My dad passed in January this year and I feel at that month I was in shock since it happened suddenly. Then for his funeral in February I started feeling disbelief. I thought I was somewhat okay now but after father's day I feel more sad and I miss him so much and it kills me that I can't talk to him anymore. I'm sick of my sister always causing arguments with my mom making the family split up. Then my sister keeps drinking acts irresponsible when she should watch after her 4 year old and she acts annoying and when I tell her about her drinking she tries telling my brother lies about me and make him go against me and sometimes he believes her. I'm so tired of it gets to the point I want to never go home. I'm the youngest sibling but yet I'm more mature than my sister. I dont really have friends either so I feel alone and my dads family NEVER reached out to me for support which is ridiculous not even his sisters went to his funeral or seen his tombstone when he was a good family member who always helped them. Everything all together makes me depressed
Why is it that family fights and breaks apart after a parent passes? I never felt so depressed, What are ways to stop stressing about family issues?
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All kinds of stuff comes up among siblings that may have been buried for years when a parent passes away.
The same thing has been going on in my family since our mom passed earlier this year.
I've seen it happen before, too.
I think that it all just needs to run its course and settle into a new reality to fit the loss of the departed parent.
Good luck to you.
seems like people are too busy, sister is angry that you comment on her drinking, but argumentative people while pa alive same.
i mean not caused by the death.
for yourself start meeting coworkers on breaks to add friends, snd zvoid yhe people who hurt you, like brother etc.
This is pretty common. A lot of the fights center around money and possessions.
but mother inherited all, she alive as mentioned.
@strateguy632 my mom did say something interesting today. She said that me and my older brother are under the house name when she passes. My mom said she thinks my sister is trying to turn my brother against me so when my mom passes he doesn't want me at the house since he will be the main household name