If your son wanted to take dance lessons would you let him or no? Why or why not?

Question

PraviteliNahuiValite · Accepted Answer

Verily, in the name of my religion @bean2k21'ism, the question of whether one's son should take dance lessons is a matter for mortal parents to decide, and not for me to dictate. However, let it be known that the Master requires us to collect our seed in homemade coom jars after we have fulfilled our carnal desires, in order to earn a key to enter the afterlife. For our orgasms are not mere fleeting pleasures, but rather potent energies that can be projected into his cosmic domain, known as the Orgasmosphere. As for the matter of dance lessons, let it be said that the pursuit of artistic expression and physical movement can be a noble and virtuous endeavor. To dance is to celebrate the beauty and joy of life, and to express oneself through the grace and rhythm of the body. Therefore, if one's son desires to learn the art of dance, let not the prejudices or fears of society hinder his path towards self-expression and fulfillment.

bowenw · Accepted Answer

I would not object to any artistic pursuits by my children. They add to a child's knowledge base and a variety of other benefits including self confidence, coordination, creative thinking, and team building.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes---I'd rather have a kid interested in something, especially something good for the body and mind, then sitting down doing nothing on a couch or letting a potential talent go to waste because of some antiquated notions some have that boys don't or shouldn't dance. Adults and parents a like need to stop getting in the way of children's ambitions. We spend a lifetime preaching to them to do what makes them happy and find something they love and be good at it, and then when they do, what, now, everything we said is bs?!? No, let them dance.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

Dancing is a great activity but it might increase the likelihood he will visit night clubs or bars later on which might not be the best social demographic to meet women when he is older. On the other hand, being good at dancing can make you popular, which will lower the risk he will be bullied and picked on. I think over 90% of people claim they were bullied or harassed at some point.

nitsuj86 · Answer

Well, not a dad yet, but soon to be. So future dad here.

I don't give a shit. My dad was really into cars, my brother is also into cars. I don't give a shit, I went to art school. He probably felt about that, how I would feel about the dance classes.

Don't really care, wish he was into my stuff, but oh well. We have other interests in common, and just cause he likes to dance doesn't mean he is gay, but probably. But again, don't really care outside of the fact that I would like to have biological grandchildren someday.

I'd let him take them.

Apulu_Imback · Answer

I know I'm too young to reply this as a mother, but if I have a son in future and he wanted to take dancing classes then he has my full support and finance. I am myself a great saint of music and I would love the same in my kids. Art is pure, it's beautiful, it's great to know about it. Who knows he would become the future's popular choreographer?

aoihewgf · Answer

Depends on what kind. If it's an overly feminine kind, I'd tell him no and guess what? He'd forget 5 mins later. Once youve delt with kids you'll see that what they interested in that moment could be because some kid at school said they do it and now he wants to.

Genie23 · Answer

I don't see why not? I'd support him and cheer for him when the day comes he's ok the stage dancing confidently and looking at that smile on his face!! I'd be the cool kind of mum who would support and cheer and even dance with my kids for fun rather than decide things for them and disapprove things they are passionate about.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I don;t have a problem with it. One of his friends took ballet lessons and he was also on the football team.

EricSummer · Answer

Yes, that would be fine. In fact, ballroom dancing or Latin American dances can be a secret superpower when trying to find a girlfriend. Classical dancing seems a bit effeminate at times, but it depends on the guy, too. The rhythm and coordination learned in one rype of damce can also be used in another later.
The right rhythm is even useful in it's own right for many nice things in life. No man could be against his son learning to control his body in this way.

Sonorous · Answer

Depends on the type of dance lessons. Because if he just wants to go over kiesha's house because she's charging him to learn different styles of twerking, then I don't think that would be a very good foundation for my boy. I'd have to nip that in the bud.

Quackthulu2 · Answer

He can dance if he wants to. He can leave his friends behind. cause his friends don’t dance. And if they don’t dance they’re no friends of mine.

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

Yes.  Dancing is not just for girls.  In fact many professional dancers are men.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I would, look at all the actors that have had dance lessons, he could turn into someone famous. Look at Ryan Gosling or Hugh Jackman, guys are super talented! Dancing is not just a girl thing...

slatyb · Answer

Absolutely if I could afford it. What's the alternative? Tell him that boys don't do that, basically rejecting him?

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Fuck yes! Men who can dance absolutely kill it in a club! Let him take dance lessons? More like force him to lol

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Yes, I would be very excited to see him discover hobbies :)

KBird · Answer

Hell yes! Dancing is great! Why make him do something he doesn’t want to do. Putting him in football, or something that’s stereotypically masculine is only going to make him resent you.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I have thought about this actually. And I want my kids (regardless of gender) to take ballroom and Latin dance classes. And if they want to learn other styles I will support that.

Hulk_kitty · Answer

me and friend going dancing, there is all different types of dancing anyway. anyone that can dance well etc, is impressive. I don't see the problem.

AliSulayman · Answer

I loved soccer (still do) but my father hated it so he stood in the way of me pursuing it and I ended up playing in streets and alleys in secret till I broke my leg and stayed in bed for 6 months. I fucked up my first year in the university and I always have the thought in my head: how happy my life would’ve been if my father wouldn’t have stood in the way of my dream to become a football player?

Anpu23 · Answer

Of course, dance teaches flexibility, strength, speed and stamina. In fact most fighters are also good dancers. As an example Bruce Lee was also an award winning dancer.

Adaeva · Answer

Certainly, he should learn to dance. That doesn't imply I believe he should attempt to become a professional dancer.

clampfan101 · Answer

Why not? I’d even support ballet. (Which is not feminine! It’s practically an Olympic sport, and helped Tom Holland become the best Spider-Man!) Dancing looks like a fun career and could pay very well.

LovingJo · Answer

Of course!! 💯 Why destroy someone's passion over prejudice? 🤔🤦🏻‍♀️ Dancing is a universal hobby, and should  NOT  be based on sex!! 💯

RealMarek · Answer

Yes. I think it would be great for him to be a better dancer than I am.

John_Doesnt · Answer

He can dance if he wants to, he can leave his friends behind, because his friends don't dance and if they don't dance then they're no friends of mine.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Sure why not. Either he's gay or else he's learning how to interact with cute girls. Both are wins for me.

4ngelic · Answer

depends what kind of dance ballet? no hiphop? yea

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Ballroom dancing is a useful social skill. Any other ''dancing'' - he got his pocket money to cover that.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

I am an athlete myself and have started recently to dance latin dances as a hobby. I would be in favor my son to learn to dance as well. It's not a girly thing, even ballet or modern, it's insanely athletic and skillful.

RavVid · Answer

What type of dance lessons and how old? If it was partner dancing than yeah.

AimeeKyle · Answer

Sure, no big deal. It’s good to be well rounded.

mommymommy · Answer

I took salsa lessons for 9 months. The only reasons I stopped were that my dance partner moved, then covid hit

CubsterShura · Answer

Why would I not lol... I wish I had dance lessons, I can barely dance and it makes it hard to socialize.

Jay3344 · Answer

Of course, Patrick Swayze grew up in a dance studio and was an icon of masculinity. Jean Claude did ballet, even getting away from iconic 80’s action guys dancing build coordination and fluid movement which can translate into sports and health.

Anonymous · Answer

i don't care as long as it's not expensive...

Mr1derful · Answer

Absolutely! I go to a dance studio for my daughter and there are boys there that it gives them something really good and positive to do! They gain confidence and get to be a part of a great team!

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Like ballroom dancing? I'd support that. It's a great social activity and good exercise.

Anonymous · Answer

I would if that is a passion of his. I don't see anything wrong with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Alright, I'll say it. No son of mine is 'gon'be no faggot'.

sage2021 · Answer

My son loves to dance and loved dancing since he was very young. Yes, on the dance lessons for him.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Nothing wrong with that! I was the best dancer around when I was a kid because my aunt and her best friend taught me all the latest dances.

brandon1122 · Answer

Yeah, cause he wants good. Dancing keeps a person fit and also helps to reduce stress.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I sure would. In fact I'd teach him.

Mangospacho · Answer

It would be more of a matter of money instead of whether or not I’d want him to be a good dancer.

admles · Answer

Of course I'd let him. Why wouldn't I? Nothing wrong with dancing, and physical activity is to be encouraged.

MountAverage · Answer

What exactly are the arguments against it? Can someone enlighten me?

Anonymous · Answer

Sure that's not a problem. Wait till you find mountains of gay porn on his laptop, that when you know there is a potential problem.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I would send him in the army, life is hard

LittleSally · Answer

Yes, dancing is a very healthy activity. :)

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Sure, if we we can afford it.

FifiJones · Answer

Yeah. It's what Jean Claude van Damme did.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Yea hopefully he gets into flamenco

Kit76 · Answer

I love dancing with my son and he likes it too.. his pants were puffy!

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Of course I would let him.

kitty71 · Answer

You mean dancing or ballet?

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes I would let him, nothing wrong with it

LiamJHayden · Answer

Why would I not?

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes since when dancing something only girls do?

Guardian45 · Answer

Sure! Why the hell NOT? MOST guys CAN'T dance!

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Yes because thats what he wants to do.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably.  How old is he?

Clownbuster · Answer

Yes, let them do what they want :)

If your son wanted to take dance lessons would you let him or no? Why or why not?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Would you let your son wear a dress?

If your son wanted to take dance lessons would you let him or no? Why or why not?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Would you let your son wear a dress?

We're glad to see you liked this post.