depends... however, it usually means that he is interested. the guy im dating he asked for my number online and we met he asked and im so happy i did! best decision i have made. he is so loving and incredibly sweet puts me on a pedal stool he's amazing! I love real men... like him <3
I don't give a guy my real number if I don't want him to have it If I don't want him to have me... even if I'm in a relationship. Mabe her boyfriend isn't treating her right or he's not giving enough attention now she just needs to see that someone at least still likes what he sees. Or mabe she likes to imagine the idea of a relationshipwith someone else. Or mabe she's lying for extra attention. You know. Playing hard to get. I know if I'm in a relationship every guy wants me. Because it's a challenge. Check the situation out and see where it leads and then ask her if she doesn't admit what she's doing, drag it out of her, make her speak what she feels.
i wouldn't neccesarley think it was a date. But I would assume you liked me and that you wanted to get to know me better to maybe actually ask me out on one
She must be stupid, because MOST girls would assume you were interested in dating. I'm sorry she wasn't more upfront with you, because that's really shitty of her.
My guess is... she's not super happy with her boyfriend and is testing the waters.
No smart girl is going to assume a guy wants to be friends, if she is approached and is asked for her number and to hang out. Especially when we are adults, not kids.
Well I guess I must be pretty stupid. Because a while ago my coworker asked me to lunch but I don't think he meant it as a date. I think he just being nice because I'm The shy girl.
I am very good at picking up ~interested vibes~ from people (more so if I'm not interested in them but ANyWAYS) but if I can tell he's interested in me then I usually assume that he's wanting to get to know me better before taking me out on a date but if I don't think he's interested then I just think he wants to be homies, which is cool!
I think this girl knew exactly what you meant when you asked her to hang out. So she is either very flirty and/or doesn't care about her relationship, or she is in a bad place in her relationship and convinced herself that you were only wanting to be friends so she wouldn't feel guilty about hanging out with you
I feel it's a little weird she said yes to hanging out and she has a boyfriend. I understand that you need to make friends someway and hanging out lets you get to know each other. If I had a boyfriend I probably wouldn't say yes to hanging out. I know girls can have guy friends but I feel like you have to make them before you get into a relationship.
If you were asking me for my number I would assume it's for a potential date. Maybe she didn't tell you on the spot about her bf bc she didn't want to be a rude girl. I don't think its arragont to assume. People should give themselves more credit for someone asking for their number!
depending on the tone of the conversation i would usually think he was asking for a date so id make sure to ask if he meant as friends or not first (although this is awkward to do as it makes the girl look a little big headed to ask him if he meant on a date) but as you said hang out i too would have thought you were just interested in making friends and that was it
Holy clap... This happened to me with a girl at my old job. This girl was always staring at me and flirting with me. We hanged out a couple times and it was all good then out of nowhere she starts talking about a bf. That day really killed me cause that girl was beautiful
Sounds like to me you were asking her out on a date. She could have given out her number because she thought u were nice, but if she was loyal to her boyfriend she wouldn't have done that. Maybe she's having trouble in the relationship or wants to let you know that hey, i'm in a relationship but I'm open if someone better comes along.
Honestly, I would think if a guy asked me for my number, this would mean he would be asking me out! If a guy wasn't interested, he definitely wouldn't have taken the time and energy towards asking in the first place. In this case, even in the scenario of you two being together, one-by-one in a café, that kinda seems like a date-vibe.
Honestly I would think you were looking for a friend, I met a guy that wanted to hangout with me he asked for my number and everything and everyone thought I was going on a date, but usually hanging out is more of a friend type of thing, but I could be wrong haha.
I think there are two most likely scenarios. One is that she probably thought you might have asked her out, but wasn't sure because hang out is kind of vague. So she agreed so she could find out later without coming off as self involved or something. The other is that, after your hang out or whatever... she found she wasn't that into you and used the boyfriend + innocent didn't realize this was a date situation reasoning to let you know she wasn't interested in taking things further.
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It depends. If we'd talked quite a few times already, and he wasn't being flirty, I'd assume he's asking with the intention of being friends.
But if we didn't talk that much beforehand I'd assume he intended to ask me out.
In the situation you described it would be the latter. But hey, some girls are clueless
If a guy asked me to hang out or for my phone number. I would just think that he might be interested in me and might want to start a relationship. For me if they didn't then i just take it as they aren't interested.
It depends on the attitude you give it. A guy asked for my number a month or so ago and he hasn't made really any advances in either direction which kind of upsets me but good luck sir :)
I think the girl here had a good idea of what you meant but was playing dumb simply because she was enjoying the exchange, it's a crap thing to do and guys do that too
I think in today's day and age most women would think that the guy just wants to hook up with her. Its amazing how the culture just in 10 years can change so dramatically getting a girl's number now these days doesn't mean as much as it once did like in the 70's, 80's, and 90, s As men are evolving psychologically and how the culture is changing so are women in the world of dating and observing their counter parts behavior.
It depends on how the situation went down and how the conversation goes between us two. But generally, if it was a random guy that asked for my number that i talked to a few times.. then i'd assume he was asking me out.
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depends... however, it usually means that he is interested. the guy im dating he asked for my number online and we met he asked and im so happy i did! best decision i have made. he is so loving and incredibly sweet puts me on a pedal stool he's amazing! I love real men... like him <3
I'm glad for you! I hope things will pick up for me too.
I don't give a guy my real number if I don't want him to have it
If I don't want him to have me... even if I'm in a relationship. Mabe her boyfriend isn't treating her right or he's not giving enough attention now she just needs to see that someone at least still likes what he sees. Or mabe she likes to imagine the idea of a relationshipwith someone else. Or mabe she's lying for extra attention. You know. Playing hard to get. I know if I'm in a relationship every guy wants me. Because it's a challenge. Check the situation out and see where it leads and then ask her if she doesn't admit what she's doing, drag it out of her, make her speak what she feels.
i wouldn't neccesarley think it was a date. But I would assume you liked me and that you wanted to get to know me better to maybe actually ask me out on one
If you had a boyfriend in this situation, would you still agree to go out? Or would you let me know that you weren't looking for a relationship?
I wouldn't agree to go out. But I don't know if I would tell you I was in a relationship
She must be stupid, because MOST girls would assume you were interested in dating. I'm sorry she wasn't more upfront with you, because that's really shitty of her.
My guess is... she's not super happy with her boyfriend and is testing the waters.
No smart girl is going to assume a guy wants to be friends, if she is approached and is asked for her number and to hang out. Especially when we are adults, not kids.
Well I guess I must be pretty stupid. Because a while ago my coworker asked me to lunch but I don't think he meant it as a date. I think he just being nice because I'm The shy girl.
I am very good at picking up ~interested vibes~ from people (more so if I'm not interested in them but ANyWAYS) but if I can tell he's interested in me then I usually assume that he's wanting to get to know me better before taking me out on a date but if I don't think he's interested then I just think he wants to be homies, which is cool!
I think this girl knew exactly what you meant when you asked her to hang out. So she is either very flirty and/or doesn't care about her relationship, or she is in a bad place in her relationship and convinced herself that you were only wanting to be friends so she wouldn't feel guilty about hanging out with you
I feel it's a little weird she said yes to hanging out and she has a boyfriend. I understand that you need to make friends someway and hanging out lets you get to know each other. If I had a boyfriend I probably wouldn't say yes to hanging out. I know girls can have guy friends but I feel like you have to make them before you get into a relationship.
If you were asking me for my number I would assume it's for a potential date. Maybe she didn't tell you on the spot about her bf bc she didn't want to be a rude girl. I don't think its arragont to assume. People should give themselves more credit for someone asking for their number!
depending on the tone of the conversation i would usually think he was asking for a date so id make sure to ask if he meant as friends or not first (although this is awkward to do as it makes the girl look a little big headed to ask him if he meant on a date) but as you said hang out i too would have thought you were just interested in making friends and that was it
Holy clap... This happened to me with a girl at my old job. This girl was always staring at me and flirting with me. We hanged out a couple times and it was all good then out of nowhere she starts talking about a bf. That day really killed me cause that girl was beautiful
Sounds like to me you were asking her out on a date. She could have given out her number because she thought u were nice, but if she was loyal to her boyfriend she wouldn't have done that. Maybe she's having trouble in the relationship or wants to let you know that hey, i'm in a relationship but I'm open if someone better comes along.
Honestly, I would think if a guy asked me for my number, this would mean he would be asking me out! If a guy wasn't interested, he definitely wouldn't have taken the time and energy towards asking in the first place. In this case, even in the scenario of you two being together, one-by-one in a café, that kinda seems like a date-vibe.
Honestly I would think you were looking for a friend, I met a guy that wanted to hangout with me he asked for my number and everything and everyone thought I was going on a date, but usually hanging out is more of a friend type of thing, but I could be wrong haha.
you sure are a naive one.
How so? I was just sorta going by what happened with me a little
I think there are two most likely scenarios. One is that she probably thought you might have asked her out, but wasn't sure because hang out is kind of vague. So she agreed so she could find out later without coming off as self involved or something. The other is that, after your hang out or whatever... she found she wasn't that into you and used the boyfriend + innocent didn't realize this was a date situation reasoning to let you know she wasn't interested in taking things further.
It depends. If we'd talked quite a few times already, and he wasn't being flirty, I'd assume he's asking with the intention of being friends.
But if we didn't talk that much beforehand I'd assume he intended to ask me out.
In the situation you described it would be the latter. But hey, some girls are clueless
If a guy asked me to hang out or for my phone number. I would just think that he might be interested in me and might want to start a relationship. For me if they didn't then i just take it as they aren't interested.
Finally someone gets it.
It depends on the attitude you give it. A guy asked for my number a month or so ago and he hasn't made really any advances in either direction which kind of upsets me but good luck sir :)
I think the girl here had a good idea of what you meant but was playing dumb simply because she was enjoying the exchange, it's a crap thing to do and guys do that too
I guess it's possible.
I've seen people do it, and yeah, it's a silly thing to do, man or woman.
I think in today's day and age most women would think that the guy just wants to hook up with her. Its amazing how the culture just in 10 years can change so dramatically getting a girl's number now these days doesn't mean as much as it once did like in the 70's, 80's, and 90, s As men are evolving psychologically and how the culture is changing so are women in the world of dating and observing their counter parts behavior.
It depends on how the situation went down and how the conversation goes between us two. But generally, if it was a random guy that asked for my number that i talked to a few times.. then i'd assume he was asking me out.