Girls, do you think we should encourage men to feminized?

[Anonymous]

I think that would be a good thing, I know that for men their virility is important but I think that this virility can make them toxic and that by making them accept femininity it would change a lot of things, and even for them. And anyway I don't see what's problem with a man wearing makeup, wearing heels, skirts etc.

[amadimal]

We shouldn't ”encourage” them, especially to be ”feminized”, but we should let them do whatever they want. If a guy chooses to wear makeup/nail polish etc. it doesn't mean he's less masculine. Just as if a girl goes for a pixie haircut and cargo clothing doesn't automatically make her masculine.
Take this guy for example; if you go past his looks, he's thinking and behaving in a very masculine manner, despite wearing makeup. Not to mention that in the past, makeup was worn by men belonging to plenty of cultural backgrounds and it was seen as ”trendy”.

[Asker]

I agree, I didn't say I wanted to force all men to feminize. Me for example, my boyfriend was a manly man, but I encouraged him to feminize, it lasted several months and now he is getting used to it thanks to me, and he wears heels for example, and I find that it has much improved his behavior

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@manonoliveira you sound like you're talking about a pet you have to train to behave not a boyfriend or "equal" partner

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Everyone can wear what they want but you may be missing the point. James Charles is gay and he wears more makeup than the average women. Maybe it would be a better step to encourage men to get their eyebrows shaped at the salon , wear hand cream, and occasionally go to the spa. And if they are emo eyeliner is ok. The ones who do much more are usually genderqueer or non-binary

[Asker]

i know james charles is gay, it was just to illustrate my question lol. Oh I initiated my little one to feminize, I promise him sex if he tries to make up his heels etc, I've been doing this for several months now, and I think Little by Little he is starting to get used to it, and yet at the beginning he has always been a virile man

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Don’t you think he may really be a trans woman?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No because sometimes people don't just "encourage" they try to force or change someone to what "they" think. Just accept people... If someone's really a certain way, they shouldn't need encouragement to be that way.

[amadimal]

yes, yes, yes! leave people be.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@amadimal 👍👍

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

I think we should encourage people to be who they want to be (short of pedophiles, rapists, etc). Most men don't want to be feminized and that is perfectly fine. Some do and that's cool too. We shouldn't be encouraging people to do something because that's what WE want them to do or be.

[Bee-Hatch]

That look on women - "unnaturally mutilated mouth" is fucking awful on women - supposedly to give large 'blow job lips'. Why anyone chooses to do that willingly is a mystery.


But on a man - if they want large blow job lips then it's probably not going to be something I have to deal with.

[FreyaRed]

Yes. Those who are that way should show their true nature.
It will be easier to sort out their defective genes from dating pool.

[Asker]

I agree, I encouraged my boyfriend to feminize, I told him if you want sex, I want you to put on makeup, then wear heels etc at first he didn't want to but when he saw that I was serious he ended up accepting, and I did this for several months, now he accepts his new conditions

[Hannah_le]

No.. If a guy wanna be masculine or feminine that’s up to them but personally wouldn’t date a feminine guy just isn’t in my interest so I wouldn’t push it on someone.

[DaughterOfLilith]

Noo😭🤢. We should encourage men to be in touch with their feminine side (psychologically). We definitely shouldn't encourage men to be like the guy in the picture above. (We shouldn't even encourage women to be like that)

[lillianaustin]

you mean james charles?

[DaughterOfLilith]

@lillianaustin yeah

[sheikalana]

We should encourage people to be whatever they want.

[Asker]

I agree with that too, but I didn't say I wanted to "force men to be feminine" lol

[sheikalana]

Neither I said that.

[ILikePlants]

No, just leave guys to be what they want whether its masculine or feminine

[Genkii]

Agreed, I think they should look however they want, regardless of what we think. I just don't get why the other comments were so aggressive...

[123lucy]

I think everyone should be encouraged to be who they want to be which includes men who want to "be feminized" or whatever you want to call it.

[mazeltov]

feminized military men lol. Let gay guys be fem let straight guys be themselves. Smh

[slms2003]

Gay men don’t have to be feminine, and straight men don’t have to be masculine. I think phrasing it like “let people dress and express themselves as they want to, no matter their gender or sexuality,” would be better.