Conversations that go NOWHERE!

[Anonymous]

ok so there is this guy that I started talking to a while back, but here lately I find that he has changed and is really annoying (in the way that he bores me out of my freaking mind)

i don't know how to get rid of him without being mean, he's really sensitive and clingy...drives me crazy!

he told me that he loves me and he see's things in me that no other guys do. but I felt like it was all a bunch of crap, and even worse when I realized that's how he truly felt I saw him as a wimp or gay even... help I don't want to be mean but I really am not attracted to him, what to do

(for further emphasis on my situation here's an example)

him: this ice cream is so damn good

me: oook lol guys'n food

him: wats that mean

me:idk

him: are you calling me fat?

me: no

him: ur mean why are you calling me fat?

me: I wasn't lol

him: mango icecream is really good

him:did you not hear me?

him: Hey!

me:lol I heard you haha

him: wats so funny?

him: what are you doing?

DRIVING ME CRAZY!

[InquisitiveMale]

Just tell him you're not attracted to him. Why is it women always feel the need to lay down some big and elaborate smoke screen. You're not doing him any favors by trying to be the nice girl. He's not going to end up taking anything from the relationship if he doesn’t know what he did wrong.

I like to think you always get something positive out of a relationship whether it sinks or swims. You should ether get self enlightenment or a meaningful long-term relationship, otherwise, it’s just wasted time.

[rwb0027]

You just have different languages that you communicate with. Stop beating up on him and do the responsible thing: tell him the truth. Don't lead him on or pretend to be his friend - that does nobody any good. Stop being a bitch and just be a bitch. =)

[Asker]

I understand that I come off as using him, but I told him that I didn't like him like that at all and he just got really mad, but he said that he would rather have me in his life this way than no way, yet he tells his friends that he gave upon me. if he did why won't he back off. I'm trying to avoid being a "bitch".

[mstoya]

lol I have a friend like that too and itz really no easy way of putting it jus try to start the conversation and talk about something interesting and if da conversation is still going nowhere just give him a couple minutes of ur time a day and tell him you'll call him back later so his feeling won't be hurt or you could just be completely honest and tell him you are bored with the the conversation and you do not like him in that way! Hope this helps!