Girls are really clueless when it comes to seduction all girls make the mistake of thinking its confidence no you gotta show your personality then of we see something that clicks a bit then we will engage maybe even start pursuing you instead I don't think your tips are very good
That was great. I love a woman who knows exactly what she's doing and is in control while understanding the necessity of making the man think that he is in control. It's a dance; all part of the game.
I might only be speaking for myself here, but to me, these tactics look manipulative. I usually walk the other way if these tactics are being used. If you are interested, then cut through the BS. Strike up a conversation about a common interest you two might have and go from there. Keep it honest. Don't play games. That's a real turn off to me.
I would say the number 1 thing is to simply show him that you are interested. Most guys get ghosted or rejected more often they are successful. Therefore, DO NOT WAIT 3-5 days to call or respond, all this will do is make the guy feel like you aren't interested, and will give up. And for the love of God, don't ever respond with just haha, lol, or just emojis. And to clarify on the "elusive hints" just make sure they aren't too elusive. Guys are famously bad at picking them up.
It really seems like you know what you're talking about. Very few people are able to get into all the details like that if they're asked, but that might just be because they're asked. This is not manipulation, it's just very, very strategic. But waiting 3-5 days to call might depend on the guy you're seducing.
I really appreciate that... I'm not sure why people keep saying manipulation. I'm not lying or trying to get anything besides a date. There's no hidden plan, no secrets. so I don't know why they are bitching
"Call him three to five days later. This shows him that he's not a priority to you and you have a life."
Well, then why the hell should he bother with you? He will get the impression you just don't care, and will quickly forget your insincere, contrived encounter.
Honestly all this is terrible advice, because anybody with remotely good sense can tell when someone is acting and everything said here just screams of trying WAY too hard. NOTHING about any of this comes off as sincere or even natrual, and if anything it will likely just piss a lot of guys off.
Interesting opinion on this subject. And these moves will work on plenty of guys, but not all of them. You also have to be flexible with him, as he may like you but not be quite ready for a "relationship." Therefore, you have to be willing to start as friends, and move forward at his place.
So the difference in me and you. I didn't judge or make jerk comments on your mytake going actually upvoted it. Wither I agreed or not I'm not going to demean your writing.
Well that's exactly what you did.. and that's sad because I have not judged or made negative comments about your writings. Guess I deserve less for some reason
All very good points. But I doubt the average woman has the confidence to pull even step one off, let alone all of them. To a lot of them, their idea of flirting is ignoring the guy and hoping he approaches them.
or more over that she will have the upper hand of the... situation, whitch should never happen... they are not accountable enough for this kind of power... that means i gotta get her number no matter what
but... if i think about it, pursuing her number... is a simp activity just like talking about yourself too much... or complimenting her too much before establishing your place... but overall, your strategy is intresting...
That's too long and unnecessary on someone like me. I'm way too direct with words. If you want to be in relationship with me then tell me so. Otherwise all of this won't work. Also I don't like talking about myself. I listen most of the time. I think all of this will work on certain types of men but not all of them.
I’ve never done any of that, at least not on purpose and if so it certainly didn’t work out. when you notice someone the whole room notices you noticing each other but it isn’t intentional.
Gosh I shut down in front of a guy I am interested in. No amount of planning and self pep talks have worked so I dont think this works for everyone. Maybe I just have been around the block enough 🤔
My advice find out if He is sexually active with anyone or if He is alone. If He is alone then make Your move and if He is attracted to You He will reciprocate. I mean lets be honest a man will never turn down sex if He finds You attractive and especially if He has went through a long dry spell. My EX for example We were friends first and when I saw Her for the first time it was like something slapped Me in the face and My first thought was damn She could be a model. Well She was dating an acquaintance so She was off limits in My book so I just acted like Myself which I'm very playful and when I'm happy My friends are always laughing around Me. We were watching a cheesy 1970's action flick and of coarse I'm a very irritating person to watch a movie with because I'll either narate or point out all the stupid scenes. Well in one scene they had a cheesy car chase and the primary car hit something and one of the fenders on the right side got damaged but in another scene it was not damaged meaning multiple stunt cars so I'm making fun of this movie and everyone is rolling around on the floor laughing except for the boyfriend. We would even go out dancing sometimes and I'd get a few drinks in Me and I'd go out dancing by myself because I just didn't give a damn I just wanted to have fun where as Her boyfriend was acting like a stump on a log sitting down all night.
So She saw Me as the one man party and saw Her boyfriend as a bore so She eventually broke up with Him and started coming by to hang out with Me. We started doing stuff together as friends because neither one of us was sure how the other felt so We played it safe. I believe the first date We went to an Italian restaurant and back to Her place to watch a movie. As We were watching the movie She went to the bathroom for some reason and when She came back She mounted Me like a cow girl because She was horsing around and without hesitation I kissed Her and needless to say I never finished watching oceans 11 until maybe 12 years later. The point I'm trying to make is She made the first move and I reciprocated and after playing around for a week or two I actually fell in love with Her because our personalities fit perfectly like a glove.
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Girls are really clueless when it comes to seduction all girls make the mistake of thinking its confidence no you gotta show your personality then of we see something that clicks a bit then we will engage maybe even start pursuing you instead I don't think your tips are very good
If a girl did what you just suggested I would be disinterested
I'm 0: disclosed
so I guess I pick different type
That was great. I love a woman who knows exactly what she's doing and is in control while understanding the necessity of making the man think that he is in control. It's a dance; all part of the game.
Thank you.❤️
I might only be speaking for myself here, but to me, these tactics look manipulative. I usually walk the other way if these tactics are being used. If you are interested, then cut through the BS. Strike up a conversation about a common interest you two might have and go from there. Keep it honest. Don't play games. That's a real turn off to me.
I would say the number 1 thing is to simply show him that you are interested. Most guys get ghosted or rejected more often they are successful. Therefore, DO NOT WAIT 3-5 days to call or respond, all this will do is make the guy feel like you aren't interested, and will give up. And for the love of God, don't ever respond with just haha, lol, or just emojis. And to clarify on the "elusive hints" just make sure they aren't too elusive. Guys are famously bad at picking them up.
It really seems like you know what you're talking about. Very few people are able to get into all the details like that if they're asked, but that might just be because they're asked. This is not manipulation, it's just very, very strategic. But waiting 3-5 days to call might depend on the guy you're seducing.
I really appreciate that... I'm not sure why people keep saying manipulation. I'm not lying or trying to get anything besides a date. There's no hidden plan, no secrets. so I don't know why they are bitching
They're just pissy because no one's going to seduce them. But don't worry about them, after a while they'll just be background noise.
Thank you
You're welcome 😊
"Call him three to five days later. This shows him that he's not a priority to you and you have a life."
Well, then why the hell should he bother with you? He will get the impression you just don't care, and will quickly forget your insincere, contrived encounter.
Honestly all this is terrible advice, because anybody with remotely good sense can tell when someone is acting and everything said here just screams of trying WAY too hard.
NOTHING about any of this comes off as sincere or even natrual, and if anything it will likely just piss a lot of guys off.
Sure
Interesting opinion on this subject. And these moves will work on plenty of guys, but not all of them. You also have to be flexible with him, as he may like you but not be quite ready for a "relationship." Therefore, you have to be willing to start as friends, and move forward at his place.
I have friends already it's yay or nay
That was a similar hypothetical. But some guys will be that way.
Okay
I see
Nah. I dont have time for such guys
@kim45456 I know right...
Hmmm... not bad. A lot more gumption than the majority here, for sure.
Thank you I think
Not the worst advice, but still it got a hard groan from me.
Women, smh.
Okay thanks
In summary:
Go and talk with the guy, and show some interest on meeting in the future.
You just come to be a jerk or?
You are overthinking the process.
Jerk got ya thanks for your kind words and support
So the difference in me and you. I didn't judge or make jerk comments on your mytake going actually upvoted it. Wither I agreed or not I'm not going to demean your writing.
What miserable person does that? Demean a girl because others liked here writing BETTER.
Well I guess you!
The purpose was never to diminish the writing.
Well that's exactly what you did.. and that's sad because I have not judged or made negative comments about your writings.
Guess I deserve less for some reason
Sorry to sound cold, it wasn't my intention just my humor in that moment in time.
All very good points. But I doubt the average woman has the confidence to pull even step one off, let alone all of them. To a lot of them, their idea of flirting is ignoring the guy and hoping he approaches them.
I know I'm not normal 😔
confidence is everything. This was well thought and planned out. Seduction is an art overall
Thank you it's taken years to learn
is there a male version of this post?
by the way lexy was my nick name that my girlfriend used to call me with lol
If a male writes one there is. Not from me
not gonna lie even this question gave me a hard on :-s damn it, girls!
I do what I can..
That's all nonsense. It is all about looks, wealth, and status. Either you have it or you don't.
Sure dude hate on
this is crazy... so crazy, it just might work... be careful out there... Q _ Q they tryna get us...
It works
For girls
now i know... never to give a gal my number... cuz she gonnna play me
Or call you
or more over that she will have the upper hand of the... situation, whitch should never happen... they are not accountable enough for this kind of power... that means i gotta get her number no matter what
Best of luck to you
but... if i think about it, pursuing her number... is a simp activity just like talking about yourself too much... or complimenting her too much before establishing your place... but overall, your strategy is intresting...
Thank you
That's too long and unnecessary on someone like me. I'm way too direct with words. If you want to be in relationship with me then tell me so. Otherwise all of this won't work. Also I don't like talking about myself. I listen most of the time. I think all of this will work on certain types of men but not all of them.
You are. Talking about yourself now
Because I'm suppose to give an opinion here. That's why. Otherwise you'll find it different in real life situation where you'll be unknown to me.
Still just a random guy talking about himself
And you're being stubborn now
I’ve never done any of that, at least not on purpose and if so it certainly didn’t work out.
when you notice someone the whole room notices you noticing each other but it isn’t intentional.
Most woman won't approach men at all it seems. I've been in big rooms I guess nobody noticed
Gosh I shut down in front of a guy I am interested in. No amount of planning and self pep talks have worked so I dont think this works for everyone. Maybe I just have been around the block enough 🤔
I think most are more shy and more laid back then myself
My advice find out if He is sexually active with anyone or if He is alone. If He is alone then make Your move and if He is attracted to You He will reciprocate. I mean lets be honest a man will never turn down sex if He finds You attractive and especially if He has went through a long dry spell. My EX for example We were friends first and when I saw Her for the first time it was like something slapped Me in the face and My first thought was damn She could be a model. Well She was dating an acquaintance so She was off limits in My book so I just acted like Myself which I'm very playful and when I'm happy My friends are always laughing around Me. We were watching a cheesy 1970's action flick and of coarse I'm a very irritating person to watch a movie with because I'll either narate or point out all the stupid scenes. Well in one scene they had a cheesy car chase and the primary car hit something and one of the fenders on the right side got damaged but in another scene it was not damaged meaning multiple stunt cars so I'm making fun of this movie and everyone is rolling around on the floor laughing except for the boyfriend. We would even go out dancing sometimes and I'd get a few drinks in Me and I'd go out dancing by myself because I just didn't give a damn I just wanted to have fun where as Her boyfriend was acting like a stump on a log sitting down all night.
So She saw Me as the one man party and saw Her boyfriend as a bore so She eventually broke up with Him and started coming by to hang out with Me. We started doing stuff together as friends because neither one of us was sure how the other felt so We played it safe. I believe the first date We went to an Italian restaurant and back to Her place to watch a movie. As We were watching the movie She went to the bathroom for some reason and when She came back She mounted Me like a cow girl because She was horsing around and without hesitation I kissed Her and needless to say I never finished watching oceans 11 until maybe 12 years later. The point I'm trying to make is She made the first move and I reciprocated and after playing around for a week or two I actually fell in love with Her because our personalities fit perfectly like a glove.