She's very controlling.. who cares for whatever reason, she's not letting you grow up as a person!.. you have to confront her and tell her you're not a little kid anymore.. and don't give up until you get your freedom lol.
She wants you to focus on education and not get preoccupied with sexualizing yourself for male affection youd end up like most women just having 10 + strangers up inside you during college as an excuse for finding yourself
Move out when you turn 18. Go live with family or friends or something if you can't afford your own place. You don't need to deal with that bullshit behavior.
Well you are still a kid, and she supports you. So, she makes the rules whether you like it or not. When you get out on your own, you can do whatever the hell you want.
At some point, you're just going to have to stand up for yourself
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Sounds controlling and abusive, must not have a man around so I guess your father is not around at all, you should stay at the college if you can but sounds like she wants you around to control
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She's very controlling.. who cares for whatever reason, she's not letting you grow up as a person!.. you have to confront her and tell her you're not a little kid anymore.. and don't give up until you get your freedom lol.
She wants you to focus on education and not get preoccupied with sexualizing yourself for male affection youd end up like most women just having 10 + strangers up inside you during college as an excuse for finding yourself
Soon enough you'll be out of the house and can do as you please.
Maybe she's referring to the type of makeup you wear. If the makeup you wear looks like the one you posted it's kinda childish.
Are you prepared to move out and pay all of your own expenses for college?
Move out when you turn 18. Go live with family or friends or something if you can't afford your own place. You don't need to deal with that bullshit behavior.
By unlady like she means she doesn't want you to turn out to be a ho.
Not this Burning Man makeup. This is not classy makeup.
When you're 18 you can do whatever you like. Go to college, get your own place, forget your crazy old mom ever existed.
Well you are still a kid, and she supports you. So, she makes the rules whether you like it or not. When you get out on your own, you can do whatever the hell you want.
Makeup is way overrated. It really isn't the worse thing to not use.
At some point, you're just going to have to stand up for yourself
Sounds controlling and abusive, must not have a man around so I guess your father is not around at all, you should stay at the college if you can but sounds like she wants you around to control
What? Wearing make up seems pretty lady thing to me
You don't care your mom, you are adult, live on your life
do it anyway !
What colleges r u applying to?
Don't wear it.
Do you have a job?
if you are 17, i'm 25 :D