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Girls are really clueless when it comes to seduction all girls make the mistake of thinking its confidence no you gotta show your personality then of we see something that clicks a bit then we will engage maybe even start pursuing you instead I don't think your tips are very good
If a girl did what you just suggested I would be disinterested
I'm 0: disclosed
so I guess I pick different type
That was great. I love a woman who knows exactly what she's doing and is in control while understanding the necessity of making the man think that he is in control. It's a dance; all part of the game.
Thank you.❤️
I might only be speaking for myself here, but to me, these tactics look manipulative. I usually walk the other way if these tactics are being used. If you are interested, then cut through the BS. Strike up a conversation about a common interest you two might have and go from there. Keep it honest. Don't play games. That's a real turn off to me.
I would say the number 1 thing is to simply show him that you are interested. Most guys get ghosted or rejected more often they are successful. Therefore, DO NOT WAIT 3-5 days to call or respond, all this will do is make the guy feel like you aren't interested, and will give up. And for the love of God, don't ever respond with just haha, lol, or just emojis. And to clarify on the "elusive hints" just make sure they aren't too elusive. Guys are famously bad at picking them up.
It really seems like you know what you're talking about. Very few people are able to get into all the details like that if they're asked, but that might just be because they're asked. This is not manipulation, it's just very, very strategic. But waiting 3-5 days to call might depend on the guy you're seducing.
I really appreciate that... I'm not sure why people keep saying manipulation. I'm not lying or trying to get anything besides a date. There's no hidden plan, no secrets. so I don't know why they are bitching
They're just pissy because no one's going to seduce them. But don't worry about them, after a while they'll just be background noise.
Thank you
You're welcome 😊
"Call him three to five days later. This shows him that he's not a priority to you and you have a life."
Well, then why the hell should he bother with you? He will get the impression you just don't care, and will quickly forget your insincere, contrived encounter.
Honestly all this is terrible advice, because anybody with remotely good sense can tell when someone is acting and everything said here just screams of trying WAY too hard.
NOTHING about any of this comes off as sincere or even natrual, and if anything it will likely just piss a lot of guys off.
Sure
Interesting opinion on this subject. And these moves will work on plenty of guys, but not all of them. You also have to be flexible with him, as he may like you but not be quite ready for a "relationship." Therefore, you have to be willing to start as friends, and move forward at his place.
I have friends already it's yay or nay
That was a similar hypothetical. But some guys will be that way.
Okay
I see
Nah. I dont have time for such guys
@kim45456 I know right...
Hmmm... not bad. A lot more gumption than the majority here, for sure.
Thank you I think
Not the worst advice, but still it got a hard groan from me.
Women, smh.
Okay thanks
In summary:
Go and talk with the guy, and show some interest on meeting in the future.
You just come to be a jerk or?
You are overthinking the process.
Jerk got ya thanks for your kind words and support
So the difference in me and you. I didn't judge or make jerk comments on your mytake going actually upvoted it. Wither I agreed or not I'm not going to demean your writing.
What miserable person does that? Demean a girl because others liked here writing BETTER.
Well I guess you!
The purpose was never to diminish the writing.
Well that's exactly what you did.. and that's sad because I have not judged or made negative comments about your writings.
Guess I deserve less for some reason
Sorry to sound cold, it wasn't my intention just my humor in that moment in time.
All very good points. But I doubt the average woman has the confidence to pull even step one off, let alone all of them. To a lot of them, their idea of flirting is ignoring the guy and hoping he approaches them.
I know I'm not normal 😔
confidence is everything. This was well thought and planned out. Seduction is an art overall
Thank you it's taken years to learn
is there a male version of this post?
by the way lexy was my nick name that my girlfriend used to call me with lol
If a male writes one there is. Not from me
not gonna lie even this question gave me a hard on :-s damn it, girls!
I do what I can..
That's all nonsense. It is all about looks, wealth, and status. Either you have it or you don't.
Sure dude hate on
this is crazy... so crazy, it just might work... be careful out there... Q _ Q they tryna get us...
It works
For girls
now i know... never to give a gal my number... cuz she gonnna play me
Or call you
or more over that she will have the upper hand of the... situation, whitch should never happen... they are not accountable enough for this kind of power... that means i gotta get her number no matter what
Best of luck to you
but... if i think about it, pursuing her number... is a simp activity just like talking about yourself too much... or complimenting her too much before establishing your place... but overall, your strategy is intresting...
Thank you
That's too long and unnecessary on someone like me. I'm way too direct with words. If you want to be in relationship with me then tell me so. Otherwise all of this won't work. Also I don't like talking about myself. I listen most of the time. I think all of this will work on certain types of men but not all of them.
You are. Talking about yourself now
Because I'm suppose to give an opinion here. That's why. Otherwise you'll find it different in real life situation where you'll be unknown to me.
Still just a random guy talking about himself
And you're being stubborn now
I’ve never done any of that, at least not on purpose and if so it certainly didn’t work out.
when you notice someone the whole room notices you noticing each other but it isn’t intentional.
Most woman won't approach men at all it seems. I've been in big rooms I guess nobody noticed
Say that you are still untouched then it will turn them on.
I'm not lying to them.