i went to this club where there is a pool but i wouldn't get in because people make out and stuff and he asked “Have you ever had sex in there?” But yeah whats with these questions.. why is he just interested in my love life? or wants to be friends?
It's *possible* that he's being friendly, but in my opinion, it seems more likely that he's looking to set up a side chick.
Is this guy high up on the attractiveness scale - does he get lots of female attention? If so, this behavior - while I don't endorse it at all - is to be expected. Such men have tons of female attention, and they are almost never monogamous - they don't have to be. Think about any young/hot movie star, music artist, or pro athlete, which are just somewhat more extreme examples: almost none of them are monogamous - they nearly all cheat. Why? Because they CAN, and because they're USED to sleeping with whoever they want, whenever they want, and so being in a relationship gets boring for them, and soon they are cheating. Well, the same is true with non-famous "hot guys" or "popular guys" - they have lots of women who want to be with them, and many will jump at the chance, even if they know they are in a relationship with someone else.
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