If your child wanted a friend to sleep over but it was a special needs child that wore diapers for bedwetting would you accept?

[Anonymous]

I'm not talking about a 15 year old but a 4-6 year old child that you would have to change diapers on another child than your own to make your own child be happy for his friend having a sleepover? I struggle with this question because i'm a single dad and don't want to see any naked children that ain't mine because people can accuse you for being a pedo then but i talked to the mom and did it because it was my child's best friend and it made him happy and it wasn't a big deal i help to tape it on and he threw it away by himself in the morning. But as a man your always afraid of being called a pedo like if you work in a daycare as a man or a black guy babysitting white children etc.. thankfully it's changing

[Anonymous]

Of course your kids happiness is foremost but you also have to protect yourself as the adult in this situation because all you’d need is for that child’s parent to feel some sort of way about this or that, even something unrelated and decides to smear your name, try getting you in trouble or both. You wouldn’t be able to defend yourself and even if you could, your reputation would be destroyed anyway once rumors like that see the light of day. We have seen men and women fall victim to this time and time again, so please be smart. I’m glad things went well this time but if it happens again then maybe arrange for his parent to be present to change him, like insisting on having a sleepover at their house or something.

[KrisKris81]

Yes. The child's happiness takes priority. If he/she is known for wetting the bed, just change the sheets before hand.