I'm the oldest of the 4 of us kids but was always treated like the youngest and the dumbest, even though I'm smarter than the rest. I seriously doubt any of this was hidden or escaped my parents' view but, neither of them ever took the time to sit and ask me about how it was effecting me to be treated this way.
Would YOU ever sit and talk individually with your kids to see how life in this family has been treating them?
No, I don't talk like a psychiatrist. I'm not a cold foreigner to my kids. I'm a mother, one of the closest family members. And a friend.
We talk daily, as often as needed. As often as Drama Queen wants to feel the topic is done. We talk as deeply as she can. Sometimes, we just touch the surface; sometimes, we dig deep to the core.
Talking to people is an art. Listening and encouraging them to open up about their fears, worries and deeply hidden nightmares. Showing respect and ensure that the conversation stays between us. Especially with teenagers (as Drama Queen) but also with adults, related to you or not.
I do talk to my kids. Daily. Mostly listen to. Sometimes, share advice or life experiences.
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don't have my own kids yet, but I've been part of raising my niece, and yes...
this is among the utmost important things I've always done, which is to have a talk with her from time to time about things many... ever since she was a little kid, and till yesterday, always make sure she does have someone to talk with about anything she wants to talk about
Often times we will chat in the evening when it's bedtime, just gauge how the day went. Thank you for this important reminder!
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i used to talk to my kids all the time. Every once in a while i could worm something out of them.
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