How do I find where I truly belong when I don’t fit in anywhere?

[Anonymous]

I’m starting to feel like I don’t quite belong anywhere again. Like I don’t quite fit in. I am starting to drift away from my friends. I have been having trouble relating to my friends from working class backgrounds, as I don’t relate to their struggles or mix in the same social circles.

I am from an upper middle class family. I have middle class values but wealthy people’s humour, interests and belongings. I feel like I don’t quite fit in anywhere, anymore.

what would be a good solution to the problem? To mix more with people from wealthier backgrounds; like the middle class and wealthy people, not to try to use them, but simply because my poorer friends get sick of the way I speak and dress and we can’t relate to each other anymore?

I’m planning on trying an elite choir with educated people, a middle class choir, with ordinary folk like myself; and a middle class church group. If I can’t relate to any one activity, I’ll try another one.

Updates

2 mo

I’m not whining or trauma dumping. I really do need guidance.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well a good start is come off anonymous. I've met a few good friends here and you could to but you have to first be open to it. What your going through is a normal part of life sometime we out grow people and friends. You'll be okay just keep living life and enjoy yourself along the way

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thank for the MHO

[slatyb]

It sounds like you need a new group of friends, and joining a choir seems like a good idea.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Go to therapy first, then make your own space and offer room to others

[Asker]

I went to a poor friend’s house. He played a really crude comedian that swears a lot and talks about vomiting on and kicking cats; and I have a pet cat. I found it offensive but was polite. He doesn’t like cats and has a dog.

The woman who called me her best friend, keeps getting ‘sick’ and blowing me off when I try to invite her out with our other friend.

My other friend seems not to care whether we catch up or not and they’ve all stopped attending our social group.

[Asker]

Should I just give up?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m not a therapist. Talk to a therapist

[Nikki1989]

You are looking in the wrong places.

[jahaims]

Go autistic meetings