Basically my parents plan on going on a trip for 4 weeks. My fathers friend is gonna be there. He like grabbed me by the ass under my shorts and told my mum to let me go with him home like “I’m not gonna rape her”. Then at my mum’s bday he was making jokes how I was eating pickles and if I’m pregnant. So I don’t know what to do, do I just like forget it and go or what. Cos my father doesn’t know and I don’t want them to be sad because of me. Before anyone says, I cannot tell my father he will literally kill him and I prefer to keep it quiet. My mum knows but there’s not much I guess we can do and it’s not a big deal? I’m just overreacting and I could probably enjoy the vacation. I just need some thoughts. Thank you!
What should I do? Should I go or should I stay?
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Well I think you probably wanted as much as he does so it's up to you do you want to experience something new and different
Whatever you do just make sure you set the ground rules and they're followed it might be a good good time you might experience something really good
I wanted to clarify that I did not in fact want anything and that man is 40 years older than me
What do you want to do if you go do you have somebody that's going to back your play or protect you you shouldn't be held back just because this guy's going
Look it if you want to go you should go and whoever your mom your parents your dad you need to tell them look at I don't want this guy to touch me if he touches me I'm going to smack him
You aren't over reacting. You are a victim of a sexual predator who aexually assaulted you. Tell both parents and if they do nothing record him saying or doing creepy things and bring it to the cops.
wtaf even is this