Does having big boobs make girls more confident?

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Dawnlind92 · Accepted Answer

Yes but it also depends on the rest of the body and whether or not the boobs are big or huge.

I know this because I used to weigh 175 at 5'3 and I wore a D cup. I was proud of my bust but was not happy with the rest of my body. Well...
I lost 50 lbs and am now a B cup at the very most. I lost my boobs with weight loss.
I really miss having ample boobs but don't miss the big belly.

That all said contrary to popular belief average cup size is now a D or DD in the US. D cups are NOT necessarily all that big.

I have a petite friend who wears a 32DD and she is proud of hers and always shows them off she is also fit with a 24 inch waist and an overall enviable figure.

My other friend wear a J cup. Her boobs give her back pain and make it difficult for her to find clothes. She is going for a breast reductionI have several more female friends who actually had significantly larger than average (F or bigger!) Boobs who did not like the attention they got, not to mention the back pain. In other words, it depends on whether the breasts are ample sized or huge, and how the rest of the body looks on top of that.

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Accepted Answer

I have very large boobs and completely natural. I'd say yes they make me more confident. All my very beautiful features which all my features are very beautiful and all natural make me more confident because men including my very dark sexy black husband love my turs and every thing about me

Angelo75 · Accepted Answer

I don't say this the wrong way (and it's why i'm not writing as anonymous).
But "asking the question" is actually already a sign of inconfidence.

Just like every creature on earth comes in different size and shapes, the same goes for humans. There is no "perfect girl".
There is just "good match... for a specific guys tastes".

Some guys like big boobs, others like smaller boobs (trust me on that).
Some guys like big butts, others like flatter butts.
Some guys like longer girls and saying it's elegance, others like short petite girls cuz they're cute.
Some guys love chubby girls (i do), other guys like skinny girls.

Just accept your own appearances as yours.
If you don't, you'll put bigger boobs and when you have that, you'll start wondering about your butts, or lips, or eyelashes, or hair or skin tone.

Just be confident that you're fine just the way you are. And if the guy you're with starts pushing you to change your appearance, "swipe to the left". :-)

Women are beautiful creatures.

CuriousJC · Accepted Answer

Women needs to stop listening to that old stereotype about being bigger is better. Because it not, it's a death Sentence. Bigger breasts doesn't help woman with confidence, it doesn't the opposite. Especially in Relationship such as the girlfriend big breasts is suffocating the boyfriend every time she hugs him. Also Women with big breasts has to pay double or triple trying to find a bra size that can hold them and also risking the chance of them hurting their backs. I have no particular taste or type woman, but I consider all women to perfect how they are. That includes the flat-chested womens too.

mamuma02 · Answer

75-80 D-cup Europe size

Sometimes they make me confident when teasing my boyfriend, and sometimes they make me feel like I should get under the knife to get smaller boobs.

I look like a clown when I m working out with these boobs.

I don't have huge boobs, but they can be a pain in the ass.

My back is in pain😭
Finding a bra is probably harder than finding 1 million on the Street. Just an expression.

A bra is my saviour and my worst nightmare at the same time.

I m greatful tho for my boobs and the skills they have most of the time.

Some girls probably feels the same.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Apparently! It's a puzzle to me. They want big tits for some kind of confidence boost and go to extremes just to get them, I guess so they have something to show off but, as soon as some guy pays ANY attention to them, even though she practically shoves them under his nose, HE'S the bad guy and she wants to find a way to get rid of them because of all the "unwanted" attention they bring. You can't burn the candle at both ends (unless you're Harpo Marx)!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cWzWNw0uZU4

Then, if they already HAVE big tits, they complain about the attention and the back trouble and how much they get in the way and the pain during periods, etc.!

Anonymous · Answer

In my personal experience, no.

My sister has something like D's, and in high school, she used to bind them so they would look smaller like her thin friends.

Like it probably helps if you are insecure about them being small and then enlarge them, but that is at best a band-aid in my opinion.

Otherwise, I've also had a couple friends in the G range who had to get theirs reduced because of spine misalignment.

I'm not convinced guys are THAT picky about boobs. I can't say much about women's preferences.

alc24 · Answer

In my personal opinion, no. If anything, they lower my confidence and I wish I could reduce my cup size. I can’t wear certain styles of tops because it shows too much cleavage (not that this is a bad thing, it just makes me uncomfortable personally) or makes my body look wonky. Additionally, it’s all people really care about. It’s one of the first things people notice about me and a lot of people comment on it (especially family members).

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I do feel very feminine and confident with them. But then this is because I learned to love them. Back in middle school specifically I hated having big boobs. They made me feel weird and disproportionate and I was made to feel bad about them by some "friends" and teachers and such.

I do sometimes get jealous of smaller girls for extra wardrobe choices and overall anesthetics.

ManOnFire · Answer

While I do tend to love huge boobs, I think having them makes some women very arrogant and not confident, while most women with big boobs I think are self-conscious about them and don't want attention on them. These are the women I tend to be extremely sexually attracted to.

Genie23 · Answer

Maybe some of them do, most women I know/ have talked to do not feel more confident. Many said they wish they had smaller breasts as they experience worse backache most of the time and how they dislike being stared at for having big breasts. So, some of them wear loose tops or jackets/put scarf on their breasts to not attract to many attention from guys and feel uncomfortable while playing sports.

VinnyMac · Answer

I think having big boobs does make many girls more confident, but there are reasons too for why some girls may desire to have a breast reduction because often the effect it has on their body.

There are other girls who desire to make their breast bigger. Confidence really depends on the person.

wheresmrcunnunglis · Answer

I would say no. Maybe yes, in the femininity department when young, but as one reaches adulthood, their definition of feminity grows too to allow them to understand that the size of their chest or appearance, for that matter, is what will enable them to have unwavering confidence.

DaveJord · Answer

50/50 on this one. I think some women with bigger boobs think they are more sexy than they really are, so yeah they are more confident about it then they should be.

But I have seen plenty of other women on here that are very self conscious of the attention they get from men over the size of their boobs. Their boobs actually make them less confident with men because they seem to getting a lot of unwanted attention over their boobs.

I answered Yes... but I have my doubts about it.

Pasiton5 · Answer

Only a big boobs girl can answer this, but when with big boobs tend to get noticed more and if that's all you want to be remembered for that's their right, most women with large breast tend to cover then up minimize the size of them but as for confidence builder well guess it depends on how much they let out for all to gaze at, you know

hhadeshatesme · Answer

On some days they make me happy and are a confidents boost but having big boobs just makes me censor myself a lot even in hot weather. They attract unwanted sexual attention and a lot of tops are automatically labeled slutty if you wear them while having bigger breasts

Grond21 · Answer

Big boobs are like a lot of money. They enhance or exacerbate what is already there. So if you are already a bad person, having a lot of money makes you worse and vice versa. If you are already shy having big boobs makes you even more shy. But if you're already confident it makes you even more confident

loveslongnails · Answer

Breaking news:
"Confidence discovered to come from INSIDE, not outside your body!"
What a concept.
You will get more "attention", but what kind of attention? How will you know if guys or girls just like your big boobs and nothing more? You'd know, if you had confidence, and you won't suddenly develop that with a pair of hefty knockers.

Anonymous · Answer

Mine has always made me super insecure. When I was a young teen I always covered my body. Wore hoodies in the summer. Never showed anything lower than a certain point.
I was never really taught to go to a proper store to get measured for a proper bra either.

I slouched often to make them seem smaller.

On the opposite side, my childhood friend had really small breasts and some years ago she got them enhanced and she was finally really happy with them.

Anonymous · Answer

Breast size doesn't create confidence. Neither does nudity. Girls are always saying they're more confident because they show skin or believe that in order to be confident you have to show off your body. But, that is ridiculous. Modest girls are just as confident in their bodies.

You can be confident with an A cup, you can be really self-conscious with a C or DD. Vice versa. Confidence comes from within. Some really beautiful people can be the least confident in the crowd.

tiajoka · Answer

Not if they’re real, not most the time. They’re in the way, uncomfortable, and you get the wrong kind of attention because of them. Whether it be envy or lust, it feels gross and so unfortunately they do the opposite for a lot of women, and thus many of us try to hide them.

Babygirl_S · Answer

Depends on whether they're actually big or the woman is fat. I have 28DD boobs and I am not interested in becoming fat. I know a lot of Indian men like heavier women like Sunny Leone (Karanjit Kaur) but I don't care. Health comes first.
I must admit I was going to feel bad about myself if I had a smaller cup size and didn't have a nice cleavage. I guess no woman wants to be totally flat.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

From dating women with big boobs I say yes and no. A lot of other women hate on them. Call them fake.
But also, I’ve seen a lot of feminists that think they know it all and they all happen to have big boobs.
What I’ve lear Ed is they are more frightened, especially in public. It’s why they choose a big man to discourage creepy men staring when you’re out.

Lionman95 · Answer

I´d say no because confidence requires a person to be comfortable in his/her body. If she has big boobs but isn´t comfortable she won´t be confident.
Confidence is a choice made by your mind not because your body fits other people´s standards.

Raphaëlle · Answer

Yes and no. I would say yes if a woman feels that way or does a boob job because they feel better with bigger. No because bigger can attract more unwanted attention from strangers and can be in the way of exercising/back pain and so on.

RebeccaBI2000 · Answer

Having big boobs can destroy your confidence as well. It can cause major wardrobe issues. People tend to stare a lot depending on when you started to get them. Also when you are young boys sometimes days you because of your boobs

Anonymous · Answer

all guys want have sex with me as i got huge round ass and boob and very tiny waist
i am super submissive and will follow all order that males give me.. i will let them spank my ass and boob and fuck me till i am weak if i do something that they dont want.

male will naturally want girl like me with huge boob so be submissive feminine girl and get big boob from surgery if you dont have them naturaly like me.

Berethor · Answer

Yea, big boobs are looking good. :)

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

it can have totally the opposite effect. being stared at from a young age, referred to as the girl with the big tits etc

mstbooblover · Answer

No doubt the answer depends on the involved individual girls, but what I know for sure is that I love very much them big boobs. My apologies if some girls are unconfortable with me sometimes staring at them. Never any offense meant, really.

Shy80sgirl · Answer

I don’t have giant or large breasts, my confidence comes from my own self perception and the kind and loving individuals that I’ve surrounded myself with over the years.

Darine123 · Answer

I mean I love the size of my boobs now and don’t want it to be bigger and I’m confident in it now. I see some people who has too big boobs so they have to do a surgery because her boobs cause her a back pain

Chlo3_2001 · Answer

I'm an Australian Size 12 DD (think that's a 32-34DD in other parts of the world?) and I don't feel confident at all. I dislike my body.

KatieB713 · Answer

It depends on the person, somepeople I will and some girls it won't... you don't know unless the person tells you... For instance, my chest is large and I'm not confident

MCheetah · Answer

Yeah, I would imagine so. Kind of like how having a monster dong makes men more confident.

Sour-rose · Answer

It depends on the girls. However, seening a woman with boobs the size of blown up beach balls, I'm sure life can be challenging. (i'm being real. Blown up... beach balls.)

uwu_princess · Answer

No, why? We are confident when we accept our appearance 100% 🤦‍♀️ Someone can have small tits and feel more confident than person with bigger...

Sonorous · Answer

I imagine that girls with bigger breasts tend to be more confident in them on average. But I can't speak on overall confidence. Many sources that make up our general confidence.

sunflower00 · Answer

No, I have big boobs and it sometimes makes me insecure. I wish they were smaller

perfectt_angel · Answer

Depends on the age group. Growing up it catches too much attention but after 21 its helps with my confidence in my looks

Massageman · Answer

Confidence is not a matter of sheer size. If a gal knows how to "sell" the IMAGE of confidence, she doesn't have to have mammoth mams to project a confident air about herself.

The1Girl · Answer

Sort of, I wouldn't like to be flat chested. But I also don't like it when I gain weight and they get bigger. They need to be somewhere in the middle.

CarolineW · Answer

Difficult one. It depends on the girl and her frame of mind. I'm glad that I've always had average size boobs. They are what they are.

Chattyguy44 · Answer

This a Yes & No thing really. yes they do but no because some busty girls are less confident and more selfconcious as they dont like guys starring at them and gawking at them.

JustiReno · Answer

My girlfriend wanted bigger boobs but I think she’s finally satisfied and I’m happy cause how can you improve perfect my favorite part is the hole in her nipple it makes her look … fertile 🤤

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Many girls treat boobs as their assets. And they take advantage of them. Hence a boost in confidence, I think.

SnakeBoop · Answer

Not necessarily. My mom was great at picking them apart until they became an insecurity. gotta love abusers :)

Ninania · Answer

No. Having self worth and believing in their own abilities make women confident.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

The only thing that made me confident was the bra shape/support.

jshm2 · Answer

It should, she's mostly got it made... if she knows how to use her assets.  But sadly most just get bad ache and leers out of it.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Depends on each individual woman. From my experience most are self conscious about their boobies no matter what size they are.

sheikalana · Answer

Not necessarily. Some might love it but I've met teenagers who feel very uncomfortable for having big breasts.

Mangospacho · Answer

The girls I know with big boobs are self conscious about other things like their weight or their face. The most secure girls I’ve known have small to medium sized breasts.

Better_off_here · Answer

from me being a male i think most women are a bit embarrassed about their breast's size. big or small i think it is something woman tend to be self aware of. and larger boobs do cause more attention but woman dont always want that too.

Anonymous · Answer

No, but i think big ass makes confident. Boobs can sag easier and even you run or jump they bounce it is not a good feeling.

KylieRobidoux · Answer

I’m not sure. My boobs are pretty small, I wish I had bigger ones

Passion_Devil · Answer

I voted yes because it can, but you don't need that to be confident

Anonymous · Answer

I had small boobs and then mine got bigger. It makes me confident that i will be considered more feminine. It's a bonus and it raises my value. It helps LOL

scott04sa22 · Answer

You tell me 🤢

VikingWarLord · Answer

Why you think so many biitches get BOOB JOBS? They know instinctively that hot biitches with big tits will always get more attention

Dargil · Answer

Sometimes yes, but there is a size limit after which insecurity comes in.

exitseven · Answer

I knew a girl in high school that had really big ones and she was self conscious of them.

Nagahime · Answer

I still feel ugly and horribly depressed, so it really makes no difference. :/

Aquariusmystery · Answer

From experience I can say no. Just makes me feel fat

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