Unfortunately the mother of my daughter is a serial cheater. Poor partner selection in my part. I took 2 different parternity test, both on different clinics. It is positive on both clinics.
Ok so the mother is a lying, cheater (I have to co-parent with her; every single visitation and conversation I have with her is only about our child) but my 15 month-old daughter is still my girl. These are my reasons why I would disown her:
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When will I stop speaking to her: ummmm, the day I leave this Earth.
Though I've heard of cases parents disowning their children for trivial things such as being gay, selecting a different partner, abandoning their religion... all the way to stealing your money, hiding and supporting a parent's affair, a woman choosing the mother's affair partner to walk her down the aisle instead of her father, etc.
Sure I would get hurt but I can't think of any reason to disown my child. In the end, even if it was a valid reason such your child wasn't loyal to you and they betrayed your trust, isn't that still a condition?
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For Christ's sake, it's a 15 MONTH OLD CHILD.
Almost two.
The wife, ex-wife whatever should be the one to be disowned obviously for cheating, not the child.
How is a near two year old going to steal your money?
How is a near two year old going to be supportive of a parent's affair?
If either of my parents cheated, I'd be pretty pissed.
Just say you don't want to be a part of your child's life if you won't even bother to try and get as much time visiting her as possible. If it was my child, I'd fight to see them as often as I can. Take them to parks, go swimming, eating out, what ALL parents should do.
Last but not least, anyone who disowns their child didn't deserve to be parents in the first place. It's the parent's job to love them unconditionally, and support any decisions they make such as being gay, lesbian, Wiccan, etc.. Their job is to protect them from this world, and teach them how to survive.
Excuse me but do you have poor comprehesion? Where on the post have I mentioned I don't want to be part of my child's life? How can you even assume I don't take her to the park or swimming? She's been learning how to swim since she was 6 months old, floating technique for survival. How about think before you jump into conclusions.
Obviously those examples I'm referring to is when the child is much older (when they're adults) and I still don't agree with any of them. I've already mentioned the only single day I won't speak to her is the day I leave this Earth. Otherwise she's my child till the end.
That question was for those so called parents that disowned their children for whatever reason, even if it's because their child betrayed their trust... that's already a condition. I believe in unconditional love for my daughter.
The mother is clearly disgusting and has no human value. But I dont think you should blame the child for that.
If I were you I'd try to get full custody of the child. Its not good for a child to grow up with a fake mom. And its easier for men to meet other women if they are single fathers than the opposite.
So leave her focus on yourself. If you can't get full custody keep your distance and start a new life. Maybe send some letters sometimes to your daughter if you want
I would never disown my child for any reason. That's what God supposedly does if you don't honor and obey him properly. Not only that, he sentences you to eternal torture.
I feel very ashamed of people that disown their own child for any reason. They don't deserve to be parents. I don't care about the cheating ex girlfriend. She can go to hell for all I care but my little girl will always be my little girl no matter what.
Yup. I agree with you.