Ohh I hate this feeling that I have got at the moment... please some1 help me out...
i am so lucky to have a really beautiful girl by my side. I love her so much and she loves me so much. The trust is there, I have known her for years and we both fully trust each other!! which is wicked... (i have never had that before)
but if we are out together I will be paranoid about other guys looking at my girl... her body is so sexy it gets me angry to know other guys are perving over her... I no its natural but I hate to know that guys are looking at her body like a peace of meat... I find it really horrible inside and I think its jealousy!!!
why can't I be proud and when I see guys looking at my girl not get angry!!!
some help me understand this problem!!!
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If it's jealousy:
It's a normal reaction, but it might help to re frame it. Instead of getting angry, think "Yeah, she is hot isn't she... and she's with ME!" Try to see it as a competition that you've already won. I don't like to compare a person with an object, but since jealousy does objectify people anyway I will: Imagine you had a Ferrari. Every guy who saw you in it wanted it. How would you feel? Mad? No! You'd love it right? Because it's yours!
Trusting your girlfriend is really a sign of respect for her. If you don't trust her, she may find it insulting.
But it might not be jealousy:
I'm wondering also if it might not be jealousy, but if you are reacting like that because you know that she is more than just a sexy girl, and the way the guys look at her is disrespectful. If you are, I see that as a positive thing. But of course, getting angry doesn't help. Just do what women do, and think, "What a loser - you wish!" lol!