I never asked her out of embarrassment and I was unsure what was going on. But there was this texting group on a mental health forum app and we met by the mental health support group. I became friends fast with people especially this one girl.
She was frustrating always asking me to come over and hang out. She threw parties all the time and invited me but what I thought was really strange was she left me out of the support group app with all the members that she was a moderator on and I'm wondering why she left me out
I've since stopped talking to her the whole group was toxic anyway
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That's really weird and hurtful behavior on her part. A few possibilities for why she may have left you out of the group:
- She liked the attention you gave her one-on-one but didn't see you as a true friend to fully include in her social circle. Some people just want to keep others at arm's length.
- There was something about you that threatened her position as the leader/moderator of the group and she felt excluding you cemented her status.
- She was two-faced and talking behind your back to the others, so didn't want you to see what she was really saying without you around.
- The group dynamics were cliquey and exclusionary in general, so even as a moderator she couldn't protect you from being left out by the others.
- Mental health stuff can bring drama, so maybe she was trying to distance from any potential problems you might cause by including you.
In the end, it's definitely for the best you're no longer talking to them if they treated you like that. You deserve real friends who make you feel supported and included without games. Don't blame yourself - this says way more about her character than yours!
because of secrets. but don't lose the long friendship for that. just don't join group.
You have to ask her