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Welp, I'm an idiot...

Woman disappointed.
Woman disappointed.

OMG! He did like me.. Wtf... he was just really subtle and shy. I was shy too and he just never knew that I liked him because there were times I just couldn't look/approach him and when I had perfect opportunities to talk to him alone at places he knew I would be, I bailed on them.

He wasn't ready to make a move yet because it was too soon. That's why when I asked him out for coffee (I didn't even imply as a date, just to hang out) he said yes but wasn't looking for anything serious right now and it's also why he was hurt that I decided to resign -- because he wouldn't be able to see me around anymore. He never said that he wasn't interested. He just wanted to slowly but surely know me better. He hides his emotions so well but I just now figured it out. I have to be more open and approachable! *facepalm*

All the signs were there but I thought if he didn't make a move it's because he wasn't comfortable doing it yet. His exact words were "If we dated we would have to let HR know and it would be awkward af". He's a private person so that makes sense. He would get so nervous around me, I really thought he hated me even though I haven't done anything at all to him. Acting so awkwardly that it's something I've never experienced in my entire life.

My crush played it so cool when we talked. But he was also always gazing at me, getting tongue tied, looking down even when I'm wearing something really nice... Nonverbally giving attention, sighing like he didn't have a chance, froze up and just scared that he might say the wrong thing to me.

It may take a while to get this to work, but once he's ready and confident enough (hopefully I will be too) things will follow through and definitely change. If there's any big progress I'll post them here! Hopefully I'm not too late!

Welp, I'm an idiot...
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