Lots of white guys just lack the confidence to approach. That goes for girls of any color.
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I'm a black girl &&I really like white guys, it's not that I don't like my race at all... I've just been more attracted to another, that's all. But I've been told that I'm racist against my own kind, I think I'm too good for black boys, etc. No none of that's true, I just have white guys, been that way since I was a little girl. I don't know if it's because of my grandmother marrying a white man or what... I just prefer white. I've dated black guys before, &&that was a big socket my family. Heck when I say a black looks good I get a weird look &&hear "did she just say a black boy looks good?" I find it retarded &&childish. So half of the time I don't even respond... point to all of this is IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE'S WHITE YOU LIKE WHO YOU LIKE. DOESN'T MATTER WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY.! I LOVE WHITE MEN &&I'M PROUD TO SAY IT.!
I'm usually assuming she likes black guys, I have no problem with black women in fact I've always wanted to be with one to try it so any black females hit me up ;)
I would not mind dating a black girl. There is more to the girl than just color. Society may play a big role in some white males opinions on them though.
Easy peasy, it has to do with where a person was born and the culture influence. For example, if persons were born in a black enviroment like in Africa, they will like black. However, some exceptions happen and media play a major role.
That could be it, but what's strange is that that's changing here in africa, I'm a south african black girl ( live in jhb) and because we are so mixed in schools and social situations, I see no problem in dating a white man. the differences in culture are what make for an interesting change....
Mostly lack of attraction. I'm attracted to fewer black girls than I am whites, hispanics, and asians. The few black girls that I am attracted to never top the list. I'm not racist or anything, I just don't find them as sexy.
i dated ALOT of white girls, I am white. dated one black girl. and I thought I knew what crazy was until I dated the black girl. sorry. don't wanna stereotype, but this is my experience. white girl crazy = where were you last night!
black girl crazy = faking a pregnancy when you break up with them!
Sorry about your experience, but not all Black girls are that way. You just got involved with the wrong one--but don't let that make you think that she represents all of us.
Hahahahahahahaha that's funny, but I'm sure ther have been an equal amount of white girls doing the same....it happens unfortunately...im so sorry for that hapening to you..so dodgy
This is sad but true. I come from a culture where men are generally brown (not very dark like South Indians, but brown). Even in our culture, the first criteria to consider a girl attractive is her being fair. So I think part of the answer is that somehow, color of skin is associated with being pretty.
But with respect to "black" females, there are probably some other factors that go against them.
As a White man have to say although I find Black women that have big hips, big lips, big noses, dark to very dark skin and a big ass totally very attractive they not the choice of woman for me. I really into White women of that have a deep olive complexion, decent lips, long hair, big hips and a big ass. I once in a while would date a Black woman but she had to have modest lips, hips, long legs , very light complexion and she must have a round small ass. more recently I choose to only date White women. To me sexy dark skinned Black women fit the saying once you get what you want you don't want it any more. If there is a moral to all this any one can choose to or not to date out side their race as long as they don't interfere with other peoples choices.
In general from experience black girls, have a lot of attitude and white guys hate that, they come off too rude. Plus it does'nt help that they generally don't give white guys a second look so they become intimidating to approach if you get my drift? So stereotypically white guys kind of just back off, Please take no offence to what I'm saying just stateing my view. But physically black girls are attractive. Hope it helps answer your question
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i don't think that's true,i have know problem asking a black girl out if I meet one that I find attractive, I only want to date black girls I'm just haven't been around many lately,i'm on 2 different interacial dateing sites,trust mei as least for me I don't have a problem with it,i've always found black girls to be cooler to hang out with and are better in bed,i will only date a black girl,i get turned on so much more,
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For me, I just don't much like black American culture. The culture of victim hood, the shouting, rudeness, the glorification of crime and violence, the sense of entitlement. I would date a black woman who was not culturally American black.
All black people are not the same that?s a dumb stereotype ..I come from a family of doctors and lawyers .. I never grew up in a area with lots of violence and crime so I wouldn?t really know any thing about that It makes me angry to here people say things like that about black people!!!!!!!You know nothing about the Black culture you only know what you see on TV which is really sad!
I think that you shouldn't give in to sterotypes, because I'm an African American and everyone in my family has a professional job. I grew up in the opposite of the "hood". If you just don't want to date a black person, then say that instead of stating that as a race we are all the same.
I certainly don't fit into your stereotype and I'm black British not American black. I don't live in the 'hood' or 'glorify crime' why do people stereotype cause it's a waste of time. You've judged my entire race to be the majority of the bull you just said does that mean I have the right to do the same to yours?
Many people have said the same thing, I agree with you to an extent. For example, a friend of mine who is an Italian American from New Jersey gets extremely upset over the exploitation of the "Mafia" hype. She's got dark hair and a tan and gets taunted with that "accent" among other things. I blame media.
I forget which comedian said it, but they said "Black girls just don't think white guys are attractive." Maybe that's why? I don't know. I think there are some amazingly beautiful black girls! Just hasn't happened I suppose.
To me, there are as many unattractive black girls as there is attractive ones. It's nothing to do with skin color or features. The problem with dating a black girl for me is what my friends/family would say.
Maybe they just don't know how to approach them... African girls are different a little. I've read an interesting article about it from website, and I want to date such a girl now. I am really excited :)
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Lots of white guys just lack the confidence to approach. That goes for girls of any color.
I'm a black girl &&I really like white guys, it's not that I don't like my race at all... I've just been more attracted to another, that's all. But I've been told that I'm racist against my own kind, I think I'm too good for black boys, etc. No none of that's true, I just have white guys, been that way since I was a little girl. I don't know if it's because of my grandmother marrying a white man or what... I just prefer white. I've dated black guys before, &&that was a big socket my family. Heck when I say a black looks good I get a weird look &&hear "did she just say a black boy looks good?" I find it retarded &&childish. So half of the time I don't even respond... point to all of this is IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE'S WHITE YOU LIKE WHO YOU LIKE. DOESN'T MATTER WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY.! I LOVE WHITE MEN &&I'M PROUD TO SAY IT.!
I'm usually assuming she likes black guys, I have no problem with black women in fact I've always wanted to be with one to try it so any black females hit me up ;)
Wtf?
Your such a loser
Lmao niceeee.
Lol and awwww
they aren't clothes you fool! shyt get lost
I don't mind being friends with black girls but for me I just don't find them attractive for some reason
I would not mind dating a black girl. There is more to the girl than just color. Society may play a big role in some white males opinions on them though.
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Easy peasy, it has to do with where a person was born and the culture influence. For example, if persons were born in a black enviroment like in Africa, they will like black. However, some exceptions happen and media play a major role.
That could be it, but what's strange is that that's changing here in africa, I'm a south african black girl ( live in jhb) and because we are so mixed in schools and social situations, I see no problem in dating a white man. the differences in culture are what make for an interesting change....
Mostly lack of attraction. I'm attracted to fewer black girls than I am whites, hispanics, and asians. The few black girls that I am attracted to never top the list. I'm not racist or anything, I just don't find them as sexy.
Well I personally find that I have ebony fever so idk
i dated ALOT of white girls, I am white. dated one black girl. and I thought I knew what crazy was until I dated the black girl. sorry. don't wanna stereotype, but this is my experience. white girl crazy = where were you last night!
black girl crazy = faking a pregnancy when you break up with them!
no thanks!
Sorry about your experience, but not all Black girls are that way. You just got involved with the wrong one--but don't let that make you think that she represents all of us.
YIKES!
Hahahahahahahaha that's funny, but I'm sure ther have been an equal amount of white girls doing the same....it happens unfortunately...im so sorry for that hapening to you..so dodgy
Well I'm a black girl and I've had white guys like me and hit on me. Or some just check me out and don't say nothing.
To answer your question, I think it's because they're afraid of rejection.
Well guys are afraid of rejection from any cute girls. I do admit yall have sum niiiice asses haha
This is sad but true. I come from a culture where men are generally brown (not very dark like South Indians, but brown). Even in our culture, the first criteria to consider a girl attractive is her being fair. So I think part of the answer is that somehow, color of skin is associated with being pretty.
But with respect to "black" females, there are probably some other factors that go against them.
I am just not interested in black girls that much...i do not find them that attractive to me. Not that they are not pretty I am just not attracted.
As a White man have to say although I find Black women that have big hips, big lips, big noses, dark to very dark skin and a big ass totally very attractive they not the choice of woman for me. I really into White women of that have a deep olive complexion, decent lips, long hair, big hips and a big ass. I once in a while would date a Black woman but she had to have modest lips, hips, long legs , very light complexion and she must have a round small ass. more recently I choose to only date White women. To me sexy dark skinned Black women fit the saying once you get what you want you don't want it any more. If there is a moral to all this any one can choose to or not to date out side their race as long as they don't interfere with other peoples choices.
In general from experience black girls, have a lot of attitude and white guys hate that, they come off too rude. Plus it does'nt help that they generally don't give white guys a second look so they become intimidating to approach if you get my drift? So stereotypically white guys kind of just back off, Please take no offence to what I'm saying just stateing my view. But physically black girls are attractive. Hope it helps answer your question
i don't think that's true,i have know problem asking a black girl out if I meet one that I find attractive, I only want to date black girls I'm just haven't been around many lately,i'm on 2 different interacial dateing sites,trust mei as least for me I don't have a problem with it,i've always found black girls to be cooler to hang out with and are better in bed,i will only date a black girl,i get turned on so much more,
For me, I just don't much like black American culture. The culture of victim hood, the shouting, rudeness, the glorification of crime and violence, the sense of entitlement. I would date a black woman who was not culturally American black.
All black people are not the same that?s a dumb stereotype ..I come from a family of doctors and lawyers .. I never grew up in a area with lots of violence and crime so I wouldn?t really know any thing about that It makes me angry to here people say things like that about black people!!!!!!!You know nothing about the Black culture you only know what you see on TV which is really sad!
I think that you shouldn't give in to sterotypes, because I'm an African American and everyone in my family has a professional job. I grew up in the opposite of the "hood". If you just don't want to date a black person, then say that instead of stating that as a race we are all the same.
I certainly don't fit into your stereotype and I'm black British not American black. I don't live in the 'hood' or 'glorify crime' why do people stereotype cause it's a waste of time. You've judged my entire race to be the majority of the bull you just said does that mean I have the right to do the same to yours?
So I guess we can throw out the good stuff of black american culture
music(jazz, r&b, soul, hip hop, blues, swing, ragtime, rock and roll, techno, disco, etc)
lots of dance styles
and blacks contributed a lot to art, science and the medical fields.
i guess we just have to ignore that huh?
Would you care to expand upon your definition of being,as you stated "culturally American black". I'm not being sarcastic hon,just curious.lol (:
Many people have said the same thing, I agree with you to an extent. For example, a friend of mine who is an Italian American from New Jersey gets extremely upset over the exploitation of the "Mafia" hype. She's got dark hair and a tan and gets taunted with that "accent" among other things. I blame media.
true culturally american black women do give a bad image to those that are black but not from america
Well I'm mixed so I just called my friend John and he said that he is scared of african amercian ladies because they argue alot... But not all
I forget which comedian said it, but they said "Black girls just don't think white guys are attractive." Maybe that's why? I don't know. I think there are some amazingly beautiful black girls! Just hasn't happened I suppose.
Well that comedian was completely wrong
Cris rock said it and its true for a lot of my friends but not for me
To me, there are as many unattractive black girls as there is attractive ones. It's nothing to do with skin color or features. The problem with dating a black girl for me is what my friends/family would say.
Maybe they just don't know how to approach them... African girls are different a little. I've read an interesting article about it from
website, and I want to date such a girl now. I am really excited :)
LOL... Did any of you know that Ann Coulter was dating Jimmie "Jay Jay" Walker?
All sorts of people get together for all sorts of reasons, evidently...
I really wish that race was not an issue . As it stands, I am fed-up with the world's BS.