My boss told me NOT to wear mini skirts in the office but I love them I think they are sexy. How else can I flaunt my figure without mini skirts?

[Anonymous]

I want to show skin cos I have a good body lol. How else can I show off my figure?

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+1 y

Omg... Please, this is not supposed to be a debate on whether or not I should look sexy in the office. I've already made up my mind that's what I want so just need people's opinions on how to do that :) seems like most people want to try to talk me out of dressing sexy but that wasn't the point of my question thanks :)

[Hannah591]

You shouldn't be focusing on how sexy you look in work, what's important is the work you do. It's unprofessional to try to look sexy in work all the time.

I would recommend long pencil skirts. I wear long skirts a lot and I feel so much sexier in them. You could have a tight figure hugging one, a free flowing one which shows off your bum but has a really feminine look or one that shows some skin. I have all three types and I love them all.

Some examples:

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[Asker]

I like the first shorter one but probably wouldn't wear the other ones personally.

[Hannah591]

Have you ever worn one? You'll feel sexy and feminine within seconds.

[Asker]

I've tried those long skirts on in shops and they just don't look good on me for some reason lol. It's like my figure just disappears when I put it on lol. I like the idea of the middle one with the slit up the thigh I might try to find something like that but knee length.

[smilesarenice]

I like all the pencil skirt suggestions but a really nice fitted suit with a skirt is nice to. Especially if you have a nice chest. Get the suit tailored to you and you can wear a button down under but not the ones that go up to the neck. The vneck ones. I saw the post about the shorts and although those are a bit short you can find nice dress ones that you can wear pantyhose under and nice heals with and that would be sexy. I see no problem with following dress code and looking sexy. Get it girl

[sammy_31]

You aren't thinking straight here. If your boss asked you to stop wearing something then do it, it isn't appropriate, wear your skirts when you're not t work. You shouldn't be wanting to how your body off at work you are they to WORK NOT GET ATTENTION! Just saying

[Asker]

Read the question properly and you will realise how dumb u sound lol. The question is how do I flaunt my body WITHOUT wearing a mini skirt. You are telling me to wear mini skirts when not at work. Who's the one not thinking straight here?

[sammy_31]

Wow I am not using Gag on mobible

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Anyway... I read it too fast and don't care I already answered, basically don't wear them to work. Super tight and tiny is a no no google does wonders have you heard of it before? I hope you check it out.

[lumos]

I don't think the office is the right place to show off your body. If you want to show more skin, go to the beach. Stay professional in the office and follow the rules.

[Asker]

Obviously I have to do what she says and follow the rules so I have stopped wearing mini skirts. Just need to think of new ways to show off my body without violating the dress code lol. For example the dress code doesn't state that you aren't allowed to show cleavage so I am doing nothing wrong if I do that.

[lumos]

Why is this so important to you though? Can't you just wear revealing clothes when you're not at the office?

[Asker]

You just don't get it lol. It's just my personality. I like flaunting my body not all girls do you are obviously one of the girls that don't.

[lumos]

But you can be yourself outside the office. In the office you're supposed to act and dress professionally. And in my book, dressing professionally means not showing excessive skin (legs and cleavage). I don't mind showing skin in the summer by wearing shorter shorts and crop tops. But there's a time and a place for everything. If you want to express yourself through your clothing, you should do so during your free time. Not when you're at work, where it serves absolutely no purpose.

[Asker]

I'm not saying I should be completely myself cos that wouldn't be appropriate. I want to tone down my normal self for the office but still have show some sex appeal without being too over the top.

[lumos]

But you don't need sex appeal at the office. Come on now.

[genuinlysensitive]

Of hand I would say either skin tight pant suites, for whatever reason no one blinks an eye at those. Or if you need to show off some skin try finding a skirt that has a high slit up the side, I don't know what the weather is like there, typically women can get away with much less in terms of tank tops and spaghetti strap tops when its hot. Also, i didn't hear her say anything about your neckline...

[Asker]

Yea I'm thinking I will buy some skin tight pants, also the skirt with a high slit up the side is a great idea! Not a mini skirt but still shows thigh, genius lol.

[zorro8888]

May I introduce to you... Pencil skirts

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and... More pencil skirts

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[Asker]

Now that is sexy especially the 2nd one :)

[zorro8888]

I'm glad you like it!
I think they're the same except that the second one has a belt on the waist and is showing her legs.
Those legs are really sexy lol

[Asker]

I like the top she's wearing in the 2nd one it shows skin without being slutty.

[Hidden_P]

This question just baffles me. Mostly because my jobs I have to wear a uniform.

The way I see it, work is where you work. Work isn't where you try to pick up guys, make people horny, piss off the other women, etc etc. You do some work. But you know, depends where you work I suppose?

Why can't you just wear form hugging knee length skirts and leave the mini skirts at home? I mean there could be a range of reasons why your boss has requested for you to stop wearing mini skirts - maybe people have complained, maybe she's jealous, maybe it's in the work guidelines to have a sensible length skirt (it was at one of my old jobs) and at the risk of being slightly rude... maybe people feel your too old for them? I think really if she has requested you stop you respect the fact it was probably quite a tricky conversation for her to have with you and in return not wear them.

[Asker]

The question baffles you because you have to wear a uniform? So you are straight away saying you have no idea what you are talking about since you are not in my situation lol. Yes work is work but we are also human and part of being human is wanting to look attractive and for some people that involves some sex appeal. I thought I made it clear in the question that I want to flaunt my figure WITHOUT wearing a mini skirt, meaning that I accept I can't wear a mini skirt and have no intention to? So why are you telling me to "leave the mini skirt at home" when I had no intention of wearing one anyway? You are extremely narrow minded and immature if you can say that a 30 year old you you have NEVER seen or met is too "old" for a mini skirt lol. What are you basing that on - the image you have of me in your head? Lol. You have no idea what I even look like. I'd like to see you say it to my face because I am older than you and look way better than you anyway lol :)

[Hidden_P]

I have worked in an office before where there were no uniform but there were regulations, eg, women weren't allowed to expose their shoulders. It baffles me that it means so much to you to be able to "sexy" at work.
The way you have phrased this sounds as if you are resentful that you can't wear your mini skirt at work. I only meant don't wear it anyway as a rebellious thing.
I'm not saying that 30 is too old to wear a mini skirt, I said that some people think it's too old.
As you rightly said I don't know what you look like. All I have is your word that you are gods gift to men, for all I know you could be a 400lb hippo squeezed into a skirt. I find it amusing how you are accusing me of hiding behind a keyboard when you are anon and slagging me off? I didn't say anything nasty to you, you flew off the handle at me.

You might be older than me but it seems I've got a few more manners than you.

And I'm clearly not the only person who picked up on your feelings, re your update.

[YourFutureEx]

Well it's unprofessional to flaunt in the office but if you really wanna show off your legs then go for pants.
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[Asker]

Lol I'm pretty sure shorts like that would be just as bad as a mini skirt.

[YourFutureEx]

Then the only option left is yoga pants.

[BuchitaBuchys]

If you really wanna flaunt your body, perhaps you should reconsider your career.
Maybe you're better suited to be a stripper?
You can show off your goodies all you want there.

Otherwise, if you're a supposed to be a professional, act like one.

[Asker]

Omg relax lol and if you're not gonna answer the question your not even helping anyway.

[Asker]

You are a tomboy anyway according to your profile so what would you know about fashion, being feminine or sexy lol.

[BuchitaBuchys]

But I am relaxed.

I answered your question. I provided you with solutions. It may not be what you wanted to hear but this is an open forum and beggars can't be choosers on the responses they get.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Yes, I'm a tomboy. I'm reserved and very conservative when it comes to clothing.
Yes, I have the sex appeal of a dirty sock.

But it's not as bad as you think. I don't *need* men to oggle me all the time. It's not the end of the world if I drop a pencil and no man is checking me out. Especially at work. Cuz I'm concentrating on, oh, you know. Working.

[spuitkaas]

Maybe a skinny jeans with a form fitting blouse or a form fitting dress with belt. Something like this:
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It still looks sexy because of the colour and because it's still form-fitting.

[Asker]

Thanks :) You are right, I never thought to wear red but it's is such a sexy colour. I usually wear more soft colours like blue, pink, purple etc. also black / white but I will look for red next time I go shopping.

[spuitkaas]

You have to look for the right colour of red though. Bright red looks good at me because I have a pale skin and blonde hair. I think marine blue is also pretty with these kinds of dresses.

[Asker]

Yea there are some reds that are kind of diluted that just make your skin look washed out. I think the bright red is best. I also have blonde hair and fairish skin.

[headstomper]

Why do you wanna flaunt your figure in the first place? What exactly are you trying to prove? Are you even sure you have a good body by standard? If I was your boss, won't give you a warning. I'll punish you instantly by letting you wear a burka!

[Asker]

Haha what do you mean why do I want to flaunt my figure? The same as any other girl would want to flaunt their figure... I'm not trying to prove anything I just think I look better when I am flaunting my body. I don't know why you are asking me, I thought everybody wanted to look good, well this is how I think I look my best. She can't give me a warning cos I stopped wearing mini skirts.

[headstomper]

Well there's other ways to look good and strutting with your stuff peeping out from under isn't one way to do it. You'll just end up looking like a hooker. But hookers are paid to do it so it's fine but you on the other hand aren't. I view girls who dress like this as nothing but a booty call and I'm sure most guys do. Do you want to be just another booty call?

[Asker]

I don't want to look like hooker. You can show off your body without looking like a hooker you know lol.

[headstomper]

Well, I have more respect for a hooker than for a girl who isn't one but dresses like one. Really, don't get me wrong, I'm just concerned, but if you keep on doing that, you might get sexually assaulted and I really hate it when things like that happen. Maybe you could try a tailored suit instead at work. Suits really bring out the shape of a person while leaving the rest for imagination. Don't you like that?

[Asker]

Lol wtf? I don't dress like a hooker and I wear less revealing clothes on my work days than the majority of girls who are walking around the streets every day. Are they all going to get sexually assaulted too?

[TheLoverNotHater]

Yep. One outta four.

[chrisbigman]

You shouldn't be looking to flaunt your figure at work. You should be looking... to work. I'm sorry, but I'm siding with your boss on this one. If you wanna show some skin, wear it during happy hour.

[chrisbigman]

Then it truly will be happy hour - for the guys and probably you.

[Asker]

Lol this is not supposed to be a debate on whether it's appropriate for work or not it was just a question on how I can flaunt my figure without violating the dress code!!!

[chrisbigman]

I never imposed or intended to impose the debate on whether it's appropriate for work. I said, "you shouldn't be looking to flaunt your figure at work." Read the above comment again. If you really want to cause yourself trouble and flaunt your body at work, then that's up to you. Just about anything you wear should be fine. But like I said, you'd be causing yourself trouble.

[Asker]

So just cos u r at work u don't care about what u look like? I highly doubt most people don't think about their appearance at work. Otherwise everyone would just wear a uniform.

[chrisbigman]

I care that I look professional, but not sexy. If I'm considered sexy when I look professional, then I can't help that. The boss wants all of his employees to look professional, not necessarily sexy. Most people think about their appearance at work, but in a professional way.

[springocelot]

pencil skirts and pencil dresses

pencil dress
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[Asker]

So sexy!

[dricky2011]

maybe thats why he doesn't want you wearing them, he wants you to work, in your workplace, not flaunt yourself

[Asker]

I can work and flaunt at the same time lol! She is probably just jealous lol. I don't see a problem with flaunting my figure and I want to do it more cos she told me not to lol but I also don't want to get in trouble so will stop with the mini skirts just need to think of new ways to show my body off.

[dricky2011]

change jobs, become a stripper or something, if showing yourself off like that is what you want to do then go somewhere where the guys want to see it, and just so you know there is a good chance that although the guys in your office might like looking at you, you are putting yourself out there as nothing more then sleeping with material nothing more

[Asker]

Lol I never said I wanted to look like a stripper. Wow you are very narrow minded, if you are going to say all that stuff about me you might as well say the same about the majority of young girls you see walking down the street lol.

[dricky2011]

there is a difference, everything in its own place, i just hope you not on here in a few months asking why all the guys you work with look at you like the want to fuck you but none are interested in asking you out on a date

[Asker]

I never said I wanted to date any of them anyway lol. I have known them long enough to know that!

[dricky2011]

can i ask why you flaunt your body in a place where you are not interested in any of the guys there, or is it the females attention that you are trying to attract

[Asker]

I want to flaunt it because it looks good. I have a good body so why would I want to cover it up lol. What sort of question is that?

[dricky2011]

just wondering, sound like you enjoy being a tease, everyone to their own i guess, enjoy

[Endeavor]

How needy are you that you have to wear mini skirts at your job?

[Asker]

How is wearing a mini skirt needy? If I'm needy that must make pretty much every other young girl needy too lol.

[itsallover]

Why is showing your body off at work so important to you? You're there to work and be professional.

[Asker]

It doesn't matter why it's important can't you just answer the question lol.

[itsallover]

Flaunt your body somewhere else. Done.

[Hopefuldreamer8]

Dress sexy outside of work. I don't see why you need to look sexy at work. Most companies won't let people dress sexy at work. Unless of course it's a bar or something.

[abundantlyrich]

You can't. Listen to your boss. Stick with a knee length skirt or find a new job.

[Asker]

Did you even read my question lol? I said how can I flaunt my body WITHOUT wearing a mini skirt. I never said I was going to keep wearing mini skirts. I have stopped wearing them because she told me to so now all I need is ideas of other ways to flaunt my body without violating the dress code.

[abundantlyrich]

Yes i have read it but mini skirts is a no. So what else? Nothing else. Deal with it unless you want to come with panties and get fired!! If not maybe you want to get a new job at hooters...

[Asker]

You obviously didn't read my question OR my comment below. For the 3rd time, I understand that mini skirts is a no. THAT IS WHY I NO LONGER WEAR THEM. Understand me?

[abundantlyrich]

I did read it, are you blonde or what? To me, there is nothing else to make you look sexy unless you want to work at the strip joint? How about that? FOLLOW the rules or QUIT your job.

[htown_stoner281]

maybe u should save dressing like a slut for the clubs and bars and respect ur workplace

[Asker]

Don't waste time trying to talk me out of it lol. The whole point of the question was - how do I flaunt my figure without wearing mini skirts, NOT how do I dress more respectfully lol. So your opinion makes no sense.

[htown_stoner281]

how bout u just wear leggings then

[Asker]

She told me off once for wearing leggings too the stupid b**ch.

[htown_stoner281]

wear skin tight pants then lol

[Asker]

That's a good idea I will keep my eyes open for some skin tight pants that are not leggings next time I go shopping. Thanks!

[htown_stoner281]

but hey if that doesn't work just wear a bikini lol

[htown_stoner281]

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[Asker]

hmu?

[htown_stoner281]

hit me up

[Dulcedulcexoxo]

A sexy woman doesn't need to wear clothes that are form fitting or suggestive. If you just are sexy naturally you can literally wear anything. SMH, wear pencil skirts.

[ThreeMonkeys]

That is not professional attire. Do that on your own time when you are socializing.

[Asker]

How does it affect you anyway? Why try to tell me what is appropriate or not. The whole question is asking advice on what I should wear to flaunt my figure without violating the dress code. Not asking advice about whether I should do that or not lol.

[MrsAssassinCreeder]

Long skirts can make you look sexy as well! I think guys get more interested when a girl covers up properly but able to show off her figure!

[SensualScribe]

Try a pencil skirt. I think those are sexier than mini skirts anyway.

[Strider90]

can't you show it when you're outside during your free time?

[Asker]

You are missing the whole point of my question lol. If that's what I was worried about I would've asked how do I dress sexy in my free time not how do I flaunt my body at work.

[Asker]

I want people's opinions on how I can show off my figure without wearing mini skirts or violating our dress code in the office. It is irrelevant what I do in my free time, the question is about in the office.

[bubble_tea]

formal dresses and form fitting skirts that stop right at or slightly above the knee.

[SatanClaus]

Dammit Its a professional environment so act like a pro will ya