Why do some black women think it's okay to disrespect black men on social media, but still want them to marry them?

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There was this woman I saw spreading negativity on this historical page, and had abunch of trash to say about black men this black men that when it came to people getting their land stolen in africa. A whole page dedicated to disrespecting black men, claim that she's not only having disdain for black men, but men in general, but 99 % of her posts talk about dusties, deadbeats, etc. All the black men you can name who has done something positive in history, she called them cheaters, trash, etc, etc. Said that since woman are "God" then Black men are mutated people and we should never be here. All black men should die, black boys are pathetic and scum. Praises black little girls, who wouldn't be there had it not been for their PARENTS. And says she's married to a black man. Also stated, if she gets a divorce, she'll be an asexual misandrist. I believe she's a misandrist already. Talks about how black men should pay for everything and have her or the wife have their own cards so they can spend what they want on anything. Most of her posts is what black men should do for black women and how they shouldn't exist, etc etc. But as I was asking, why marry a black man if you have so much venom for him? That's not love, it's not loyalty. You are not forced to date a black man. Infact, she encourages black women to date outside of black men. I'm fine with that too, I just wish that she and other black women who hate black men would do the same and stop slandering black men. I get it, some black men slander black women, but not all do. But why do they even marry a black man with so much hate?

Why do some black women think it's okay to disrespect black men on social media, but still want them to marry them?
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