If a girl is always wearing midriff shirts and really short shorts, are they trying to get attention?

[Anonymous]

Just know a girl like that and she’s always wearing cleavage. Not that I’m conservative or anything but it’s a bit much. She would wear XS sized shorts although she is actually an M. It looks rather cheap in my opinion. Like I wear short shorts too but I always wear my size. People say it’s easier for her to get guys than me for doing that? Lol do I have to resort to this to be attractive? I don’t understand.

[jsincal]

Don't be subjected to stereotypes or labels. Most are created by men. Women that are victims of these stereotypes pass them down through generations.

Good news, is we live in a modern era where women have their own independent opinions. People will think what they want to think. You don't need others to give you approval. If you do, you'll never be good enough.

Where you will fail is needing to dress a certain way to get guys. A guy should not only want you in short skirts, but also sweat pants as well. Hell, I dated a girl who I first met on the street in sweat pants.

But the idea is wear whatever you want for you. NEVER wear it for other people especially to get men.

[cth96190]

Of course she wants male attention.
It is a primal mating instinct.
The female is displaying her physical asssets, her genetic fitness/desirability as a potential mate.
That is why men look, although most of them do not understand that what we see as beauty is actually external evidence of reproductive fitness.
So, when a female dresses in that way I will look and appreciate her beauty and the sexual display.
If, however, she has a body that should not be exposed in that way it is a boner killer. That is because the female has displayed her lack of reproductive fitness.

[_food_lover234]

well if you wanna get a guy to hook up with you, sure wear what she wears. but honestly she's selling herself short, if she's gotta wear shorts that are to small so guys can see her and notice her then :/ like wouldn't you much rather be known for more than just and ass and tits? . i mean I'm not super conservative, i like to show some skin but not have it all out, you gotta you know give them something to imagine. trust me, speaking from experience, you want a guy to like you- be confident. i know its clichet but literally so many guys fall for confident girls. don't sell yourself short

[Asker]

Lol yeah appreciate that you are not turning this into a feminist argument jus because you are a girl. 🙂🙂 some people here arguing that I’m “ jealous” which is not true. Like I was honestly curious to know if I have to do this to get a guy’s attention because that’s sad tbh

[_food_lover234]

it honestly is sad, like that's what I've never understood is why sell yourself to a guy based on your body. there's so many great quality that everyone has. gurl your not jealous, your just curious. literally hate it when people think its bc your jealous. if you wanna know something , there's no harm in asking. I hope I helped <3

[nojokecarmichael]

No. I wear clothes that are revealing but because I like the way my body looks, the style of clothing and I'm not getting any younger... ask her why she wears clothing to small for her? That'll explain why xs is always sold out when I do online or in store shopping

[Massageman]

She's probably trying to get some thing.
She could always use an old pair of
jeans in her regular size and make a few minor alterations. (pic)

A few minor alterations - - - - -

[Thatsamazing]

That's an ass that needs to get fucked.

[Asker]

@Thatsamazing supports my argument that girls do it for the attention

[ReginaFilange]

Let's be honest. You're jealous because as you said "she's getting all the guys". It doesn't bother you because it "looks cheap". What she wants is her choice and no one else's. Regardless if it is for attention or not, she should NOT be judged or questioned for her choice of clothing ESPECIALLY by a so called "friend". Not all people dress a certain way to get attention. When I was 15 I used to wear short shorts and I hated it when men would look at my butt. But I wouldn't stop wearing a piece of clothing I LIKED because men couldn't keep their fucking eyes straight!! So NO!! Attention is not necessarily the thing she's looking for.

[ReginaFilange]

Sorry, i realized you didn't say you were friends. But even so she shouldn't be judged. So I'm gonna stick with my opinion.

[Asker]

Haha! If I wanted to I could easily change my clothing and wait for those guys to to come. Why would I be jealous of her? Is it pretty weird to wear shorts that are 2 sizes smaller. I know you want to be feminist and all and she “shouldn’t be judged” but some girls do overdo it. I stick with this opinion too

[ThePityPartyGirl]

It's normal to wear shorts and a short top if the weather is hot or whatever. If the shorts show her butt and its completely obvious it is most likely for attention. It's like wearing a thong (attention) instead of a bikini short. You dont need to show off too much skin to get attention.

[bklynbadboy1]

Well said👏👏👏

[Asker]

No I know, I was saying she always wears shorts that are too tight for her though. Like you can’t miss that.

[Anonymous]

Yes.
I'm sure they enjoy it because they are comfortable, but it is also about thinking you look good so dressing to show it off.
Why dress to show off that you look good, if you don't want other people to notice it. It is about attention.

Doesn't make her a slut. I mean, you can dress like that without looking too exposed, and it doesn't mean she's attempting to get guys to try to hook up with her, but there really is no question she expects people to look and likes it.

That said, you also ask "do I have to resort to this to be attractive?" And the answer is no. Sometimes, not dressing like that is even more attractive, because when I'm dealing with a pretty girl who dresses normally, I feel more at ease with her and more able to appreciate aspects of her, slowly, then have them basically put in my face.

[vivmatt]

Hm if she feels good wearing that then all the power to her. I hear this argument a lot towards well endowed and curvy girls. Especially young girls who still aren't sure how to style their body type. ESPECIALLY when their bodies may fluctuate constantly between sizes depending on their hormones. Give her some time, she'll figure it out

[Asker]

She has been the same size for years tho

[archiz]

What do you bother with how other people dress?
Also don't act nor dress like smthng you're not.
Just be yourself, and the guy that suits you will come around.
No point in having a bunch of guys following you around if you don't match with them.

[JSmuve]

Probably, though she'd totally deny it if asked. Guys like her because they know she's likely open for business. You definitely don't have to resort to that unless you're desperate for any attention and don't really care if guys have respect for you. Also, if she's wearing xs when she's a medium, since the waist would be smaller, please tell me she's not sporting a muffin top because that would be pretty gross of her.

[Anonymous]

Not all sizes on clothing are the same depending on the clothes and the brand

Like I fit into various sizes When it comes to clothing one top I can fit into a small while another top I can fit into an XL It’s the same for me with pants and shoes I’m never one size

maybe it is the same for the girl you are talking about maybe she fits into various sizes but to answer your question no it’s no always about getting attention

[smb930]

I feel like that's the case more so with breast cleavage than legs. But it depends on the person. Plus, ever been to the Southern USA during the Summer? Everyone wears shorts because its so dang hot and humid, nothing to do with sex at all (generally speaking).

[janasam]

Let it be, it lasts for a while only. Dont ever copy them even if they get attracted eyes on them. At the end of the day they are not happy inside. People who are conservative and modest and sophisticate will always get a good match. They are always respected and in this society beauty is only being used while modesty is praised. Remember this, it will remain same till the last day of this earth. Dont get used instead praised.

[JHwong]

No lmfaoooo some of us just like that style for the occasion? The ones who always wear it likes that style all the time. Not everything is about getting attention ya know?

[2ndTryatThis]

She knows exactly what she’s doing... I knew a woman who dressed like that whenever I came to do work on her house.. it is sexy.. she definitely got me hard on purpose.. when I’d climb up my ladder I’d always catch her staring at it. Some women get off on getting men off, or aroused.. it’s no big deal, just do what you like.

[DannyFanny]

I'm sure some girls are just like that and they don't think about what guys might think, but I know for a fact that most girls that do this do it for attention, it's I'm okay with it. I only wear stuff like that at home or exercising

[DashboardLight]

Don't know about you, but over here it's already starting to get 30 degrees Celsius (86 degrees Fahrenheit) already. Imagine the temperature levels in June, July... completely justified to me to wear really short shorts and midriff shirts then in my opinion.

[7771999]

A summer dress will protect your skin, whilst giving you enough cool air to be comfortable

[Mystic_Nova]

Nope, I love midriff shirts and it's because I work hard for my body and I feel good knowing I can work a midriff. As for shorts, I dont wear short shorts because my butt and hips eat them and I end up getting wedgie in the front and back lol

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Honestly depends on the girl my cousin would by extra large shirts and they would still be one. she's 6ft 5 now always been the size of a tooth pick but has her clothes customize made.. some might do it for attention some might not like in her case

[CubsterShura]

If she was wearing them for comfort she would wear sizes that fit, even if she went smaller I don't think anyone has to go two sizes smaller for comfort. Something's definitely going on.

[The_Other]

100%...
... and even if its is possible in any rare circumstance that the answer might be "no"... MAYBE... she definitely will still know that guys will look... so they know what they are doing even though they say otherwise.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Not always, it could be really hot, she could just happen to like the look. She might find that look to be sexy for her. Not every sexy look is for other people, you know.

[Asker]

Not sexy if it is obvious that your wearing 2 sizes smaller.

[MannMitAntworten]

Wearing cleavage? Flat chested aside, isn’t that just par for course as a woman? I mean my ex who I often saw naked always had cleavage.

As for her choice of clothing, why does it bother you? She is her and you are you.

[Asker]

Hahaha

[Asker]

Lol it bothers me because it’s cheap

[MannMitAntworten]

Then why be friends with someone who’s attire bothers you so much?

[Asker]

We are not friends she’s a relative

[MannMitAntworten]

Ah. Have ypu expressed om detail how her attire makes you feel?

[MannMitAntworten]

You* in*

[Asker]

Lol no she’s quite defensive about her body in general. My aunt once made a joke saying she gained weight and she literally started yelling at her.

[Asker]

As a response

[MannMitAntworten]

She should have been clever and say she is retaining water.

[Asker]

No she actually argues she’s a XS but it is obvious she is not. Like you can’t be curvy and skinny at the same time

[MannMitAntworten]

Not necessarily true. An ex of mine was a size zero, weighed 98 lbs at 5’-5 1/2” and was all bust and butt/hips weight. Both natural and I could nearly place my hands around her. Just how both her and her sister were built. Granted, Utah women tend to run on the slender yet curvy side.

[KaylaJoy]

You can be curvy and skinny, those are two different things. Skinny is about how bone, muscle, and fat density. Curvy is about where your body distributes fat. Skinny, medium sized, and large people can all be curvy depending on their body shape.

[Asker]

@KaylaJoy I know her personally though. She’s not XS. No fucking way

[KaylaJoy]

And that’s fine, I was just finding fault with your blanket statement that no skinny person can be curvy. I personally am skinny, but “curvy.” But I would never dress in that way. I prefer modesty, and the men that you attract when modestly dressed are more to my liking.

[Asker]

@KaylaJoy haha why are you trying to find a mistake in what I’m saying?

[KaylaJoy]

Because I don’t like blanket statements

[Asker]

@KaylaJoy oh well there are lots of things I don’t like either