Be it saying the wrong thing, or using the wrong word or some misunderstanding thing or outright insults (received from previous men not current) how is it that men find it so hard to say; dang, I really hurt her. I should say sorry.
How come they all have acted like it's my fault for feeling hurt?
Example: I was in a car with a guy, just friends. (I wasn't romantic with neither side was) and his mother who sat and let his mom insult me endlessly the whole drive.
We'd been friends for 8 years.
He then added to me saying how hurt I was by saying I had a temper. Something I told him I didn't like because having a temper is putting your baby sister in hospital because the mother ask you to do the dishes. As my brother did to me often. That is having a temper not calmly stating someone's words were hurtful.
So I left and after a while I came back to sort out the friendship.
Unfortunately he just called me more names and acted like I'd hurt him for taking some time.
Why wasn't he more inclined to admit he'd hurt me and I was valid to be upset?
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I don’t think it’s just guys. I think it’s a people problem see many people want to blame men or women for something when in reality it’s both.
Some people can’t admit when they’re wrong.
Good point. I only ment guys because that was my specific issue.
Like I said. Some people just really can’t admit when they’re wrong
Many people have to turn it around to make it someone else’s fault so they can be the victim
Thanks for your points.
Your welcome wish you the best
Some people you just have to avoid the best you can. You can’t win with them. They’ll never admit they’re wrong. They will always turn it around on you and play the victim.
It’s just how they are
Most men are wired to be selfish.
So are many women….. it’s a people problem. Not men or women. Many people are selfish
Not everyone. It’s just the sign of the times
Ego run amuck.