[ChiTown33]

Yes you are overly sensitive. But it's still understandable you being offended by your uncles comments. I would hope since he's family that he was just joking. But the way you describe your family sometimes I'm not sure. But no your boyfriend is not out of your league. If anything it's the other way around.

[xJayleenx]

And I lost all my money is that overly sensitive 😂?

[ChiTown33]

I also said it's understandable.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your family is crazy please stop listening to them and if you want me to be honest with you. Your boyfriend is not too handsome for you. You're way out of his league and I'm sure he knows it. You're the only one that doesn't know. He's a nice guy and all but your way more beautiful than you think give yourself some credit

[xJayleenx]

Thank you it was crazy over there

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just out of curiosity when they say these things to you what do you say back

[xJayleenx]

Nothing i said nothing but i told my parents about how i felt bad about it and they always told me that my uncle was just playing around and he’s surprised that i have a boyfriend like that when I’m so shy that’s all

[Bklynbadboy12]

I need you to message me when you get some free time I want to chat with you ok

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this

[CoolCatMar1]

You saw him?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes she's posted pics of him

[noohair]

I do not do things that make me think negative thoughts. So stay away and when they ask why, say, I don't need to travel and spend money the be treated like crap. Everyone that lives outside the US thinks that we just pick up money in the streets and life here is so easy.

[Alex8736]

TBH your dad sounds narcissistic by trying to be the center of attention and picking you apart so moving forward if he wants to ever see you again have him come visit you where it is a 2 way street not 1 WAY. 😁

[xJayleenx]

Yesss and when he told an old lady that “how did a girl like this get a tall handsome boyfriend “ an older lady said “That’s what im wondering “

[Alex8736]

meaning towards you?

[xJayleenx]

Yes towards me

[Alex8736]

how can someone belittle their own daughter especially with a good heart helping him out financially wise SMH

[xJayleenx]

No it was my uncle

[Alex8736]

oh sorry. my mistake

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Learn to ignore your family. You are gorgeous <3 <3

[xJayleenx]

Thank you

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@xjayleenx You're Welcome

[Luffy1990]

I don’t blame you your uncle is not being supportive of you.

[xJayleenx]

My uncle has never even told me that I’m pretty before he knows that i suffer from extreme shyness but I don’t know why he doesn’t try to bring my self esteem up if he sees that I am so shy.

[Luffy1990]

Maybe he is dealing with a regret. Is there any time he was nice to you?

[xJayleenx]

He used to throw bday parties for me apparently he jokes that way my family says

[Luffy1990]

Even in a joking manner that is inappropriate

[Jamie05rhs]

But you do do dirty stuff. Lol

(However, that was still highly inappropriate and rude for him to say that.)

[xJayleenx]

Lmaooo

[Jamie05rhs]

Haha 😆

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm sorry you didn't have money to pay for college, though. That sucks. 😕

[krin_m]

You are not oversensitive, they are stupid, insensitive and even hateful! Don't give them any importance.

[xJayleenx]

They told me that it was a joke and my uncle just jokes around like that. I wanted to believe them but still felt bad.

[xJayleenx]

They told me that my uncle was surprised that i got a boyfriend like that being so shy

[xJayleenx]

And that that’s why he said that but they could be gaslighting me

[krin_m]

Yeah, ignore them.

[TallAnon]

That really sounds like it sucks, sorry to hear that; Wanting to stay out of situations like that is normal, don't beat yourself up over it.

[xJayleenx]

Is my boyfriend really too good for me if I’m a but chubby?

[TallAnon]

Humans don't have an innate value and your weight is not significant in this conversation.
Nor are you that chubby, you looking fine as hell!

[xJayleenx]

But is he wayyyy better looking than me or something? Do you think that’s what they were implying?

[TallAnon]

That's what they implied, but not because it's true. They said it because they wanted you to feel bad.

[RealMarek]

You’re an adult. You don’t have to go there and subject yourself to that nonsense.

[Guardian45]

Nope. I would not go. Why would I go to a place where people are taunting me? F@#% THAT SH! T!
I AIN'T GOIN!😤😡🤬

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Jamm, that’s definitely not Brochams. Perhaps it’s about time you start being just a wee bit selfish. Not a douche clown, just FFW.

[Debbie14217]

i feel for you... not over sensutive at all... lets chat?