Could I get in serious trouble if I try to chaged my moms will?

[Alwayreckles93]

I had a horrible sad childhood wich i will not to out all the details as most are very sad. I was physically and emotinal abusive lets just live it that way. Now thinking about going to Texas for a month get one of my good family friend she an attorney told me that i was the one being the play th mom role when I was raising my siblings cleaning the whole house cooking being a punching bag and my mom was financially stable enough to provide a good life nice house you would think this girl grow up okay not every is what it seems. Now this family attorney that my mom trust she spoke with me over the phone and advice me to chaged things behind my moms back that i should bethe one to benefit from all the goo stuff. Which i could sale the houseanake good profit or rent it. My mom plans on giving everything to her golden child my older half sister. What do you think?

[Staximus]

Only your mom can change it if she's still alive. You have your own house now, your own life. Let the past go with your mom when she dies if you feel like she's wronged you. Leave the will alone and let it all go. The hell with it. You don't need the house, money, etc. No need to ruin your relationship with your siblings over it. If your mom is wrong by giving it all to the golden child then just let her be stupid.

[Staximus]

Yes you can get in trouble with the law

[Alwayreckles93]

Well that's one good reason your right.

[RealMarek]

It is illegal. Yes, you could get in serious trouble and the beneficiaries your mother actually named could bring a suit against you.

[Exterminatore]

I don’t know if you could get in trouble or not. What I would probably do is leave it how your mom wants it. I understand you probably feel it’s unfair and it probably is, but it is your moms stuff and she does have a right to decide who to leave it to, as unfair as it may be. I think altering it could be in a moral sense a form of theft. Possibly legally too.


Does the attorney have a recommendation on how to legally change it?

[Alwayreckles93]

Yes Sir, Well I believe it belongs to my dad he is the one that had to work in order to buy thi home and properties. I plan on returning it to my dad. I just feel anger when i see my sister the hell i was put threw.

[Exterminatore]

Ok. Good point. See if you can recover money for your dad.

[Alwayreckles93]

In this case not belongs to that woman. My grandmother is the one that deserves the title mom not my bio mom. My mom took advantage of the divorce system to take or should I say stole everything from my dad.

[Exterminatore]

That’s awful and unfortunately is not uncommon. My mom did likewise to my dad after cheating on him.

[Alwayreckles93]

Sir do you think there is a way you can claim your dad's belongings? After the hell your narcissistic mom put you threw. o oh don't breath wring or you will be grounded. Oh don't act this way or you will loose tour privileges of having dinner or sleep in your room. Sir why bad things happen to goid people?

[Exterminatore]

I strongly doubt it. The got divorced in 1988 and he’s been dead since 2016.

I don’t know why either you or I had to go through what we did. I know I have been able to help counsel a friend regarding his alcoholic girlfriend and help support him as he went through some of the things I did with my ex wife. So I think sometimes God has us experience difficulty so we can help others. I know trials and tribulation are like a workout for us and produce character.

What we both went through growing up was pretty difficult. Not sure why God allowed it, but I know there’s a purpose behind it.

[Alwayreckles93]

Sir you can always go a make research. Your the last one of your dads side of the family generation. It wouldn't hurt try and see your options. That mansion belongs to you. All your fathers hard work in the selfish hands of that woman. You could rent that mansion and make some side money. It is not fair youare over here struggling at work while your mom enjoys free house. Think about it its never too late to investigate find out who of your siblings will be getting what and so on. What do you think? I mean at the end of the day it's your dads belongings not your mom's. About your friends situation that was very sweet of you addicts should be consider to be place as mentally unstable and be consider to place under consertorship since they aren't metally capable of making smart choices.

[Mansearching]

Yes you will. Don't do it. She has to change it. Only thing you can do is after she dies is protest or contest it at probate hearing.

[Alwayreckles93]

Thank you!

[Mansearching]

Welcome.

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's typically a felony (falsifying documents), so yes. I find it hard to believe that any attorney would recommend that, as that's also a felony, and grounds for disbarment.

[LiamJHayden]

I think that attorney should be disbarred for encouraging you to break the law. Even if you were your mom's trustee, you cannot self-serve and change things for your benefit.

[Fireguy17]

Yes, there are laws against doing that.
The attorney will have a copy on file.

[roy_ricky09]

That's not legal.
Also, that's your mom's money, why are you dependent on it. Make your own.

[Alwayreckles93]

I cat believe you are defending a useless trash of mother and wife. She cheated in my dad. Just because the useless trash of my mother is 55 that doesn't mea i owe her anything. I did establish my own money.

[roy_ricky09]

Good for you. Then you shouldn't need your money.

[roy_ricky09]

Good for you. Then you shouldn't need HER money.

[NathanDavis]

God's will, will prevail... either way

[EaterPeter]

I think you can

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like. It would be some sort of crime may be white collar.

[Alwayreckles93]

Thanks yeah it is best i just cut them off. Cutting off family from personal life isn't illegal.

[EaterPeter]

No, since you are legally an adult it can be better to cut off toxic people and then work back with who ever one at a time if you wish

[EaterPeter]

Set boundaries, make allies

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[In_Trance]

Ridiculous... I call bullshit

[Alwayreckles93]

I don't owe my mom anything!

[In_Trance]

She doesn't owe you jack shit either

[Alwayreckles93]

She was a horrible parent. You people believe andexcuse parents behavior but no no one ever listened to the son or daughter the parent always win. Your full of crap!

[BoopBoopBeep]

Being a horrible parent isn't illegal. Altering a will is. She could be the worst parent in the world you're still not entited to her stuff.

[Alwayreckles93]

@BoopBoopBeep yes it is cps and take away the child. Why do you people always defendthe parent andnot the child? Aren't you a men? Why would yoy defend a woman that was useless always get deunk messy house was useless to my dad and only wasted his money and cheated on him. I don't owe that woman anything. I woul had rather been adopted by some Asian people that could be lovong parents. Parents only deserve respect if their loving and caring. Neglectful parents don't deserve crap.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Bad parent isn't illegal. Criminally negligent parent is illegal. If CPS took you away then that would cross the line into illegal. If her behavior was illegal you still aren't entitled to anything, but she should have been charged for being a POS. A messy house isn't a crime, just like being semiliterate isn't a crime. I don't think you should respect her. I have no idea why you'd think I said that. I'm using small words as best I can.

To be sure. She sounds horrible. Do not respect her.

Changes nothing. Alter the will you go to jail, and no attorney told you to do that.

[Alwayreckles93]

@BoopBoopBeep You have No idea how bad the conditions my siblings andi we were living in. A woma that neglected her husbad the father of her chuldrent stole from him YES shestole ky dads money ti buy useless designer unnecessary goify stuff instead of prioritizing in paying off the house or the bills and just let the bills pill of getting and drunk and cheated on my dad while my dad was all day working hard to the point to save the restaurant because thanks to my mom my dads business was going downhill hill thanksnto her selfish spendings. Divorced my dad got with my abusive step dad made sure to take as much as possible away from my dad shard earn money. You tell me how is that not illegal? Why isn't illegal to cheat andbring a demonic step dad to abuse the chil now i am not going into detail on that because its just horrible. And yet here you assume my mom should be called th queen of the universe but i am not surprised no one will believe the son or daughter everything the mom does she is always correct.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No it's not that I don't know, it's that I don't care. The law is the law independent of your feelings. If she pimped you out to drug dealers from the age of three and sold you on the dark web to pirates, it's still a felony to alter her will.

If the stepdad was abusive chances are the statute of limitations has expired based upon your profile picture... maybe not... it's generally around 15 years.

This is just an outright falsehood: "And yet here you assume my mom should be called th queen of the universe"

I think you mom sounds like a pretty horrible person if even half of that is true. You know what though? That doesn't matter, because the law doesn't care about MY feelings either.

If you change her will, whether she's a saint or satan incarnate, end result is the same. You committed a felony, and the original recipients of the will can just get a seizure order and take it from you anyway.

[Alwayreckles93]

@BoopBoopBeep This why I support cps. People like you are evil. YOU CALLED ME A LAIR. You know why waste my time arguing with a stranger. Forget it !

[BoopBoopBeep]

In the wild your mother would have eaten you shortly after birth. You got better than that. I never called you a liar i said no lawyer told you to forge a will. You obviously have difficulty paying attention and hearing what you want to hear so no surprise you feel that way. I just don't understand why you'd come on and ask a question then act like some raging psycho when you don't get the answer you want. Just do it then. F all do I care if you go to jail or not? Maybe there you can detox off whatever you're tripping on.

Jesus lady get help.

[Alwayreckles93]

@BoopBoopBeep Look I apologies I was in a bad mood.

[BoopBoopBeep]

All good

[Alwayreckles93]

@BoopBoopBeep wait Your not mad?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Lady, I been shot at more times than I can count. Blown up once, had shrapnel cut out multiple times, a bullet from my leg once. Buncha people came to where I worked and tried to kill me a couple times. I got three crush vertebrae, two bad knees and last year I nearly died from a massive heart attack. That's just covering the past 10 years or so. It takes a whole lot to get me mad now a days, because I'm at the point where I'm just not going to give a shite about it... whatever it is, if it's not something I may have to shoot/extinguish/smother or tie off in the next 10 minutes. You're not any of those.

[Alwayreckles93]

@BoopBoopBeep I feel guilty now. I am so so sorry i went off on you. I apologize. Okay i feel like a horrible person now. Geez no wonder why you think its not a big deal. Im sorry I went off on you with karen mode.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Personally I do actually think it's a big deal. My point is that it doesn't matter what I think or what you think or what anyone else thinks. The law is the law, and it does not support what you want to do.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes that's called fraud and it's a federal offense