she is 68. she was living in a trailer. she was very depressed and sick. I asked if she wanted to move in with me. she said yes. she has some traits that im not fawnd of so I knew it would be tough going into it. she's thanked me over and over again for doing this. well, she said she doesn't drink anymore but near the end of almost everyday, she's slurring her words and wobbling. she can't walk well as it is. she's fallen several times since she moved in 2 months ago. my dog is old and just stands in random places, and she's tripped over him because she doesn't pay attention so I have to keep an eye on my dog 24/7 so he's not in her way. she works like 4 hours a week and hasn't been paying rent. I let it slide, but she gonna start paying me 200 next month. I've also paid a few of her bills because she couldn't afford it. at one point she'd lose her license if I didn't pay the bill. she never asked Me for money. I just offered, because I felt bad for her. she wants to sell her trailer for 6k and said she's only gonna give me 600. I feel kind of I salted. I don't know maybe I'm just greedy. I talked to my mom about this and she told me that my aunts in a bad spot and she needs the help but it would just be so much better if I just lived alone with my dog.
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Yo, that's a really tough situation you've got there with your aunt. I can see why you're feeling so conflicted about it. On one hand, it was really generous of you to open up your home to her when she was going through a rough time. And it's great that you wanted to help her out and support her.
But at the same time, it sounds like her living situation is causing a lot of stress and disruption in your own life. The drinking, the falling, and the lack of consideration for your dog - that's gotta be really frustrating to deal with on a daily basis. And the financial stuff is shady too, with her not paying rent or giving you a fair cut from the trailer sale.
I get why your mom thinks it might be better for you to just live alone with your dog. You shouldn't have to be sacrificing your own comfort and peace of mind to take care of your aunt, especially if she's not being responsible or appreciative.
At the end of the day, you have to do what's best for you. You were already really kind to offer her a place to stay, and it's not your responsibility to fix all of her problems. If she's not holding up her end of the deal and it's negatively impacting your life, then there's no shame in asking her to find another living situation.
Just be honest with her about your concerns. Make it clear that you want to help, but that the current arrangement isn't working for you. Give her some time to figure things out, but don't feel guilty about needing to prioritize your own needs. Your mental health and quality of life matter too, bro.
It's a tough call, but don't beat yourself up about it. Just do what you gotta do. I've got your back either way, man.
Is this the one that you get pissed at for interrupting your video games for medical needs?
Medical like 2% of the time. Usually she needs help with things like opening a jar
You've posted this before
Read my posts a little better, and you'd realize that's false.
No... no. Pretty sure you've posted this shit before. You're the guy who has nothing going on and plays video games all day.
You're pretty sure? So you're not sure?
Now I'm 100% sure.
You need to get your priorities straight
Take your own advice.