Let their relationship run it's term. Imagine how you would feel if roles where reversed and YOU were his GF... He lied to you about having a GF, don't you think he would lie to others the same way? He sounds like a douche bag...
In my humble opinion you need to let him realize on his own which girl is better for him you or her. You could always show to him you that what he doesn't like about her he won't find with you. Just continually provide a better choice to him.
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How damn selfish can you get?! You want to destroy someone else's relationship just so you can get a certain guy. Actually no, I hope you do get together, you well deserve each other, and after he's played you for a while he can find someone else to tell he isn't serious about his current girlfriend. Selfish bitch.
You are a f***ing a**hole. She didn't know he was taken. She had sex with him and developed feelings for him and its natural to want something more with the jerk even if it isn't worth it.
well since you lost your virginity to him... YOu have to decide how important that was to U! Go with your instincts! if you really care about him... YOu should fight back to get him! but than again you don't wanna act desperate! He really has to care about you too! but if he doesn't care about u... or doesn't show any interest in you... try to back off a little bit! YOU deserve better... someone who cares about you and is as interested in you... as much as you are in him!
gawsh dammit, wait for the relationship to end first
you can still like him but that's not fair to his gf
so be patient let him come to his senses
he'll do it if he really likes you :|
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I say if you love him he is worth waiting for, Let the relationship run its course. The only thing about him is his lack of honesty , which would make me question if i wanted to continue with him. He is not married so he is not a bad guy for dating you , however intimacy and dating two women should not be something he can continue for a long period of time, it says a lot about his character if he is if he can. He should have been honest with you regarding his feelings for his girlfriend and gave you the option to make your decision about pursuing something with him. No one has the answers about what will be , be strong what ever you decide.
You don't...respect his relationship. Think about it for a second. If you can draw him away from some other girl, don't you think the same thing can happen when you two are together? There are rules - obey them.
stealing a persons boyfriend or girlfriend is just dirty...
if they break up then go for it, but don't try and wreck a relationship just because you like the guy.
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Stop thinking about which girl he is choosing. Think about why you would want to choose a lying cheater. Put yourself in the driver's seat and stop leaving this up to him. He's a jerk.
Nobody likes a home wreaker, and the sound of it, he has played you, messed with your heart and then left you there. Move on. You wil never break him and his girlfriend up.
i hate to say this but before I had slept with him I would have found out more about him and made sure he didn't had a girlfriend. and if he wanted only for sex and he knew he had a girlfirend I wouldn't sleep with him even if you wanted to. I'm sorry but you have been played and you could do so much better than that
Well, obviously his girlfriend is prettier than you. Boys and men can have sex with any girl cause love and sex are not connected together in men like they are in women.
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Let their relationship run it's term. Imagine how you would feel if roles where reversed and YOU were his GF... He lied to you about having a GF, don't you think he would lie to others the same way? He sounds like a douche bag...
In my humble opinion you need to let him realize on his own which girl is better for him you or her. You could always show to him you that what he doesn't like about her he won't find with you. Just continually provide a better choice to him.
How damn selfish can you get?! You want to destroy someone else's relationship just so you can get a certain guy. Actually no, I hope you do get together, you well deserve each other, and after he's played you for a while he can find someone else to tell he isn't serious about his current girlfriend. Selfish bitch.
You are a f***ing a**hole. She didn't know he was taken. She had sex with him and developed feelings for him and its natural to want something more with the jerk even if it isn't worth it.
well since you lost your virginity to him... YOu have to decide how important that was to U! Go with your instincts! if you really care about him... YOu should fight back to get him! but than again you don't wanna act desperate! He really has to care about you too! but if he doesn't care about u... or doesn't show any interest in you... try to back off a little bit! YOU deserve better... someone who cares about you and is as interested in you... as much as you are in him!
I know it's hard, but he played you. Time heals all wounds. You'll find someone soon enough. God bless.
gawsh dammit, wait for the relationship to end first
you can still like him but that's not fair to his gf
so be patient let him come to his senses
he'll do it if he really likes you :|
I say if you love him he is worth waiting for, Let the relationship run its course. The only thing about him is his lack of honesty , which would make me question if i wanted to continue with him. He is not married so he is not a bad guy for dating you , however intimacy and dating two women should not be something he can continue for a long period of time, it says a lot about his character if he is if he can. He should have been honest with you regarding his feelings for his girlfriend and gave you the option to make your decision about pursuing something with him. No one has the answers about what will be , be strong what ever you decide.
if you make him leave his girlfriend for you, then how will that make the other girl feel?
you would break her heart just to get the man you want?
thats despiccable!
He's a crappy boyfriend, both would be better of without him.
You don't...respect his relationship. Think about it for a second. If you can draw him away from some other girl, don't you think the same thing can happen when you two are together? There are rules - obey them.
stealing a persons boyfriend or girlfriend is just dirty...
if they break up then go for it, but don't try and wreck a relationship just because you like the guy.
Stop thinking about which girl he is choosing. Think about why you would want to choose a lying cheater. Put yourself in the driver's seat and stop leaving this up to him. He's a jerk.
Nobody likes a home wreaker, and the sound of it, he has played you, messed with your heart and then left you there. Move on. You wil never break him and his girlfriend up.
well.. I would say he is worth leaving alone, but if you sure you want a life of misery and drama, go for it.
Good Luck,
James
i hate to say this but before I had slept with him I would have found out more about him and made sure he didn't had a girlfriend. and if he wanted only for sex and he knew he had a girlfirend I wouldn't sleep with him even if you wanted to. I'm sorry but you have been played and you could do so much better than that
Give her a break she is a virgin, inexperienced and she has learned her lesson. But you are right.
Well, obviously his girlfriend is prettier than you. Boys and men can have sex with any girl cause love and sex are not connected together in men like they are in women.
You can't if it's who he really wants to be with that's who he is gonna be with and that's how it is
You are just a booty call for him, GET OVER IT! HE PLAYED You CUZ UR AN EASY BITCH.
DONT STELL OTHER GIRLS MAN, A$$ HOLE. GET UR OWN MOTHA FUKA
You are the bitch. We all get played eventually and then we learn and move on and don't make the same mistake.
BITCH!
go after that stupid bitch.then get ur guy back.
Thats Pertty Messed Up
how old is he ?