I'm So AWKWARD, how do we make out?

[gymnastdontneedballs]

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while, sure we have kissed but never made out. were both a little awkward because this is the first real relationship either of us have had. I really want to try making out with him, but were so awkward! and he is so much taller then me, so that doesn't help the awkwardness. Is it ok for me to initiate the make out session or should I wait till he makes the move first? and any tips to help lessen the awkwardness?

[Anonymous]

I say just try to relax, chill, perhaps sit next to each other on a comfortable couch ( so it can be easier since he is taller and you re not familiar with it yet) watch a movie or something then you make a move on him like playing his hair or ear or sth then lean closer to him and keep it simple...and smooth

Then look deeply in his eyes and kiss him softly on his lips.. kiss him again , remember to breath and keep going, try more tongue action and then try to move your hands from his head to his neck, kiss his neck and ears, nibble a little.. kiss his fingers and suck on one of them perhaps..make it last long and take your time while doing everything and remember to breath and don't think about every move you make just go with the flow.

but remember to read his signals and body language , if he responds, then keep going...if not.. slow down and back off!

[gleamgirl]

You will seriously look back on this moment and laugh. Since this is both of your guys first time, no one has serious expectations. It is natural, so do not be that intimated. He is thinking the exact same thing. If it makes you feel better, my boyfriend and I were eachothers first boyfriend/girlfriend and we never made-out before eachother. It took over two months before we both had the courage to try it. It took a couple of laughs, but we finally got it down. Do not worry, you will be filled with nerves and excitement when it happens!

[mochamix]

i definitely agree with the whole sitting down thing , because its so much easier, initiate a kiss which I understand you have done it a lot and then take it from there if he's smart he's gonna pick it up and go with it

as for the awkwardness every "first" thing is awkward but then you gain experience and you become better and you look back and laugh at those old times so yea enjoy it even if its awkward !

[Ollie]

You could have him sit down, they you sit on his lap and then make out.

That should remove the height issue.

And you know what? I say you should make the first move. And if he were to ask me who should make the first move, I'd tell him that he should make the first move. People need to stop relying on others to make moves! I shouldn't have any effect on the relationship whatsoever if you go first. If anything it will speed it up and get you where you want to be. As for the awkwardness, it's inevitable. Time and experience are both good healers. If he's an awkward person himself and he knows it, then he won't mind a mistake or two, he'll just be glad he didn't make it >_<

Hope I helped :)

[Gerrard4000]

The "first move" thing is very true :)

[Ollie]

Yeah, it's like people are just being lazy lol.

[Tipu03March]

Dear...heigt is not an issue between love but before you move ahead make sure that you both are realy feel for each other and love each other...as you both are young or I can say to young better to give sometime to yourself then think and move ahead...

[Irishguy3]

Just be as comfortable and relaxed as you can and go in for a kiss. After that pull away then go in for another kiss then after that its history. Overtime you will just feel completely confident and it will be very natural and you will gain experience. It's a great experience and someday you'll look back and laugh at yourself for making it seem so nerv-racking and awkward when it's not. It's simple! Have fun!

[Standingpretty]

This reminds me of when me and my first Boyfriend were going out. At first, it was even a struggle to get him to kiss me, considering I was his first kiss. Then, after that first kiss we would kiss longer and build up kissing each time until one day, he stuck his tongue in my mouth which, was kind of akward at first, but as we did it more times I grew to LOVE it! Just, ask him to start it then do it more and more until you get used to it. Hope that helps!

[Anonymous]

my guy and I had over a foot height difference. I'm a shorty and he was super tall. let me tell you that is NOT a problem. you stand on your tippy toes, he bends down, it's all good. as for making out, I agree, at first it's probably easier to do it on a couch or something. just keep kissing him when he gives you a peck...

[Gerrard4000]

Kiss him, then kiss him again, keep doing it and making each kiss longer and you'll soon start making out :)

[hockeyboy19]

I would innitiate if I was you, he prob feels the same way, but I'm guessing ur both pretty young, and he prob inst exactly sure how to innitiate, try not standing, like cuddling or something, that could help