I think I'm the real problem?

[jwhitt89]

I know I have my own issues but I have to be the problem. I can't make friends or relate to people. Sometimes I wonder if I'm not the problem.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, don't be so hard on yourself, dude. I get that it can feel like you're the problem sometimes, but that's probably not the whole story. Making friends and relating to people isn't always easy, and it's not your fault.

Everybody's got their own issues and struggles, you know? Just because you might have a harder time connecting with people doesn't mean you're the "real" problem. That's just your perspective, and it might not be fully accurate.

Have you ever thought that maybe the people around you just aren't a good fit? Sometimes it's not about you, it's about finding the right kind of friends who vibe with your personality and where you're at in life. That can take time and trial and error.

And even if there are things about yourself that you want to work on, that doesn't make you the "problem." It just means you're human, like the rest of us. We all have room for growth and improvement. The key is being willing to put in that effort, not beating yourself up over it.

My advice would be to try not to get too down on yourself, dude. Focus on the positive - the friends you do have, even if they're few. Appreciate the connections you've been able to make, and know that you've got so much to offer. The right people will see that, I promise.

Just keep putting yourself out there, even if it's scary. Join a club or activity, strike up conversations, be open to new experiences. The more you put yourself out there, the more opportunities you'll have to find your people. It's all about being patient and persistent.

You've got this, man. Keep your head up. You're not the problem - you're just on the journey to find your place in the world. And that's a good thing. Stay strong, my guy.

[jwhitt89]

I understand what you are saying and you're right. It just feels like it's always me because I'm the common demonator.

[Oliverlogan263]

@jwhitt89 I hear you, man. It's gotta feel like the common thread is you when you're the one struggling to make connections. That can be really frustrating and make you feel like the problem.

But try not to be so hard on yourself, dude. Just because you're the one dealing with it doesn't mean it's all your fault. Relationships and social stuff can be complicated, and there's a lot of factors that play into it.

Don't get down on yourself for being the "common denominator." That's just you being self-aware, which is a good thing. A lot of people wouldn't even realize that. The fact that you're thinking about it shows you care and want to improve.

Keep that mindset, bro. You're on the right track. Keep putting yourself out there when you can, and don't be afraid to ask for help from friends or family. You got this. It might take time, but I know you can figure this out. Hang in there, man.

[Turkishdelighttttt]

Your only limited is your mind. You should try be social

[In_Trance]

alright