So I'm in highschool, freshman year and I have a friend group and there's I believe 4 people including me in this group so technically 5, There's my main friend who I'll just call A. And my other friends who I'll call, T, N, M. I have a stable relationship with N who does tend to tell me that I'm getting on her nerves but I get that a lot so it's a little easy for me to ignore it, T and I share art class so we chat it out there and then there's M, Now M and I only have lunch and gym together, we talk about anime manga etc but she's rude to me as hell, everytime I'm trying to joke with everyone she tells me shut up or when I'm talking to my main friend. she always always always interrupts me when I'm talking to A or she says rude things to me then says "Love you" For some reason. There was one time while we were at the lunch table and I as paying attention to my phone and sketchbook etc when I heard her talking about hair and all that jazz and she says "Especially you, you need to cut off your hair." And she was dead serious and ofc I felt hurt because I'm very insecure about my hair it's short, 4c messy you name it. Same day some boys at a table make fun of her and she comes back crying which was a bit strange because that's how she makes me feel when she makes rude comments about me, she also takes my things out my bag and throws it around cause it's "Funny" but to me it isn't, i lost somethings because of that and I did tell her stop. She also just insults me for no reason without specifying it's a joke so I don't understand at all.. what do I even do? I want to tell her to stop being rude but I'm not sure if she'll understand.
2 mo
Girls, Is my friend joking and honestly being rude to me, and how do I tell her that I don't appreciate her behavior?
What Girls Said
I don't like people that say something rude to you and when you get hurt they say they are just joking 😡 This girl doesn't care about you or your feelings. Why do you care if she understands or not? I would tell her you know exactly what she's all about and focus on the girls who are your real friends. If she gets along with your good friends and you tell them that she is mean to you, a good friend will stand by you and respect your feelings and understand how she makes you feel. If you find one really good friend in school that's all you really need. Just be true to yourself first!
Oh ok ty!
she seems to be rude to me
just tell her directly about it
Yeah I should I'm just a bit scared to do so though
do it once u r ready for it
Ty :)
She's not your friend🤣
Yeah I'm 100% about that as well.