Shy guys, help me out! Was he saying he's not interested? (Page 3)
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I've had plenty of girls do this to me, just ask him if he likes you. It's puts us on the spot but he won't lie unless he's really shy
Yeah... He's pretty shy.
tbh this just comes down to whether he is attracted to you he could be trying to play cool but dosent know how so he makes you feel unwanted
Lol.
it seems to me that he wants to say something but he's kind of shy or just scared
He's pretty shy yes.
He's gaming you... extremely well. ABORT
? He's not a player. I don't agree to be introduced to that sort and I trust the people who introduced us.
well then he's just a guy who's somewhat interested in you but is either not sure how much he likes you, though he is aware of you, or doesn't know how to engage you in the next logical step. Maybe he's just busy.
I think all of the above applies to him.
Is it possible he likes men?
No. I know that for a fact.
Does he have a girlfriend?
Nope.
He is extremely shy... I think he had a past experience... which made him very...
There was people around us... I just don't get why he wouldn't give me a straight answer.. On if I'm bothering him by my invites... Or how I'm supposed to tell him I'm coming or give him invites... Just doesn't make sense. When I said your sister knew I was coming... He then apologized and said she works all over... Which wasn't the point... The point was. She could have told him I was coming...
Tell me his background, what type of guy is he and his interests. It might explain his confusing nature.
What do you mean? He's shy... At least around me... He doesn't talk to ladies much... Unless he knows them or they are married to his friends... He seems to have no problem talking to others... like most guys he's into sports... Which I already knew but he said it anyways when he declined the play... He mentioned sometimes he gets down and doesn't want to do things or other things come up in his long winded explanation of why he didn't respond to my invite...
Does he have depression?
He could like you but his interests are different than yours. It would make sense just to start getting to know him that you'd actually understand him explaining things.
So my suggestion is get to know him better before moving forward. It would be the best for both of you.
Yeah... Exactly how do I do that? He won't text me or call... so... We live in neighboring towns but between work and all... Its not like I can get over there often.
Based on what he said... I take it he suffers the blues sometimes... I think most of us do nowadays.
If that's the case, he might be interested in you then not interested in anything. It's also possible he is trying to give you warning because he doesn't want to bother you with his depression.
Don't give him attention for a few days maybe
We are not in school... We are older... so we don't see each other that often.
What ever happened to sentence structure? Or paragraphs?
Its late. I'm tired... Could you please answer the? Or just don't reply at all. I need advice.
Well if you talk in any similar matter in the way you type than I'd imagine he'd be equally as confused.
Nevermind. Obviously you aren't gonna be ant real help.
Speaking for myself but if you in anyway talk like that there is no way I'd be interested in you. May advice would be to actually talk to this person. I hope you know what I mean by that.
Our conversation was just fine. Quit being a jerk since you don't want to give advice on what I asked for.
Life lesson 101: sometimes people give you advice you don't want to hear, that in of itself doesn't dismiss such advice. As for me being a jerk look at Internet 101.
If he turned you down a few times, move on.
Only the one time. I guess ill try one more time...
One thing about guys.
If we really want you, we will try over and over again to hang out with you. So try two more times. If he keeps giving you excuses, then move on.
He'd shy, very shy. I do know that for a fact.
Seems as a no but mixed signals. Try ignoring him
That's hardly an issue as I don't see him that much unless I'm visiting my friend.
so if you don't have the ability to be close to him... no issues right? at all, regardless of how he reacts I mean.
Yeah. I just wanted a straight answer and all I got was more questions... He was soo worried about hurting my feelings... Does he realize that letting me think he wants to possibly spend time he's doing just that?
Straight answer: I don't think he knows what he's doing. Just reacting.
Obviously... telling me he doesn't like to give the wrong impression by texting or calling girls but touching me and standing pretty close... And laughing... Doesn't make sense.
Guys are seriously so weird ! I don't get them lol
The shy ones are on a whole different level to top that off. Oh well... He doesn't want me, fine. His loss. I was willing to take it slow and all as long as he put in SOME effort.
Yes his loss! trust me when you no longer pay attention to him anymore the tables will turn he will eventually notice that your no longer after him & he will start liking you that's just the way it is. Guys are weird, I say that you already did what you could & like you said it's his loss. Enjoy life & do you & you might even find some one better ! (:
first of all nobody wants to go watch a boring play xD
I beg you pardon. Broadway is pretty popular and lots of guys go. Just cause you don't... If that's all you got to add. Don't bother to answer. No one is forcing you.
he's probably not decided on what he wants.
He's like early thirties'. He should know by now.
Holy cow so many thoughts! My head would explode!
I get tired of typing all that to everyone that ask but no one is forcing you to answer dude.
What I'm saying is, "relax." No one is insulting you.
What's that got to do with the question?
The thing is, you're making the situation more complicated than it has to be. It shouldn't require this much thought if you have fun.
If I had fun? Huh? It was a conversation. Some of it a little serious when I was trying to discover if he wanted me to send invites or if it was a bother. Which he didn't actually answer...
Yes He likes u
These Things
I have done them
Huh?
I did these things in past
Well it seems to be a contradiction between what he says and does.
Because He likes You and He is A shy guy
So, He feels shy talking to u
Try giving him less attention for few days.
I don't see him every day... So I don't think that would work.
really interesting questin
Really interesting answer.
tyvm
to many excuses. he not interested
Lol! I know right? He's seems to have an aversion to actually saying no for some reason. He's never told me no, just... I'm not really that kind of guy etc... I'd rather him say no then that tbh.
he is a girl
Bahahahahaha! The first thing to make me laugh today!
Sounds unbalanced
Huh? Sounds like mixed signals to me.
I have no clue.. tbh